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 ooobaby77
Joined: 8/20/2007
Msg: 126
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Gees I never even realized the date of this thread....LOL
I wonder what happened?
 MY OH MY
Joined: 10/11/2007
Msg: 127
Why is he signing up on new dating sites when we are in a serious relationship?
Posted: 8/24/2008 6:50:06 PM

BUT, ever since we started dating I have found myself having a lot of trouble trusting him.

Without trust, you don't have a relationship. You didn't trust him dating, you couldn't really build a real relationship. You can't pretend or romanticize that he is any different than he really is. You either stay in this unhappy situation until you get tired of him looking for greener grass or you walk in on him checking out greener grass, or you can end it now and find a healthy relationship. If you go to end it, expect him to tell you everything you want to hear. That honeymoon will last a week and then he will be back to checking out the grass...

Of course I could be dead wrong...
 cheryls place
Joined: 8/10/2008
Msg: 128
Why is he signing up on new dating sites when we are in a serious relationship?
Posted: 12/27/2008 9:06:52 AM
Op if he is still on date sites. ANd you are in a serious relationship with you. He must not be as serious about the relationship as you are. He is basically biding his time with you until he can find someone better. Any man that is serious about a woman would drop any date sites he is on. Or he definately would not be with me.
 ~vhdc~
Joined: 10/1/2007
Msg: 129
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Why is he signing up on new dating sites when we are in a serious relationship?
Posted: 12/27/2008 12:25:09 PM
edit...had to rethink my statement on the above picture.... Honestly you need to put those bad boys away.
 TheDirtyBen
Joined: 8/25/2008
Msg: 130
Why is he signing up on new dating sites when we are in a serious relationship?
Posted: 12/27/2008 3:56:14 PM

ANd you are in a serious relationship with you. He must not be as serious about the relationship as you are.


Hmm..... I must not be in a serious relationship with myself.

I'm on here, looking to cheat on me with someone else!


How does that work again???
 minako79
Joined: 1/15/2009
Msg: 131
Why is he signing up on new dating sites when we are in a serious relationship?
Posted: 6/12/2009 6:51:02 PM
if you're gut feeling is telling you he's up to no good, you should really listen. he's got no respect for you at all, he's basically looking for a better greener pasture on the other side. he's not worth of it...

BUT....
IF... i'm serious with someone who has a pof profile here, logs in to check to chat with his friends, post forums like I do... no i wouldnt have problem with it... as long as we both fully discussed the word exclusive and we both have not single/not looking on our status.

There has to be equal trust on both relationships.
 zephyrmoon
Joined: 5/30/2009
Msg: 132
Why is he signing up on new dating sites when we are in a serious relationship?
Posted: 6/12/2009 6:57:26 PM
Oh my gosh, I had a look and this thread was started TWO YEARS AGO.

I would *hope* the OP resolved her problem long, long ago.

Her profile says she is "single/not looking," so she either stayed with the boyfriend in question or found herself a new one she can trust more.
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