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 esad

Joined: 4/8/2007
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WTF is up with the double standard when it comes to sex toys?
Posted: 12/1/2007 10:56:51 PM
Sometime in the early 1980s a friend showed me an add for “The Auto-Suck”, marketed by
Larry Flint and Hustler magazine. It was designed to run off the cigarette lighter / power port
in a car or truck. It was marketed as “ The ideal solution for lonley long-haul truckers.”

Sooooo.....Larry wants me to stick my d!ck in a plastic undulating sheath plugged into my cig lighter and drive a semi down the highways of America ? What’s wrong with this picture ????

Despite my negative vote, i am sure my buddy bought one. He refused to ever answer my questions of how it worked and got angry every time i brought it up. (which is why i brought it up so often.)

I admit i cringe at the thought of putting that part of me into anything electrical. I, like many parents, spent a couple of years convincing my kid to not stick his fingers into an electrical sockets. This strikes me as soooo much worse.
 ~Myth~

Joined: 6/1/2007
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WTF is up with the double standard when it comes to sex toys?
Posted: 12/1/2007 11:09:04 PM

Sooooo.....Larry wants me to stick my d!ck in a plastic undulating sheath plugged into my cig lighter and drive a semi down the highways of America ? What’s wrong with this picture ????


Sounds like a great click flick to me!

 Black velvet 46

Joined: 11/5/2007
Msg: 53
WTF is up with the double standard when it comes to sex toys?
Posted: 12/2/2007 7:29:44 AM
"I'm confused... are men indicating in this thread that.... they are jealous of BOB!! How is that possible when " DEMONSTRATED" propperly it could be quite entertaining... or is it just me imagination again...."

MYTH i think it's that vivid imagination of your working over time again. A man would have to be pretty insecure about himself to be jealous of a rubber penis....Actually( Now that you brought it up) i can see some guys being intimidated by the "BLACK BULLIT" .
 »¤Cät§ëÿ매«

Joined: 10/9/2007
Msg: 54
WTF is up with the double standard when it comes to sex toys?
Posted: 12/2/2007 8:00:01 AM
I don't think it's a double standard so much as a lack of options for male stimulation.... In case you haven't noticed OP, men and women are built quite differently. Women have several different options for stimulation, whereas masturbation for men doesn't vary as much... Men have access to the same 'BOBs' women do, and if that works for you, great.. If you're looking for toys for penile stimulation, then you're pretty much looking at something that will mimic a vagina, or your good old faithful palm sisters... It's really not too difficult to figure out.

Check out some of the toy sites, and you'll see that the Fleshlight actually IS rather non-descript, and quit whining over something you're obviously dead set against to begin with...
 Black velvet 46

Joined: 11/5/2007
Msg: 55
WTF is up with the double standard when it comes to sex toys?
Posted: 12/2/2007 9:16:00 AM
" Check out some of the toy sites, and you'll see that the fleshlight actually IS rather non-descript, and quit whining over something you're obviously dead set against to begin with"

Wow Cat get those claws out my back will you they are begginning to hurt. I am not whining, just putting a topic on the table for discussion. What is this "fleshlight" you're the secong poster to mention it?.
 IThought UWereAHandpuppet

Joined: 11/14/2007
Msg: 56
WTF is up with the double standard when it comes to sex toys?
Posted: 12/2/2007 11:42:56 AM
Oops, where am I? I must have taken a wrong turn ... Toys? I thought this had something to do with Santa ...
 Lil Pimping

Joined: 10/24/2007
Msg: 57
WTF is up with the double standard when it comes to sex toys?
Posted: 12/2/2007 12:03:00 PM
I think it is kind of cool that a man feel secure enough to have toys! They make them for a reason ya know. I would rather him pleasure himself than to be out there making it with every female that wants it.
Besides as we get older some people need the extra excitement...I mean why not? No prude here in the bedroom I say go for the big "O"!
And by the way you left out "Thumper"!!!
 makenziem

Joined: 11/10/2007
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Posted: 12/2/2007 12:04:37 PM
Nothing wrong with toys.
 ~Myth~

Joined: 6/1/2007
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Posted: 12/2/2007 12:16:51 PM
Actually( Now that you brought it up) i can see some guys being intimidated by the "BLACK BULLIT" .


OP - Thanks for pointing that out . . . . not only do I have to find me a man . . . . now I have to find me a man that will not be intimidated by me Black Bob . . .

Geeeeeeeeeeeeeze . . . this is becoming tooooooooooooooo much work . . .

Anything else I need to add to the list?


~Myth~
 ~Myth~

Joined: 6/1/2007
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Posted: 12/2/2007 12:23:31 PM
ydontuslidedown mychimney @ Msg: 56

... Toys? I thought this had something to do with Santa ...


Thanks for reminding me . . . . now I have to strikeout "black" bullet . . . "black" BOB . . . "black" dophin . . . OFF my X-mas list . . . .

Does anyone have Santa's 800 number or email address?


~Myth~
 Bubble Eyes

Joined: 6/17/2007
Msg: 61
WTF is up with the double standard when it comes to sex toys?
Posted: 12/2/2007 12:28:28 PM
my ex and I explored the toy thing. yes... bob's are fun. but there are also rings made for men with a vibrating bullet attached to them which i've heard feels outstanding to a guy. it can be used alone or during sex.

i dont think toys are bad but yeah.. you guys have soo little to choose from that doesn't make you look like some creep. ;p hah

go into marketing and start making some good toys man!

oh and the whole masturbating in front of your girl turning into an insecurity thing... i think its a great way to tease each other. so i have no idea what kinda girls are sittin there sayin "i'm not good enough for you!?" but thats just a sad way to look at it.

sex is supposed to be fun. so have fun with it!
 giggleparts

Joined: 10/23/2004
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Posted: 12/2/2007 1:01:30 PM
mmm... mmmhhhhmmmm... yeah.... mmmm..... okay.... yep... interesting... mmmhhhmmmm..... mmmmhhhmmm.... ahhhh.... yes.... right.....interesting.....

Oh, and by the way, I like vagina.

So, there's that.

Okay, so I'm glad we had this little talk. Now get out there and be somebody!

the giggleparts - Ron Paul for president
 ~Myth~

Joined: 6/1/2007
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Posted: 12/2/2007 1:05:52 PM
OP . . . me thinkie-thinkie that ya have been very deprived . . . or me has been spending waaaaaaayyyyyyy tooooooo much time with me, meself and BOB!!!

So I'm going to give it me best shot as to how I see it . . .


"realistic male masturbators" Which is something that looks like a vigina in a glove, who in his right mind would actually go buy this damn thing.


Hummm . . . . hummm . . .. hummm!!!! Me see a great April fool’s gift! . . . I can just imagine now . . . the look on his face as I try to DEMONSTRATE how it's used . . . PRICELESS!!!! Absolutely PRICELESS!


"Gina the blow up doll" Come on do i have to explain how sick having one of these are?


Sick? It would be like watching my little (3 lb) Chihuahua mutt humping on Barnie . . . “Bring the tissue honey . . . no I’m not coming . . . I’m laughing my assss off!!”


Can you imagine the reaction a guy would get . . . . . "just a second babe, this should really be good " then he start blowing up the doll. . . . . Then the G/F would get jealous of the . . . . . . . every time she . . . calls and gets no answer her first thoughts would be " He is most likely screwing that . . . . Gina, and don't have time to answer the phone"


Aaaaah . . . dump her . . . she feels NO LOVE for you . . . [hahhaaaa] . . . she only wants you for sex!!! She is selfish . . . . she’s only interested in being satisfied and NOT IN HAVING LOVE FOR YOU!!!


"penis pump" Honestly i have idea what the hell this is for but it just looks freaking weird and painful.


I say ya get it . . . .and let me kiss the ouchie . . .


"Erection enhancers" For the guy who can't seem to keep it up. "Just a sec there babe i need to go use the enhancer on this bad boy, those lips of your just aint doing the job".


No problema Baby . . . . I have the bullet ON! . . . . Ya take ya time!!!!


"penis extensions" This is for the guy that has no penis, you actually put this on and get more length. Can you imagine the reaction of your G/F the first time you whip this bad boy out on her?. Either she is thinking her vegina is too big or she needs to find a man that don't have a childs**** i am thinking the latter.


Baby . . . it’s okay!!! Really, I have them in assorted colors . . . open the drawer!


. . . . . . . Every single toy they have for men makes him look like some kind of pervert or lacking in self-esteem.


My man would “venture to where no man has gone before . . .” . . . “Scotty” will beam us to the Hoooooli-deck . . . to explore the unknown! If that makes him a “pervert” then I am his “sheeee-pervert” and we will both be lacking in self-esteem with an AWESOME FREAKEN SMILE ON OUR FACES. . .

Now . . . . “Show meeeeeeeeeeeee MY MAN!” . . . .


~Myth~
 Black velvet 46

Joined: 11/5/2007
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Posted: 12/3/2007 7:06:35 AM
"Oh, and by the way, I like vagina"

Thanks for the clarifications there giggleparts. Even if you hated vagina really that's you own business. We're not here to judge you....... You might actually be protesting too much
 mikkisue

Joined: 11/25/2006
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Posted: 12/3/2007 8:06:56 PM
Hey Blackvelvet,


I am really interested in how her ex boyfriend responded to this. Did he start screaming "HELL NO THAT'S NOT MINE". or god forbid was it actually his?


LOL, he didn't say a word, and it WAS his.

In fact, it was the reason they broke up.

....um, not sure how to put this delicately, but he wanted it and she wanted no part of it....

MS
 mikkisue

Joined: 11/25/2006
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Posted: 12/3/2007 8:09:42 PM

I think his bow-legged gait probably said it all.


LOL

That and the smile he gave the officer.....

MS
 mikkisue

Joined: 11/25/2006
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Posted: 12/3/2007 8:21:05 PM

Sooooo.....Larry wants me to stick my d!ck in a plastic undulating sheath plugged into my cig lighter and drive a semi down the highways of America ? What’s wrong with this picture ????


Okay, okay, I know I'm not supposed to post three times in a row, but this is TOO funny! I'm crying....


I admit i cringe at the thought of putting that part of me into anything electrical. I, like many parents, spent a couple of years convincing my kid to not stick his fingers into an electrical sockets. This strikes me as soooo much worse.


I don't have anything to add to this, I just wanted to read it again.



This is great! If more threads were this funny, I'd be on here every night, lol.

MS
 Bikerscum

Joined: 10/21/2007
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Posted: 12/3/2007 8:29:17 PM
Women look at it this way.

YOU need a sex toy because YOU are inadequate.
SHE needs a sex toy because YOU are inadequate.

It's always a man's fault.
 gigigrongbell

Joined: 12/19/2006
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Posted: 12/3/2007 8:41:28 PM
Ah, sex toys. I totally agree with you. There aren't very many exciting looking toys for men. Nothing I can think of that he would want to bring to bed while I'm there with him, although we do share mine. I have an idea of what some men's toys might be like but I can't find anything resembling them. I love watching him masturbate. That's hot.

Hmmmmm. Maybe I should get into marketing.

There are double standards in porn too. I love watching a man's face when he comes, but you try and find any porn that shows that. Nothing.
I like man noises when they come, again, either drown out by music or he makes as little as possible. Cut loose, give a shout, growl, something...please.
Is it hot in here?
 Bikerscum

Joined: 10/21/2007
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Posted: 12/3/2007 8:46:28 PM

There are double standards in porn too. I love watching a man's face when he comes, but you try and find any porn that shows that. Nothing.


That's because porn is made for men.

There's four women who buy porn, and you're one of them.
 giggleparts

Joined: 10/23/2004
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Posted: 12/4/2007 12:38:35 AM
"Oh, and by the way, I like vagina"


Thanks for the clarifications there giggleparts. Even if you hated vagina really that's you own business. We're not here to judge you....... You might actually be protesting too much


It's called comedy folks. I'm a little bit of a ham.... wakawakawaka and sh*t.

But, I really do like vagina... I don't currently have any specifically to like... with my penis. (I keed, I keed... wait.. no)

I go too far on a daily basis.

the giggleparts - Penis + Vagina = Good
 Lil Pimping

Joined: 10/24/2007
Msg: 72
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Posted: 12/4/2007 4:33:15 PM
Dude you are so wrong!!! It does not mean a man can't please a woman because she likes to play with toys or for that matter he does...its is Just Sex Relax..... and put some spice into it, you just might like it! It's not a fault it is pleasure baby....
 yepimlonelytoo

Joined: 10/18/2007
Msg: 73
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Posted: 12/4/2007 7:57:02 PM
If both people have the same mature attitude, toys are great for both sexes. I agree that the ones for men can be kind of strange, but there are some ok ones out there.
 flying_gecko

Joined: 11/9/2007
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Posted: 12/24/2007 7:32:38 AM
ive had some sex toys in the past, and they're fun

having a gf to enjoy them with is even better... i mean its only sex and it doesnt make you gay--as im sure someone is thinking as they read this
 Bi Coastal Girl

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Posted: 12/24/2007 10:24:19 AM
I have never had to bring out a toy to increase a man's orgasam..I'd be fine with the idea though. Most women have a hard time getting off, most men will get off regardless. I am generalizing here. I just think that most men are usually trying to hold off their orgasam until the right moment...can't see how a sex toy would help with that. In private, he can do whatever he wants, as long as it's not another women. LOL
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