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lizzielyn

Joined: 11/25/2007
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Waking Up With A Broken Heart Posted: 2/24/2008 12:08:31 PM
I just read this poem I just wanted to tell you I love it. Lizzielyn

cody00wilder

Joined: 12/15/2007
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Waking Up With A Broken Heart Posted: 2/24/2008 12:53:05 PM
....HI ISSY, I READ YOUR POST, and all i can say is that TIME is the only answer....i''ve been going thru the same thing for almost one year now....i feel much better now than one year ago, but i still think of HER all the time....and probably always will....she called me just one week ago, to tell me she just got dumped and still thinks of me everyday and that she is sooo sorry for hurting me....and i have decided not to contact her, and it is exteremely difficult for me not to....because i still love her dearly.....however i do not trust her anymore....and i'm not sure i ever could now......and so for now, i think this, is what is best....i too dated a lot right away, but it did not help me out much.....but it was good to get out and live, and not be home THINKING.......i got into one short relationship, but i was really not ready for that yet, so i ended it and kept dating...i'm still dating and i think i'm ready to give a relationship with someone special a try now....but i'm still looking for that someone special.....do you think you could ever go back to this guy that hurt you.....and get over the pain....could you trust him again ???......do you think his and your love is strong enough for that.....because if you don't believe it is, then just keep telling yourself that, and let that help you through the healing process......good luck....

athena111

Joined: 6/20/2008
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Waking Up With A Broken Heart Posted: 6/23/2008 12:10:24 PM
I wake up every morning feeling devasted because the person I broke up with has moved on and is now living with someone. We were together six years and the breakup was 2 years ago and I am still in agony.

Wishes Granted

Joined: 3/6/2008
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Waking Up With A Broken Heart Posted: 6/23/2008 12:33:42 PM
double post... sorry!

Wishes Granted

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Waking Up With A Broken Heart Posted: 6/23/2008 12:44:28 PM
Women are in a "sellers market" - with this advantage, you have no moral ground upon which to claim a "broken heart". Your theory, dear fellow poster is lacking in one very important detail.... that being; quantity does not equal quality! What he's getting at is that when you're out having fun you don't think about stupid crap like exes... She should be out with her friends or out dating...not to find a mate but to have fun. I'm stuck in a situation where I can't... but if I could I wouldn't be sitting in this house while my ex is out there with her new bf... I'd be out chilling with my friend or hanging with some of the nice women I've met on PoF... That's true.. fun makes the memories dimmer, that is what good friends and family are for... but please, don't make some unsuspecting chickie the catalyst to your forgetting the one you actually love... cause when she make you all better.. then where will that leave her? Some men need to realize that women are not here for your healing process... get over one, before you jump on another... or, at least state where your head is at while your having your "cleansing".... please! got into one short relationship, but i was really not ready for that yet, so i ended it and kept dating... .. my point exactly!

CeeeCeee

Joined: 2/14/2007
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Waking Up With A Broken Heart Posted: 6/23/2008 12:55:03 PM
I moved 3000 miles to be with him, only to find out during our entire relationship he was writing love letters to his former girlfriend and then recently married another one who we both knew. I was left with no friends, not knowing my way around very well and a huge moving debt among other things. The hurt and humiliation I feel has not abated though it has been over a year..Well when you are young its no big deal, lovers come and go, when you are older things get tougher...I don't know what to do anymore. Isolated and alone it been a real hard road. And no answers yet... Cee

pyenest77

Joined: 7/22/2007
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Waking Up With A Broken Heart Posted: 6/23/2008 1:21:56 PM
I got dumped by text telling me that i had an email. It said it wasnt working when she had said a couple of days before that she loved me to bits. She wouldnt speak on the phone wouldnt answer texts was very weird went from speaking on the phone every day sometimes for a couple of hours to nothing. It hurts like hell.

mthomjmark

Joined: 2/27/2008
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Waking Up With A Broken Heart Posted: 6/23/2008 2:12:58 PM
I think what most people do when they lose a relationship is they start to romantacize how fantastic it was and how much they miss it. If it was that way you'd both be happy and together. Take it for what it was. In time you will get over this but dont beat yourself up and dont get to caught up in what you percieve it to be; look at if for what it was, turn the page and move on.

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