| Pretty people get overlooked too you know.
Posted: 12/6/2007 5:56:54 PM | | Wow Im glad that Im average looking.It seems like the pretty people really have it rough.I cant imagine going to a party and not having men talk to me just because I was beautiful, I feel bad now because I always thought supermodels and actresses who were beautiful got dates, turns out I probably get more action than they do.Thank God for my average looks.... | |
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Posted: 12/11/2007 8:37:21 AM | | I've developed a "Cloak of invisibility" so that people cannot judge me for by my looks only. Works very well but I can't find the off switch, works too well. Hey over here !!! | |
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Posted: 12/11/2007 10:38:25 AM | I've developed a "Cloak of invisibility" so that people cannot judge me for by my looks only. Works very well but I can't find the off switch, works too well. Hey over here !!!
Maybe if you put your picture up on the site.
Oh, it IS? That cloak works!! | |
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Posted: 12/11/2007 10:44:05 AM | Tyger81382 then stop complaining. No one said to date woman who grossed you out or were 850 pounds with a beard . If the hot women you have been chasing wanted you one would of picked you out by now. Like usually stays with like . Hot woman usually stay with hot men. Sometimes they go for fat and or ugly men but only if the ugly men have money.
Where did i say hot men or women are ugly on the inside ?? | |
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Posted: 12/11/2007 11:35:41 AM | | Um why such a focus on looks. Seriously if thats all your about then what happens if your other half loses a limb. Anyway one mans meat another mans poison so hey if all you are inerested in is looks then what happens when you grow old and saggy. Thats why seemingly 'ugly' people tend to stay together longer..There is more to life | |
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Posted: 12/11/2007 11:54:11 AM | Sounds more like you are upset because YOU are the one that got played, and you assume that he should be grateful for your attentions because his looks are what YOU consider average and that you just assume you are more attractive.Your focus is on how ugly she is, but then u contradict yourself about saying that ugly people could be beautiful inside but you did not refer to her; but YOU are only focused on how ugly you think she is.
Looks are not everything, and I would rather date someone who thinks of THEMSELF as average but has a wicked personality and attitude which makes someone very appealing and way more attractive than the pretty boys (not all), and not worrying about that other people think he is not up to 'standards' on looks.I only care what I think. This is the same as people that assume I will be a bitch until they actually meet me, and judge me on what THEY percieve from a picture.
People judge way too much on looks, and being vain and making comments about his looks not being attractive just shows the shallowness on how you view yourself, and the real you is starting to show through.
The point of your thread saying you think you are being overlooked is more like you are jealous that an 'ugly' girl has a guy that you thought should have bent over backwards for your attention because YOU think you are attractive.
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Posted: 12/11/2007 1:50:00 PM | ^^^^Say it loud Sistah------loud enough so OP can hear it---IF she's even listening any longer? LOL
The problem with some "pretty people" is it's all on the outside and none ever seems to find it's way inwards. | |
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Posted: 12/11/2007 5:31:56 PM | | Thats why I do not have a picture up!! It is hard being a good looking women.most men are afraid that they will be turned down or I will drop them if something better comes along.I am a nice women and the men I have been with it was not only about there looks!what matters most is that the guy treats me well can make me laugh and is a nice man. I am a friendly women.I am tired of being hurt.I have been cheated on and treated like crap.I was going to give up on men but my friend said do not give up. | |
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Posted: 12/11/2007 5:33:14 PM | | Thats why I do not have a picture up!! It is hard being a good looking women.most men are afraid that they will be turned down or I will drop them if something better comes along.I am a nice women and the men I have been with it was not only about there looks!what matters most is the guy treats me well can make me laugh and is a nice man. I am a friendly women.I am tired of being hurt.I have been cheated on and treated like crap.I was going to give up on men but my friend said do not give up. | |
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Posted: 12/11/2007 5:38:36 PM | | I think sometimes men cant get past the looks....they think pretty women are just arm candy...so they cant find the depth in pretty people. | |
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Posted: 12/11/2007 5:43:45 PM |
It is hard being a good looking women Apparently this is the problem for most "normal" not overly good-looking men
I am a nice women we have to date
I am a friendly women schizophrenics
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Posted: 12/11/2007 6:14:43 PM | An unfortunate truth .. People look at members of the opposite sex differently - depending on their own self esteem and confidence. All too often someone who thinks their own self average or below in looks will look at someone They perceive to be above average (in looks) and determine that that person also thinks themselves better, the average to below reacts to Perceived rejection and doesn't even ask the Hottie out, of course blaming the "hottie" for being arrogant or thinking they are better when the "hottie" hadn't even spoke a word. ie: Belle speaks the truth.
Rejection is most often just a perception based on the low self esteem of the person who feels rejected and rather than dealing with their own issues - it's just easier to blame someone else.
I find peoples looks tend to 'change' as I get to know them. I've met some externally good looking people who on speaking got 'ugly' fast. I've also met people who aren't what most would call attractive (again externally) .. but on getting to know them have found many to be quite beautiful.
Looks mean****- or Not! lol The Real attractor is Confidence / Self esteem. | |
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Posted: 12/11/2007 6:39:08 PM | To me it seems the pretty girls are all stuck up here more then any where. Guess that is why they are still single? In reality I wouldn't be struck down so many times but here it seems that if she is not super over weight she wont even talk to me.
I am not really interested in the perfect body I only want a girl with a personality and a brain in her head. Is that so much to ask for? I guess so. (Yeah I am a bit bitter sorry)
I am just an average guy and it seems like no one will respond to me. I guess too many other guys have creeped all the women here so much that most of the women here are wasting their time because they just wont answer. Maybe I am wrong and I hope so but I don't know about that. | |
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Posted: 12/11/2007 6:43:21 PM | Bitterness, Negativity and whining are UNATTRACTIVE!
Would you really want to ask someone out if you read their posts or profile and all you saw was that poor me thing? Isn't dating generally supposed to be a FUN thing?
Intelligent women like a man who isn't looking for someone to mend their broken ego too ya know! .. geez
A.S.is
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Posted: 12/11/2007 11:21:55 PM | Dear Belle,
Walk away from it and move on. There are more good men and good women in this world than bad. There are oddly enough plenty of fish in this sea. I am 60 years old and have had three wonderful relationships spanning 22 years. I still love those dear friends and they me and sex is not part of it. I am on the total downside of a very pretty lady that I will probably never see again or want to. The others were just as pretty. Pretty or handsome is better than ugly and better to wake up to but the heart is the beauty in a person.
Belle, please, please, don't quit. There are many people of value out there and I will quote an excerpt from a novel. "We only go through this veil of tears once and there is only one rule. We never, never, never, never quit". Somewhere the right person is there Belle so hitch up yer britches gal and BELEIVE. Alan | |
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Posted: 12/11/2007 11:24:06 PM | Yeah.. it's an absolute pain being as good-looking as I am.. I mean, even I have a hard time talking to myself! }}CoughB/Scough{{ MAN.. I'd LOVE to have a year as a hansome, hard-bodied guy!I'm 6'3" and 260lbs.. and most women will cross the street, or the bar, if they see me coming. That's why I absolutely LOVE this on-line stuff. If you can get to actually KNOW me, you'll find I just bear a close resembelence to Satan, or Charles Manson,.. and I'm actually a pretty funny soft-spoken guy. Being a Biker doesn't help much either. Leather clad, jeans & tee shirts only appeals to a "certain" type of woman (not that I'm complaining at all.. I could tell you SERIOUS stories! ) But back in '02, I had a bad accident, and had to change my occupation from a greasy auto/bike mechanic, to selling insurance (that's right,. even wear a suit & tie!) You'd never know there was a dirty nasty biker lurking in that suit once I pull the hair back in a pony tail. Funny how the looks, or lack of, can make a difference in peoples lives. I've gone out with "model types"..but find that they're usually semi-socially retarded. Not having to work or strive for things can leave the mind in a bad state of atrophy, and makes for a person that can be quite shallow, and plastic, and have the durability of styrofoam. Not ALL are like that, but I've seen my share.
If you're incredibly good-looking, and "lonely".. I suggest you just get out there and walk up and let a person of interest,.. KNOW they are a person of interest! You can be more in tune with nature! You'll always see flocks of beautiful butterflies in the fields, congregating on a large pile of cow manure. So,.. My beautiful "social butterflies" Here I am!... your B/S awaits you!   | |
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Posted: 12/12/2007 4:29:27 AM |
I think sometimes men cant get past the looks....they think pretty women are just arm candy...so they cant find the depth in pretty people.
And sometimes these men are too busy trying to peer down a womans shirt---especially one who likes to show 'em off!
And then again SOME men have found that SOME "pretty women" don't have any depth so there's nothing to find no matter how much time and/or effort is applied!!
SOME people are just what they seem----pretty on the outside but not much inside. It's not a crime but it is a fact sometimes! | |
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Posted: 12/12/2007 7:24:08 AM | All my saturday nights are spent home wondering WHY I'm home on another Saturday night......
I know of a very beautiful lady who told me this one time that she was feeling so lonely. She is a nice woman as well as drop dead gorgeous.
I could not believe it!. She is a model and she says she feels lonely.
This is hard to believe, but it is possible. After all, a lot of very good looking people have attitudes and they only date within their range. If you consider that a lot of good looking and fit guys are players and dogs, you may be surprised, but a lot of gorgeous ladies are, indeed, very lonely. Just having sex all the time does not fill the void inside that only love, care and understanding can fill.
Others are good looking but average or less than average personality. Some beautiful women are so shallow that after a few words out of their mouths, you just have to walk away from them.
In the end, you go home by yourself. If you do not have good attitude and feelings inside, chances are you are going to go home and feel lonely most of the time. | |
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Posted: 12/12/2007 8:00:15 PM | | I know for a fact that I'd rather be with a not so good looking woman who is warm and friendly and good conversationalist than with arm candy that is stuck on her looks. I treat all women with respect but the fact that I'm just so so in appearance give them no right to expect me to bow down and kiss their feet. When they start acting that way they really start looking UUUUUggglleeeeee to me no matter what their outer features are. I love the plain janes! I'll take Mary Ann over Ginger any day! When I see a lady who is "over-decorated" I immediately sense the "too much mileage" syndrome. Don't get me wrong, I love beautiful women but I'll be damned if I'm gonna bow down to anyone just because of her appearance. I certainly do not expect that of a woman. My experience on this forum has been like a previous poster's .... I'm not a bad looking guy but 90% of the response I get is from over weight ladies who obviously have hardly marginal concern for their looks. Big does not bother me if she is still fit. My personal preference is somewhere less than obese and more than bones alone. I need one who can climb a ladder and tote a load of wood then dress up to go out to a fine restaurant for a business meeting. I don't need arm candy air heads for that... hmmmm....maybe what I need is 3 women...one to luv me and keep me warm, one to do all the work I need done, and one to show off at business dinners..... ya, that will work. | |
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Posted: 12/13/2007 7:24:07 AM | I will not denigrate OP's personal experience, it was obviously very painful. But I simply do not accept that there are large numbers of pretty people alone, and I believe in things like UFOs, Bigfoot, and the Loch Ness Monster. There may be a few that fell through the cracks, but by and large the pretty people have all the attention they need. The reason the rest of us think the Pretty are already taken is because they usually are. I've seen it many times. A pretty person may seem to be alone, but I watch long enough and someone will come along and they'll start slobbering. The "Cheerleader Syndrome" is a myth. It is the un-Pretty People, like me who are alone. Pretty People have snubbed me when I didn't even ask. Pretty People are given more opportunities, which admittedly many of them have worked hard for and to keep, but the un-Pretty will have to work twice as hard to keep half as much, and still be passed over in favor of the Pretty.
If a Pretty Person is alone, it is because they want to be. | |
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