| WTF is up with the double standard when it comes to sex toys?
Posted: 12/24/2007 12:14:13 PM | Many guys masturbate. SOME guys who masturbate also work with their hands. (i.e. carpenters, brick masons, electricians, plumbers, HVAC techs, etc.) Their hands become so calloused that when spanking the monkey it can feel like a leather glove! (ouch!) So, in the interest of men everywhere some manufacturers have attempted to help with this very serious problem.
Unfortunately, MOST solutions do indeed make the poor guy look like he is some kind of pervie while he is using it.
Then along comes some compasionate soul who invented the "Fleshlight". This thing is actually the closest thing to the Real Deal which has come down the pike. It has the look of the real thing, it has the feel quite similar to the real thing, AND it can sit there on your coffee table and no one is the wiser! LOL
(don't ask me how I know this.)
OP; you point out a very real double standard however. Why is it that "society" in general thinks : girl + masturbate = sexy, HOWEVER ... guy + masturbate = pervie!!??? Not really fair is it?
On the other hand....."society" thinks : guy + lots of girls = stud, HOWEVER.....GIRL + LOTS OF GUYS = SLUT!!!!! Also NOT fair huh?
So, I would say that no matter which end of the double standard you find yourself, just get over it and be comfortable in your own skin and to h*ll with what society thinks.
(meanwhile...I sure would like to retire a toy, hint hint hint ladies.)  | |
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| WTF is up with the double standard when it comes to sex toys?
Posted: 12/24/2007 1:44:04 PM |
There are double standards in porn too. I love watching a man's face when he comes, but you try and find any porn that shows that. Nothing.
I like man noises when they come, again, either drown out by music or he makes as little as possible. Cut loose, give a shout, growl, something...please.
Is it hot in here?
This is too, too easy, but I'm going to respond anyway.
It's not difficult to find a shot of men coming, but it might be slightly more difficult to find such porn that isn't aimed at men ;)
(Even so, straight porn where you see the man come, does exist. You just have to look for it) | |
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| WTF is up with the double standard when it comes to sex toys?
Posted: 12/24/2007 8:29:42 PM | Dear Santa,
#1) I would like a truck load of batteries . . .
#2) Please find "pinkie's" cap for it does not move without it . . .
#3) Pleeeeeeease invent a toy for the guys that does not make them look like pervies . . . .
~Myth~
P.S. . . . oooooh . . . and a truck load coco-butter for the guys with rough hands . . .  | |
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| WTF is up with the double standard when it comes to sex toys?
Posted: 12/24/2007 9:28:20 PM | awww ~myth~, you're just too freaking nice! See guys, there ARE good women out there!
Btw, kinda on topic.... why is it when you tell your guy that you like it when he masturbates........... HE WON'T DO IT ANYMORE? ughhh!
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| WTF is up with the double standard when it comes to sex toys?
Posted: 10/31/2009 11:00:20 AM | There is an never will be equality when it comes to sex becuase we are built entilrely differently anatomically
Think about it
Men don't need sex toys when there is a woman around - we are always able to have sex
Whereas a man is not always able to get hard enough, long enough to give satisfaction
That's why there is no equality with sex toys
Because there is no equality in genitalia
Men need to inflate and stay inflated
Women only need to take their panties off | |
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| WTF is up with the double standard when it comes to sex toys?
Posted: 11/3/2009 2:50:10 PM | Seriously, why does a woman need to use toys if all you have to do is ask ???? You will always find a guy who will be eager to help you out.... Not the same circumstance for men though.... once again, if we do, we are called pervert  
Really, not fair  | |
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| WTF is up with the double standard when it comes to sex toys?
Posted: 11/3/2009 9:11:17 PM | | Women are pretty much considered the only acceptable sex toys for men (even by women). But I guess technically you could use this to your advantage. When you came under fire for not wanting to commit, you could claim that you just like to enjoy a wide variety of sex toys. | |
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| WTF is up with the double standard when it comes to sex toys?
Posted: 11/9/2009 6:17:57 AM | | Everyone knows that women that use toys are typically desperate women. Any good looking woman who can get a man doesn't need a toy, its mainly only loser women like the ones on this date site that need them because its obvious no man is interested in having sex with you otherwise you wouldn't be on this site. You walked right into that one. | |
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| WTF is up with the double standard when it comes to sex toys?
Posted: 11/9/2009 9:13:12 AM | forumologist[[[Men need to inflate and stay inflated
Women only need to take their panties off]]]
Umm, no. Lubrication is as important as inflation. Sex is a big downer, otherwise. As for toys, I don't like vibrators. It makes me feel like I'm being jackhammered. I guess that's what it's supposed to fee like, but I don't care for it. Call me weir, but my toy has to be breathing too. Agreeing with Womaninprogress. | |
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| WTF is up with the double standard when it comes to sex toys?
Posted: 11/9/2009 9:35:35 AM |
Everyone knows that women that use toys are typically desperate women. Any good looking woman who can get a man doesn't need a toy, its mainly only loser women like the ones on this date site that need them because its obvious no man is interested in having sex with you otherwise you wouldn't be on this site. You walked right into that one.
Didn't look at your profile, but are you from, like, Alabama or some like right-minded place? They outlaw such toys, don't they? All I can say, dude, is I hope you were wearing your shyt-kicking' boots when you posted that, cuz you just stepped in it, big time.
I have no interest in dying from
Toxic Twattt Syndrom!
Oh, no. Groan. Yet another threat! I'm kinda fond of the pvssies that get this kind of exercise.  And, (but totally unrelated to my tastes), I think they oughta be handing out toys to high school girls, with well-written operating instructions, to enable the young 'uns to learn about themselves. Instruction that has no classes, just homework. That lesson is no less valuable than teaching kids how to cook or balance a checkbook, imo. | |
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| WTF is up with the double standard when it comes to sex toys?
Posted: 11/9/2009 12:21:32 PM | Didn't read the whole thread so someone may have said this, but society sees women using sex toys as acceptable because it shows that a woman may be a sexual being, and open minded, but would not go out and pick up randoms but would rather use a toy, therefore stopping her being a "slut".
A man using a sex toy is seen as a pathetic failure who can't get laid. | |
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| WTF is up with the double standard when it comes to sex toys?
Posted: 11/9/2009 12:27:49 PM | October_skies -
Everyone knows that women that use toys are typically desperate women. Any good looking woman who can get a man doesn't need a toy, its mainly only loser women like the ones on this date site that need them because its obvious no man is interested in having sex with you otherwise you wouldn't be on this site. You walked right into that one.
Um. I'll be sure to point out your ridiculous post to my BF. I have a whole stash of toys that he uses on me. He bought most of them!!! And.. before you even ask.. yes.. he f*cks me on a regular basis too.
I prefer my fingers... | |
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| WTF is up with the double standard when it comes to sex toys?
Posted: 11/9/2009 12:52:03 PM | Society be damned! The best sex I ever had was with someone who had toys - he did claim that alot of them were not that great. And as other posters pointed out, most are used when together.
I'm open and he was open. I'm not interested in a man who can't be open. | |
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| WTF is up with the double standard when it comes to sex toys?
Posted: 11/9/2009 2:21:44 PM |
Didn't read the whole thread so someone may have said this, but society sees women using sex toys as acceptable because it shows that a woman may be a sexual being, and open minded, but would not go out and pick up randoms but would rather use a toy, therefore stopping her being a "slut".
A man using a sex toy is seen as a pathetic failure who can't get laid.
+1
couldnt have said it better myself | |
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| WTF is up with the double standard when it comes to sex toys?
Posted: 11/9/2009 4:40:23 PM | ha ha this is funny. yes I have "the box of toys", if a man wanted me to use a fake vagina on him while going down on me in a 69 position, Im fine with that, less work for me, and I can enjoy my pleasure more. as far as the blow up doll, she cant be prettier than me. | |
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| WTF is up with the double standard when it comes to sex toys?
Posted: 11/9/2009 4:47:35 PM | | Women that use toys are far from desperate. If a women is single, and horny one day, why not use the toys? What are supposed to due, go to the nearest grocery store and pick up some guy and have sex with him? Um can you say "slut?" Look at me, I am pursued all the time,I can make a phone call and get a **** whenever I want. I am not a slut, and havent found the right guy yet. So live and let live, dont judge people. Dont assume anything, you look like an ass!! | |
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