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 missunderstood08

Joined: 7/15/2007
Msg: 51
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Posted: 12/2/2007 3:08:47 AM

But jeez, the response to this thread!!!
Are you sure you girls can tear yourselves away from your beloved plastic long enough to actualy GO on a date from here??? lol


I haven't been on a date for 12months, and once I get one of these it could be another 12 months before I go on one

Who'd have thought you men could be replaced by a peice of plastic and a pack of batteries
 Cunning_linguist

Joined: 10/19/2007
Msg: 52
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Posted: 12/2/2007 4:47:47 AM
Well considering that by the same token women can equally be replaced by a mere hand and no batteries its hardly surprising really

Infact its surprising people find it surprising
 bizkit mixture

Joined: 11/7/2007
Msg: 53
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Posted: 12/2/2007 4:53:01 AM

Who'd have thought you men could be replaced by a peice of plastic and a pack of batteries


and yet still lots of women are looking for a man even if they have a plastic toy, so i should say that the toy is a substitute until you get the real thing and plastic toys cant cook your morning breakfast
 Saucy Nancy

Joined: 10/27/2007
Msg: 54
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Posted: 12/2/2007 4:56:26 AM
I wouldn't say replaced, rabbits don't bring you tea in bed either.
Most of my boyfriends havn't seen toys as a threat, more of an enhancement, just a bit of fun.
 missunderstood08

Joined: 7/15/2007
Msg: 55
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Posted: 12/2/2007 4:58:49 AM

and yet still lots of women are looking for a man even if they have a plastic toy, so i should say that the toy is a substitute until you get the real thing and plastic toys cant cook your morning breakfast


perhaps us women are looking for a partner to share our lives with, etc companionship, fun, laughter, security.......... there's more to a man than his willy you know

 Cunning_linguist

Joined: 10/19/2007
Msg: 56
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Posted: 12/2/2007 5:00:33 AM
Actually, I think a plastic toy will be more of a complete substitute for women who are incapable of or are scared to death of having actual real world relationships similar to how some men resort to porn as a "sex life"

But it is quite funny to watch the fembot rhetoric and "power talk" re vibrators and I have no doubt it does intimidate some of the more pathetic specimens of maledom into wimpy arse kissing subservience as a result

But us men have access to tighter than average vibrating fannies, mega battery opperated blow job and hand job machines too all of which "technically" do the work far better than the average woman ever could

Thing is tho, if someone sees them as an actual improvement on, and replacement for sex with a partner then either they never really had the faintest idea about sex to begin with, they have only ever had crappy partners or both



perhaps us women are looking for a partner to share our lives with, etc companionship, fun, laughter, security.......... there's more to a man than his willy you know



To some I would agree, for what seems like an ever increasing amount tho I think that IS all they really see a man as really, so for them a bit of plastic will be as much a "deep and meaningful" (and probably deeper too haha) than any relationship they've had or are likely to have

But I still think for the moment they are the minority and that the majority of vibrator "power talkers" proporting that a vib replaces a man are really just trying to use it as a form of control and dominance. And expression of male irrelevance and insignificance along the lines of

"I have sex and you want it, but ALL you have is a dick that I might want, but thats replaced much more effectively by this bit of plastic so you will have to REALLY make an effort for me to entertain the thought of settling for less than a vibrator"

sort of rhetoric, as thats exactly the undertone that many women subtly exude on the topic

Personally my view is that if theyre THAT good I wouldnt want to interrupt youre rabbit ramrodding sessions personally, after all, why on earth would I want to subject a poor woman to something "less" than the enjoyment her bit of plastic gives her unless I DIDNT like her? In which case it would be a moot point anyway


But it does seem to be the case that men who are tired of the same old same old "you've been superceeded" rhetoric are generally labelled as being "intimidated" by it, but I think thats just what women who do the power talk would like, want or even need to believe

Personally I just find it a bit transparent, pathetic, tediously coma causingly boring and unlikely to spark even the slightest bit of interest in someone who does it until a time when the world is devoid of women who can have active and enjoyable sex lives and dont consider a bit of plastic as "better" than an actual person have all become extinct which luckily isnt likely to happen soon


The funny thing here tho is this

Lets suppose for a minute that these women REALLY do think a vibrator is THAT much better than a man

Lets suppose its not just manipulative power talk rhetoric

Kinda makes you wonder who on earth they are really trying to convince when they make so much noise about it for one as well as why so many of these totally satisfied women with such a massive improvement on a man are still lingering around dating sites really dont it?

Cos if tossing my sausage was THAT much better than sex with a woman it would be the very last place I'd feel a need to frequent
 ~Leannie~

Joined: 8/30/2007
Msg: 57
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Posted: 12/2/2007 5:01:14 AM

Who'd have thought you men coul0d be replaced by a peice of plastic and a pack of batteries


then..


perhaps us women are looking for a partner to share our lives with, etc companionship, fun, laughter, security.......... there's more to a man than his willy you know


is this why your name is misunderstood? ;)
 bizkit mixture

Joined: 11/7/2007
Msg: 58
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Posted: 12/2/2007 5:06:59 AM

perhaps us women are looking for a partner to share our lives with, etc companionship, fun, laughter, security.......... there's more to a man than his willy you know


oh i do agree


Who'd have thought you men could be replaced by a peice of plastic and a pack of batteries


i did not post this which does insinuate that you had replaced man with a bit of plastic,
 kitchenbiatch

Joined: 10/5/2007
Msg: 59
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Posted: 12/2/2007 5:37:15 AM
I have a Rampant Rabbit,would be lost without it,great stress-relieving toy.I asked a mate which was best one,and she said the original one,so thats the one ive got,mind you,they bought out lots of new improved ones now,so maybe an upgrade,is due for Christmas.Dont know how i ever coped,before i got it(think its because i had a FB,but thats another thread,all together)
 geoffmo68

Joined: 10/31/2007
Msg: 60
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Posted: 12/2/2007 5:44:21 AM
ive a feeldoe ,its alot of fun and really more of an addition than a substitution , and no im not gay i just like the way it feels , an ex got me into it she said if i was gonna do her there she wanted to return the complement
 Stinker*Belle

Joined: 9/15/2007
Msg: 63
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Posted: 12/2/2007 6:56:53 AM

Actually, I think a plastic toy will be more of a complete substitute for women who are incapable of or are scared to death of having actual real world relationships similar to how some men resort to porn as a "sex life"


Maybe, just maybe, it is because it is about orgasms when wanted. The only time women worship their sex toys to a degree is when they are in bed... It does not have anything to do with the substitution of a relationship.

But it is quite funny to watch the fembot rhetoric and "power talk" re vibrators and I have no doubt it does intimidate some of the more pathetic specimens of maledom into wimpy arse kissing subservience as a result

Lets not talk about sex at all then eh? Make you happier


But us men have access to tighter than average vibrating fannies, mega battery opperated blow job and hand job machines too all of which "technically" do the work far better than the average woman ever could

Use them then if they are that much better.


Thing is tho, if someone sees them as an actual improvement on, and replacement for sex with a partner then either they never really had the faintest idea about sex to begin with, they have only ever had crappy partners or both

I dont think it is about crappy partners or having no idea about sex... Quite the opposite actually. It can improve a sex life, what is so wrong with that?


Kinda makes you wonder who on earth they are really trying to convince when they make so much noise about it for one as well as why so many of these totally satisfied women with such a massive improvement on a man are still lingering around dating sites really dont it?

No one wants to marry their vibrator or have a relationship with it... its life, some women own them..

Men that feel threatened by that need to examine their own feelings of inadequacy.
 Cunning_linguist

Joined: 10/19/2007
Msg: 64
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Posted: 12/2/2007 8:42:08 AM
Well some of that MIGHT have made sense : FoxyIsBack if I'd been referring to the mere mention of them, but you preferred to conveniently avoid, ignore, skip past or just pretend you didnt read the references to how its mentioned

Rather than some women having them I'd say its probably more like most and most men dont seem to be bothered at all by them

What is tedious, and what is the "fembot power play rhetoric" is the amount that croon on and on about how its "better than a man" with no more qualification

As for them enhancing sex unless someone is going to use one every time they do have sex I fail to see how really as the same kind of stimulation wont be possible unless theyre dating a bloke with parkinsons disease or some other nervous disposition so for self discovery a dildo rather than a vibrator is whats usually recommended by sex counsellors for women who dont know much about their own bodies
 jman98

Joined: 9/20/2007
Msg: 65
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Posted: 12/2/2007 8:52:47 AM
i have to read your posts 4 to 5 times and they still dont make any sence
 ~Leannie~

Joined: 8/30/2007
Msg: 66
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Posted: 12/2/2007 9:02:54 AM
maybe you should try one of those nintendo brain training games then.. ;)
 liltara2

Joined: 3/29/2007
Msg: 67
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Posted: 12/2/2007 9:21:04 AM
sorry wrong thread
 missunderstood08

Joined: 7/15/2007
Msg: 68
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Posted: 12/2/2007 9:25:47 AM

Men that feel threatened by that need to examine their own feelings of inadequacy


And boy there seems to be a few who fall into that category on here
 Tan_Y_Ddraig

Joined: 1/28/2007
Msg: 69
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Posted: 12/2/2007 9:32:22 AM
Where do you get them from?

Are you OK with buying them in a shop, or do you prefer to use a mail order supplier, which is probably half the price of the high street?!
 Cunning_linguist

Joined: 10/19/2007
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Posted: 12/2/2007 9:33:34 AM
Really? I cant say I've noticed any to be honest, what on earth is "intimidating" or would make someone feel innadequate to a piece of plastic

I think women like to think thats the effect it has for the power trip it affords them by thinking that personally, but that doesnt actually make it so

Unless youre talking about the "sausage up an alleyway" kind of innadequate of course, but that is just par for the course and with some of the plastic women ram even a pony would feel they didnt measure up by comparison anyway
 Stinker*Belle

Joined: 9/15/2007
Msg: 71
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Posted: 12/2/2007 9:37:50 AM

Really? I cant say I've noticed any to be honest, what on earth is "intimidating" or would make someone feel innadequate to a piece of plastic

Ahhh but its a piece of plastic that hits the spot every time.
You dont have to pander to it afterwards.
More importantly you can chuck it under the bed till next time.

I think women like to think thats the effect it has for the power trip it affords them by thinking that personally, but that doesnt actually make it so

What rot.
Women like the fact it provides a guaranteed orgasm. End of.



Unless youre talking about the "sausage up an alleyway" kind of innadequate of course, but that is just par for the course and with some of the plastic women ram even a pony would feel they didnt measure up by comparison anyway

Ew.
The vagina is very good at springing back to its original size actually.
Only men with small penises need to worry about the "sausage up an alleyway" theory.
 missunderstood08

Joined: 7/15/2007
Msg: 72
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Posted: 12/2/2007 9:41:01 AM

Only men with small penises need to worry about the "sausage up an alleyway" theory.


seems there some of those on here too
 ~Valda~

Joined: 9/28/2007
Msg: 73
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Posted: 12/2/2007 9:41:13 AM

i have to read your posts 4 to 5 times and they still dont make any sence

I find I have to do the same myself but what helps me understand is pretending to feel the same way about women as the poster does. This involves suspending all sense of reality and picturing myself being a man who, surely was hurt by one or perhaps many more women, who has developed the defence mechanism of acting completely superior to women, deriding them at every opportunity and belittling all female posters on here.

Once you get into that way of thinking, it's easy to understand what is being written as the language and words used fail to mask what is the real import of the content of his posts which is (put simply) "I hate women, they're stupid , they don't know what they're talking about because they are all sexually frustrated quasi-feminists who need me to put them in their place!!"

I'm actually amazed the OP of this thread and the poster who's posts need to be read a couple of times or more to get the gist of them haven't hooked up already, they seem so perfectly matched.

OT: Sex toys ? Isn't the mind the best sexual aid ?

Seems a little empty and unfulfilling to me using plastic to agitate yourself into orgasm if you haven't at the very least got someone you desire to fantasise about whilst doing so.
 jman98

Joined: 9/20/2007
Msg: 74
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Posted: 12/2/2007 9:59:04 AM
you mean you fantasise that you are having the real thing than a plastic
 Cunning_linguist

Joined: 10/19/2007
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Posted: 12/2/2007 10:18:41 AM
The vagina is very good at springing back to its original size actually.
Only men with small penises need to worry about the "sausage up an alleyway" theory.


A lot of women like to believe that it seems, but nothing in existence stretches endlessly and never changes, if that WAS the case then women would invariably be no different to the way they were when they had sex the first few times they did after 2o years worth of rogering which is hardly the case no is it?

But I'm also not claiming its a progression to something akin to a bucket either, simply that theres variation due to wear and tear that kegels and PV's wont fix but some weight gain oddly enough can do

The same thing also works in reverse, men who excessively use the male sex toys also have a problem enjoying sex with an average sized woman after a prolonged useage too as there arent many women who will even be approaching the same tightness and the human brain has a tendency to acclimatise itself to sensations automatically

Thats not a dig as some will obviously want to read it as, simply a physical side effect and one that a sex counsellor always points out to men or women thinking about opting for toys either solitarily or with a partner as the manufacturers conveniently omit to mention it irrespective of whether its male or female toys


And valda, your tedious and repetitive whinging is really getting boring now lol

I make no qualms or apologies about not liking "SOME" women based on aspects of their mindset or character or delusional outlooks, its only your own biases that mean youre incapable of reading that as being directed at anything other than "all" women

Difference is I would find men with the same or similar traits equally as tedious and idiotic and dont make any secret of that fact either

Hell. to be perfectly honest petal its starting to feel like youre pulling my pigtails by the incessant nature of your ranting vehement digs lol
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