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Posted: 3/18/2008 5:39:47 PM |
Pretty people get overlooked by the insecure, scared and ugly because they feel the Pretty Person is "out of their leauge"
Would you like me to show how many times people in the "pretty people" catagory tell everyone else that they ARE out of their league because by virtue of being pretty they are entitled to other pretty people??
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Posted: 3/18/2008 5:50:04 PM | | I agree with you and yet I have messaged alot of the pretty people, and not very many have ever given me the time of day.....you may be one of the few, thats a good thing... | |
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Posted: 3/18/2008 5:53:51 PM | GOD!!! These so called "Pretty people" Get on my nerves. For the most part i don't ask these pretty and know it kinda women out because there to stuck on themselves. If the original poster had said something besides "I am pretty and i know it" i might could have gotten behind her a little. It's post like that-that makes men not ask. It also makes them  | |
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Posted: 3/18/2008 6:08:08 PM | | never read so much crap in my life!!!! how on earth can you be that self absorbed? take a rain check yes there are pretty people in the world but you have to work hard to be one of them and i aint talking about the crap you are get a life girl and i dont want to hear your tripe no more | |
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Posted: 3/18/2008 6:11:48 PM | im so sorry i read half way and thought you were so shallow but having read the rest i understand what you are talking about  9it was st patricks day )
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Posted: 3/18/2008 7:58:03 PM | | I get tired of hearing all that crap. I guess I'm hideous because even the decent looking girls/ladies/women I aproach pretty much laugh at me . I know people usually don't realize how ugly they are but am I really that bad | |
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Posted: 3/19/2008 3:45:03 PM | I am answering this forum question honestly, although the many laughs I have received reading its pages and the good comments made me think of the plight here.
I did not believe you until after I read your comments, but:
1. In the Mid-south there are a lot of dances help at different non-profits each week. I was amazed last week when I asked a lovely lady to dance and she replied in the affirmative that she was afraid whe would be sitting there all night without being asked to dance by any of the guys.
2. At a mixer at a house I overheard the ladies chatting about this very problem and they were very nice looking ladies. One of them even commented, "Do men even ask out on dates any more".
3. At a grocery store I met this pretty lady as we were shopping.
Last week I would have thought that beautiful ladies' calendars and expectations for dating were always filled. Whoever was gracious enough to put up this thread was being very honest and open and I greatly appreciate it.
Who says old dogs cannot learn new tricks? Thank you for the great life lesson.
Thank you POF   | |
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Posted: 3/20/2008 1:12:01 AM | | I cant belive anyone would look at themselves as " the pretty people" talk about self absorbed. id love to buy the OP for what shes worth, then sell her for what she thinks shes worth. I had a woman email me and actually tell me " I am way out of your league, you need to concentrate on ugly women" so, no, pretty women NEVEr get overlooked. When 1000 normal guys email you, and the guy you think is "HOT" doesnt email you, that does NOT count as being overlooked!!!!! | |
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Posted: 3/20/2008 1:21:34 AM | Couldn't agree with you More TxLover... I used to work at a night club and would often see and hear the same thing...Mostly guys even though women do it as well.. Hit on the Average Joe because the feel they have a better shot and are affraid of rejection.. I had to explain this to this female friend of mine once who couldn't figure out why guys would never approach her but her friend who was cute but just extreemly over weight would have guys talk to her I had to explain to her that a lot of people are intimidated by beautiful people...Then I asked her what would be harder for you ? Starting a conversation with LL Cool J or Cedric the Entertainer ? LOL she then could see where I was come'n from...... I've learned its is soooo easy to talk to the pretty people because most of the time they're prejudge and left out because of their looks. And you best belive I take advantage of that lil secret LOL  | |
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Posted: 3/20/2008 4:51:34 AM | Dear god I lost interest about 2 lines in. After that it was all bla bla bla Im pretty and pretty people get over looked and its just not right  . Pick a subject and stick to it. As far as what is pretty different people find different things pretty. To me it sounds like someone who thinks to much about her looks got played and found out looks aint everything. Did I just say that? oops my bad sorry but its true  . | |
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Posted: 3/20/2008 1:07:42 PM | | Who is this guy here telling stories about pretty people getting over look. I would say 98 percent of the time they are so stuck up their ass about their looks that they wont give another person a try. Hell they get jobs easier, treated better by associates and teachers, the list goes on. I know this because research have favor the pretty people as well as life experience. They got all of this stuff, and they worry about getting overlook? These people are so damn greedy. You should write a book or something on how to hit on pretty people Mr. Hitch. | |
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Posted: 3/20/2008 2:28:21 PM | Hi Belle- I wanted to reply directly to you about this thread, but you're profile is set to "within 75 miles" ... makes e-mail a bit tricky! My only (for public) comment is that for those of us of more average appearance, at least we males, our appearance seems to weigh more heavily in the balance than it ought to -- and so those "beautiful" people tend to be quick and fast with the rejections when approached.
Me, I take a holistic view... I look at the entire person, inside (well, as best as I can as I get to know them) as well as outside.
Diver
(very fond of the Granite Brewery when in Halifax!) | |
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Posted: 3/20/2008 9:14:17 PM | | Pretty women have NEVER ONCE been overlooked!!! You have plenty of chances to be with men that you are LUCKY to even talk to, but you reject them for the losers that YOu think are hot. So when that idiot ignores you, you lie and say " we get overlooked too". No, you dont get overlooked!!! | |
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Posted: 3/20/2008 10:42:13 PM | I think for 37 I look good, yet, I have enough humility to accept the fact that I might not be every girl's type. Some like the Arnie look, some go crazy over the Beckham type, and there is nothing I personally can do about it.
Vanity is good up to a certain point, as long as it gets me out of the sack in the morning for a jog and gets me to the gym twice a week, I can live with that. I am grateful and humble at the same time for the fact that I am still alive and well, and I just hope that my spirituality will make me a much more attractive partner than my looks ever will.  | |
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Posted: 3/20/2008 11:00:38 PM | haha sorry but this did make me laugh
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''average looking or ugly person '' - and how many people have you just put down with them simple words. You may think your pretty and others may do too but to use such words is jus a kick up the arse! sorry for the choice of words but it's true. No-one is truely ugly. It doens't matter whats on the outside its on the inside wich counts. No no ove u can't have a face life or tummy tuck on your thought and opinions it isn't that kind of beauty.
two: ''I don't know if his UGLY girlfriend dumped him or not, I don't think so because she probably thinks she can't get anyone else. '' - I'm sorry to hear what happened but this just proves you don't have to be 'pretty' to get someone. It depends what guys you go for. The shallow ones who insist on us girls bein size zero, with make up, perfect skin, straight teeth. Them men make the real ugly people.
Just remember you may think your pretty and so may others and sure you may be a nice woman but if your not careful you may turn ugly on the inside posting things like that about 'ugly' people
thanks =]
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Posted: 3/20/2008 11:10:44 PM | Bet any one here five bucks that I can't get any pretty woman to go out with me on a date even if I was being nice about it.. If there are any pretty women around my area that would go out on a date with me and message me,, AND yes I am going bald;;;;;''   | |
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Posted: 3/20/2008 11:47:09 PM |
Hey! Now hold it right there, pal...I am NOT vain...
You're so vain, you probably think this thread is about you. Don't you? Don't you? Don't you? | |
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Posted: 3/21/2008 1:02:23 AM | Whiterain, shave your head and watch the date potential increase by TEN.
Here's the thing...CONFIDENCE, STYLE, SKILL.
Be Confident, even if you feel like three day old milk sitting on a porch, don't let anyone see it. Have brass balls that CLANG when you walk. If you don't believe that you do...work on it. Every guy has a lil angel on the right shoulder and a lil devil on the left...work to your left Never wear briefs. If you've not got a naughty twinkle in your eye...develop one!!
Style...HAVE SOME. Be the best dressed mofo in the place. Take a couple of Fred Astaire courses. A man who looks good and moves well is a billion times more exciting than a redneck in a wifebeater dribbling tobacco juice.
Skill...be EXCELLENT in the presence of women you would like to talk to. If naught else, ask them questions about themselves and then SHUT UP AND LISTEN. Take a course or two in Psychology, then realize that women have a completely different logic system.
B'sides, you only go around once in this life, might as well make the ride worthwile!
 I'm gonna have fun with whatever I do...when a gal wants to join the party, she's more than welcome...I guarantee that it won't be boring! 
My current gal is hotter than a five-alarm fire!! What did she see in an ugly 5.7 average guylike me?? THE ABOVE!! | |
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Posted: 3/21/2008 1:11:07 AM | Ah, the main reason pretty women get overlooked...some of 'em can be total bazitches. Beautiful, but as empty inside as a chocolate bunny.
Spend some time working in a topless bar...you quickly realize that beauty is ONLY skin deep...bazitch goes all the way to the CORE. If a gal doesn't have a decent personality, looks/acts snotty/preppy/annoying...she'll only get the kind of guy she deserves...and they are also from the shallow end of the pool.
Kinda funny though...the best guys aren't the Brad Pitts...they're usually the Lee Marvins. Dependable like an old Dodge Truck....rough-hewn...and have a solid sense of honor. | |
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Posted: 3/21/2008 4:53:03 AM | | Bigshrek ytou are sooo right...and the sad thing is...too many women have no CLUE what a confident guy is. They think the jerks seem confident, but they actually seem like cowards with NO self esteem | |
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