| WTF is up with the double standard when it comes to sex toys?
Posted: 11/30/2007 11:30:57 AM | As for a woman using a sex toy on me..... Sorry but it's just not going to happen, If i am in bed with a beautiful woman the last thing i am thinking about is a sex toy. Everything i need to get me excited is live and right there infront of me. Ship the toys i will take the woman instead.
I think that having toys for either or both people is a great way to keep things interesting in the bedroom. Thinking that a toy will replace your partner is not the way to look at it. It makes things fun and sometimes a more intence orgasm. We ALL masterbate and if I have help with BOB wooo hooo.
If a woman is going down on you and wants to use say a bullet on your "boys" then let her, it is (I am told) such a great feeling. Yes a woman can please you with our tounge, mouth and hands but add a little vibration and OMG. As for us women, there is just something about adding a vibrator or dildo into the mix when a man is going down on me that just sends me through the roof, can you say multiple!! | |
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| WTF is up with the double standard when it comes to sex toys?
Posted: 11/30/2007 11:50:31 AM | "Well , guy do have pretty ugly toys"
Saying sex toys that's made for guys is ugly is actually an insult to ugly things. I have yet to see one toy made for a man that does not make him look like a sicko. The body parts ones are the worst i think, Can you imagine having to explain yourself after being caught using one of those things?.... I bet most guys would rather get caught doing a sheep. | |
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| WTF is up with the double standard when it comes to sex toys?
Posted: 11/30/2007 12:43:39 PM | I have to admit I have never actually seen a guy's sex toy, actually I have seen very few of the chick kind &
my basic reaction is WTF would anyone bother for? I read a lot of stuff about BOBs here on POF, but never
known of anyone who has one (or would admit to having one, anyway)
I really don't understand why people have such problems with sex, anyway. I went TOTALLY without for 3
years once & while I do tend to refer to that horrid dry spell, as the 3 years from hell I realize that sex is
not the most important thing in life, or even in a relationship. Men & women are often somewhat mis-matched
in the libido/sex drive department, it's simply something that you are going to have to learn to deal with.
Especially as you get older, compatibility in other areas, becomes even more important. | |
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| WTF is up with the double standard when it comes to sex toys?
Posted: 11/30/2007 2:33:44 PM | Well, it's a simple fact of nature that women can have sex more often than men. We're 'good to go' pretty much all the time. Men are not. Even if they were initially, they still need recovery time before they can do it again. Some need a few minutes, some a few hours or longer. It's the way we were designed. Can't be helped.
I have heard though that they sell kits for men to use to make an 'impression' of Junior, so, give it a whirl and toss one of those at your girl if you ever can't 'stand and deliver', or are jealous of BOB. Sorry, last I heard, there was no such kit for women to use for their men.
C'est la vie.  | |
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| WTF is up with the double standard when it comes to sex toys?
Posted: 11/30/2007 2:52:26 PM | I would wonder why anyone would want a blow up doll.
And why would a woman get upset at a man masturbating as long as it was part of them having sex? Role play, imagination. Have fun with sex sometimes.
I like to communicate what I like as well as hear what he likes. I'm not saying we will be comfortable with everything. Most things are workable. | |
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| WTF is up with the double standard when it comes to sex toys?
Posted: 11/30/2007 3:44:41 PM | "While most are... Not all men's toys are embarrassing. You can leave a non-descript version of the fleshlight lying around and most people wouldn't have a clue what it was"
Count me as one of those that have no damn clue. I don't even know what the descript version of this fleshlight looks like. What exactly is it and what does one do with it?. Sound like something a woman would use. | |
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| WTF is up with the double standard when it comes to sex toys?
Posted: 11/30/2007 4:16:58 PM | Hmmm... maybe men's toys aren't as up to par as women's BOBs because of the ever-ready handshake being available....lol And I understand that Fistine makes many men as happy as can be... On an FYI note, several years ago, I watched a program on Skinamax about lifelike dolls for men which had lubricated, moving parts (vagina & mouth) which were several thousand each - sorry guys, don't recall the exact amount or the name of that company - google it if you want that info just please don't ask me cause I truly don't remember...
BTW baby, I own no BOB's... but we can shop for one, if you like... We can store it with Gina to see if anything cums of it...lol
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| WTF is up with the double standard when it comes to sex toys?
Posted: 11/30/2007 4:34:35 PM |
Can you imagine having to explain yourself after being caught using one of those things?....
Okay, I have to share this story, it just fits too well with the thread line, lol.
When my younger sister broke up with her last ex, she had to have a restraining order placed on him. When the officers came with him to pick up his things, she had boxed them up and right on top , sticking straight up, was a HUGE black dildo.
The officer picked up the box, rolled his eyes and looked at my sister.
She looked him straight in the eye and said, "That is HIS!"
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| WTF is up with the double standard when it comes to sex toys?
Posted: 11/30/2007 5:03:42 PM | "when my younger sister broke up with her last ex, she had to have a restraining order placed on him. When the officers came with him to pick up his things, she had boxed them up and right on top, sticking straight up, was a HUGE black dildo.
The officer picked up the box, rolled his eyes and looked at my sister.
She looked him straight in the eye and said, "That is HIS!".
I am really interested in how her ex boyfriend responded to this. Did he start screaming "HELL NO THAT'S NOT MINE". or god forbid was it actually his? | |
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| WTF is up with the double standard when it comes to sex toys?
Posted: 11/30/2007 5:49:43 PM |
Sounds like a good career opportunity. Come up with some "non-pervy" men's toys and get rich. Think if the fun your research department can have.
Hey, I've got it!
Listen closely.... Are you ready? Wait for it.... wait for it....
A woman (preferably, with a vagina). The best sex toy I know of...
the giggleparts - I'd rather be watching reruns of The Golden Girls... | |
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| WTF is up with the double standard when it comes to sex toys?
Posted: 11/30/2007 6:05:44 PM | | I'm assuming you've seen the realdoll? they even have one for the women... personally i could think of better things to spend thousands on, but you have to admit thats some freaky $hit... i'd probably put my back out lugging the bloody thing about... | |
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| WTF is up with the double standard when it comes to sex toys?
Posted: 11/30/2007 6:16:56 PM | "A woman( preferably, with a vegina). The best sex toy i know of..."
Don't you just hate going to bed with a real woman and finding out she has no vegina?
Man i hate when that happens, talk about a mood killer, you're all ready to be a poking and a poking and a poking at something, then wham, no vegina.
I have lost track of how many times that's happened to me. Now i just come right out and ask "Do you have a vegina" because i am tired of those no vegina women.
So i am in total agreement with the above poster, If given a choice, i too would prefer my women to have a vegina.  | |
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| WTF is up with the double standard when it comes to sex toys?
Posted: 11/30/2007 9:01:06 PM | | yeah, this is a touchy subject. (and i totally agree with one persons reply in here, ur name is perfect cuz u seem to be arguing both side of the issue). which is something i dont get, because i dont a clu on what ur stand on the issue is. anyway, i dont get it, what the hell is wrong with anyone- guys or gals- using toys or masturbating. hell we all need sex, and if we cant get it from a certain someone at needed time. we are obviosly gonna improvise. i dont understand y anyone thinks a chick masturbating is sexy and a guy doinf it is filthy. i have dont it plenty of time while i was single, and plenty of times when i had a bf. if he did it, i could care less. as far as i am concerned, it is healthy, no matter if u use ur hand or a toy; whether ur a guy or girl. if i knew my guy was using a toy, i seriosly would not care, cuz i use toys too.... | |
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| WTF is up with the double standard when it comes to sex toys?
Posted: 12/1/2007 6:42:05 AM | "Yeah. this is a touchy subject.( and i totally agree with one persons reply in here, ur name is perfect cuz u seem to be arguing both side of the issue) . which is something i don't get, because i dont a clu on what ur stand on the issue is"
Personally i don't use nor will i ever use any of those toys. But just because i am not using them does not mean i can't see the double standard involved. Women are always talking about double standards, I though since this is one of the few against the men , it was worth discussing. | |
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| WTF is up with the double standard when it comes to sex toys?
Posted: 12/1/2007 6:09:01 PM |
Ahhh...you've obviously seen a set of VNCs...or vibrating nipple clamps.
The blow-up doll isn't a good comparison because I'm pretty sure if the girl reached under the bed and pulled out her MALE blow-up doll and started blowing it up saying "This will be really good babe" that he'd be out the door as well.
Yeh, I admit there is some double standard going on though. Those fake hoo hoos are funny as h*ll to me. And I couldn't HELP but laugh if I saw a guy had one.
Otherwise, it probably depends on the toy, and on the people involved.
A little off topic but....where is the inflation tube on a blow-up boy doll?? | |
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| WTF is up with the double standard when it comes to sex toys?
Posted: 12/1/2007 9:35:38 PM | I only got to the 3rd posting and got to thinking . . . . . . . hell I need find me a man to see if I get offended or not . . . . . at this point . . .all I can thinkie-thinkie is . . . .the MORE TOYS [his or mine] the MERRIER!!!!
~Myth~ | |
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| WTF is up with the double standard when it comes to sex toys?
Posted: 12/1/2007 10:35:54 PM | The Doctor is in, He has solved the bed time headache excuse. Guys bring that plastic pu$$y out of the box, next time you hear not now honey
Put dead batteries in your ladies Bob, and see how pissed she gets when she needs a toy.
So, are the ladies the real pervs here?
This is a huge Double Standard, this could be the start of the 60's all over again | |
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| WTF is up with the double standard when it comes to sex toys?
Posted: 12/1/2007 10:55:15 PM | I'm confused . . . . are men indicating in this thread that . . . . they are jealous of BOB!!! How is that possible when "DEMONSTRATED" properly it could be quite entertaining . . . . or it is just me imagination again . . . .
Ooooooooooooooooooooooooooooh my [*slaps hand to cheeks - mouth drops open*]!!!
Okay . . . taking applications to provide realistic and accurate results
~Myth~ | |
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