| Goddess,diva.princess,sassy---What do they mean? Posted: 12/22/2007 8:11:29 PM | hmmmmI have a 22 y/o daughter that Ive called Princess since she was about 6. I used to call her Duck Butt ( she used to waddle in her diaper) til one day she said " DAD don't call me that in front of my friends it emabarraces me". So Princess it was changed to and Princess it will always be. Oh Yea BTY my Boat is called Princess 2. Love ya Princess DAD | |
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| Goddess,diva.princess,sassy---What do they mean? Posted: 12/22/2007 8:14:28 PM | | What do they mean? You tell me and we'll both know, lol....I've seen that stuff too, and thought....ok, over confident are we? Lol, I'm just plain ole me, no goddess, diva, princess, or sassy somethin here...well, maybe sassy at times, lol...but mostly just plain ole me. I know that just reeks of insecurity to those "I am woman hear me roar" types, but it's the truth, not all of us are like that. | |
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| Goddess,diva.princess,sassy---What do they mean? Posted: 12/22/2007 9:02:36 PM |
Goddess: self-absorbed and delusional Diva: self-centered and demanding Princess: Immature-- oh grow up little girl Sassy: rude but we're all supposed to think it's "cute"." It isn't Yep that sounds about right. At leat that is the impression that I have when I read those things in a profile. | |
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| Goddess,diva.princess,sassy---What do they mean? Posted: 12/22/2007 9:47:22 PM | After reading all these posts. Having the user name of SassySky1..I am so glad that there is some people that bothered to read my profile. That some have emailed me.. I have also given this much thought. It seems that some people believe here that by having the word Sassy In my user name.. I am rude and enjoy it.. Which could farther from the norm..
I actually pity anyone that looks at a user name and immediately assumes something from it.. There is some one out here That I actually enjoy his posts from time to time. His name literally means someone " Dead". He is not near that.. Gee, I am glad I didn't assume on his name..What a waste that would have been. This also brings up another revelent point I learned to never Assume anything about anything when I was about 10.. if you do Assume something Usually you are going to make an A$$ out of Y and Me. this is only my opinion of course | |
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| Goddess,diva.princess,sassy---What do they mean? Posted: 12/23/2007 9:34:31 AM | | Your parents give you your real names,the users here pick their own handles.When I was in school a classmate came back to school one fall and demanded to be called by a different name,he said it was his middle name.It wasn't,he thought that he could change himself and become someone new just by pretending he was someone else,after a few weeks the novelty wore off and he went back to his old name,if he had actually wanted to work,he could have gotten ahead in school ,but he justed wanted to pretend to be someone new. | |
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| Goddess,diva.princess,sassy---What do they mean? Posted: 12/23/2007 11:41:57 AM |
This whole thread is so ridiculous... Then why ya here? Shoo fly…someone likes to fight. .or is this called ‘flaming?
BTW My user name? If you ever read the thread on user names you would know where mine came from.
Url please …wanna look…thanx in advance
yep foot in mouth fever. .
is this called 'bashing'
STILL A NOOB who will continue to ask til ....forever...
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| Goddess,diva.princess,sassy---What do they mean? Posted: 12/24/2007 3:33:23 AM | No it's not just you, I certainly see the 'red' flag, but I still always read the profile with an open mind. And if something strikes me as weird, I will ask them at some appropriate time to find out if that is what they really meant or not...most often it is NOT.
And if the profile is lacking, as many are (probably because so many other's make the same mistake and 'assume' the wrong thing) and if I am curious or interested, I will send them an email message and see if they respond.
Why is it that someone thinks they know another without actually meeting and talking face to face first.
And we wonder why most people make this harder than it needs to be.
"Look for a reason to include, not for a reason to not make the attempt" - interorl7
If you do that, you will have more dates and a better chance of meeting who you are looking for.
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| Goddess,diva.princess,sassy---What do they mean? Posted: 12/24/2007 4:13:08 AM | There's this one woman I know in real life that on her profiles everywhere, she really places a major emphasis on calling herself the a Princess, but not only in her screen name, but even in "mottos" or "slogans" in the profiles
I might have been an inside joke with people.
Then one dude saw her in RL, and said, "Oh, you're the one that thinks she's a princess, eh?" In a somewhat (maybe) condescending tone.
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| Goddess,diva.princess,sassy---What do they mean? Posted: 12/24/2007 12:33:56 PM | I agree. I mean, why would a guy want to be with someone who is actually at a point in her life where she loves and respects herself? That's insane! I've come up with a better list of names for girls to call themselves, and here it is:
1. "I think I'm ugly" 2. "I don't deserve to be treated well" 3. "Please, walk all over me, I deserve it" 4. "Call me names in front of my kids" 5. "Cheat on me, please!" 6. "I hope you're married!" 7. "I'm fat" 8. "I can't stand myself" 9. "Use me for my body" 10. "Bitter old woman" 11. "Jaded"
Let me know how those work for you. | |
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| Goddess,diva.princess,sassy---What do they mean? Posted: 12/24/2007 1:56:47 PM |
There is some one out here That I actually enjoy his posts from time to time. His name literally means someone " Dead". He is not near that.. Gee, I am glad I didn't assume on his name..What a waste that would have been.
Some dead guy? That is just weird. I once had a pet who was named after a wine valley in California. I used it as screen name on a forum years ago that discussed pets. At one point, a person wrote that my opinion was not that valid because I was obviously just a young female and belonged to a minority group.
They were set straight, but I thought it was strange that someone would actually put that much credence into a screen name and make the assumption of my gender, age and ethnicity based on it. The name had a sort of Asian flavor to it I suppose but the actual name was of Hispanic origins I believe. I have no idea how the person gathered my age from the name. Perhaps he/she thought I wrote like a Princess?
And I like a certain Sassy woman no matter what screen name she uses. Same applies to a certain person whose screen name actually indicates she belongs to another. Two of my favorite people. | |
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| Goddess,diva.princess,sassy---What do they mean? Posted: 12/24/2007 2:38:19 PM |
I am rude and enjoy it..
'Fraid I'd have to take issue with that. Never known you to be rude....sharp, funny...lots of other things.
I like the term sassy, and IMO it isn't sass as in "talking back" to someone, rather someone with their own mind and spirited. Not bad things at all! | |
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| Goddess,diva.princess,sassy---What do they mean? Posted: 12/26/2007 7:18:12 AM | It means in a nut shell you buy them for they are worth then sell them for what they think they are worth and retire laugh. RUN AWAY FAST If they have to list they are smart attractive all that and a bag of chips. You can never please them because they always think they are worth more. There is a reason they are single and good looking. They are great to look at. After that is all about the money | |
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| Goddess,diva.princess,sassy---What do they mean? Posted: 12/26/2007 11:15:02 AM |
It means in a nut shell you buy them for they are worth then sell them for what they think they are worth and retire laugh. RUN AWAY FAST
i just about sent u to my...ah..ur room  | |
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| Goddess,diva.princess,sassy---What do they mean? Posted: 12/26/2007 1:28:22 PM |
I mean, why would a guy want to be with someone who is actually at a point in her life where she loves and respects herself?
Of course every guy wants this in a woman. No brainer.
[Rant] Here's the catch: Real self confidence and self respect are quiet and don't need to be actively broadcasted. In most cases the profiles in question have fantastic photographs, professionally done or effectively photo shopped and almost always showing plenty of skin. The profile text is all about how great I am for whatever reason. We've all seen them and there are as many men in the category as women.
I want my woman to *be* confident--challenge me, keep me on my toes, I need that. But don't just say it and expect the same results.
The other half of the issue is first impressions. What's the first thing I see when I do a search? Your nickname (Diva123) and your picture (dressed to the nines in evening wear, showing enough cleavage to hide a small suburban community) sitting in an anonymous list of other women. How am I supposed to get that it's a joke with that kind of information? That profile doesn't even have a chance of being read by any kind of down to earth person. Never mind the fact that, ethically, you shouldn't judge a book by its cover. The reality is that people do more often than not.
Ideally, you should be able to do what you want with your nickname. Realistically, you have to understand that you're sending messages with it whether you mean to or not.
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-Steve-
Edit: Please understand that this isn't intended as an absolute statement. There are exceptions to every rule. | |
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