| is sexual intercourse actually cheating
Posted: 12/10/2007 6:48:49 AM |
Cheating is not lack of trust? If I promise someone i will give them 10 dollars, and i violate their trust and dont give them it, is that cheating? Is that infidelity because cheating is infidelity. Christians do not define cheating as sex. Cheating is adultery, which is clearly defined.
The definition of adultery: extramarital sex that willfully and maliciously interferes with marriage relations; "adultery is often cited as grounds for divorce"
wordnet.princeton.edu/perl/webwn
Hmmm. "Christians do not define cheating as sex. Cheating is adultery, which is clearly defined."
extramarital sex that willfully and maliciously interferes with marriage relations; "adultery is often cited as grounds for divorce"
wordnet.princeton.edu/perl/webwn
Let's see, the quote above says cheating is not defined by Christians as "sex". They define cheating as adultery, according to the assertion of a poster. Yet, the dictionary defines adultery as "extramarital sex".
Oh, gee, how did I miss this? How can cheating be sex, when cheating is adultery, defined as extramarital sex that willfully and maliciously interferees with marriage relations?
Oh wait, I didn't miss this. Cheating = extramarital sex that willfully and maliciously interferes with marriage relations. Adultery = extramarital sex that willfully and maliciously interferes with marriage relations--e.g. violation of trust.
Thus, cheating or adultery equal extramarital sex that willfully and maliciously interferes with marriage relations., e.g. violation of trust (this is the willful and malicious aspect for those that fail to recognize it).
The poster had one thing correct. Cheating/Adultery is not "lack of trust". It is a violation of trust.
I'm glad that we got that straight. For a minute there I thought I didn't know what I was talking about.
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| is sexual intercourse actually cheating
Posted: 12/10/2007 7:14:09 AM | | Yes I would consider it cheating but then again everything is cheating to me. But if both parties agree its okay for her to have sex with someone else for her fix then it should be alright. If the guy doesn't like the idea well time for her to move on and find a guy who can meet her needs. | |
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Posted: 12/12/2007 6:50:23 AM | biblical definition.
adultery is described in the bible as to covet(ie.have secret lustful feelings for)thy neighbours wife.in other words,it is something dishonest and concealed.
if it is something done with the approval of the partner it surely cant be adultery?
much has been made of the word cheating,but if anyone had bothered to give this any thought rather than using words like `stupid` or throwing insults,they would have realised that CHEATING IS JUST THE MODERN WORD FOR ADULTERY
of all tghe replies i have read the most immature have been those that took the trouble to post but then dismissed the issue as stupid,you wonder why they bothered to make a post to a thread they werent interested in,maybe they were bored or needed to get a life | |
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| is sexual intercourse actually cheating
Posted: 12/12/2007 7:32:46 AM | What?!
It's cheating.. Not only is it cheating physically but emotionally. The worst cheating ever if you ask me. Move on to someone else- although not easy, it will save you some drama in the long run. People play mind games to get what they want- run- are you that willing to be hurt everyday? Youre handicap should be no excuse for allowing someone to have sex with someone else. I know there is more than one way to please a woman...
I find it strange how people rationalize cheating, one guy I know actually said if he did not orgasm during sex then it's not cheating.. I think he truly convinced himself that was true. Whatever... | |
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| is sexual intercourse actually cheating
Posted: 12/12/2007 10:42:57 AM | | Simple... if she truly loved him, she certainly would not want to have sex with his best friend. It's more up to her, than it is him. | |
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| is sexual intercourse actually cheating
Posted: 12/12/2007 10:52:25 AM | "cheating" is something that is defined by the parameters of each, individual, relationship.
Say, in that situation- if the woman had agreed upon an arrangement, with the impotent man, to sleep with his best friend... then no, it wouldn't be cheating. If she fell for her lover, in the process, that would be crossing a line, I believe.
If she has no agreed-on arrangement with the impotent man, and sleeps with his best friend, anyway,... then yes, it's cheating. | |
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| is sexual intercourse actually cheating
Posted: 12/12/2007 11:40:16 AM | Just my opinion John.
YES it is cheating. If she is not getting what she feels she needs, she needs to leave. Stop worrying about what "other folks" say or think. Share with him her true feelings and not wanting to "descrete" what they had...she needs to leave.
That is better than staying in a situation where she is not happy or satisfied by the man she married. And think of him. Even though he says yes, his heart will feel each time she gives her self to another man. No matter what he says with his mouth...his heart will surely say something else.
The most intimate thing we have to give to those that we choose to love is our bodies and with that comes emotional and physical STUFF.
I'm thinking that the friend (that she wants or the friend wants to sleep with her) is close at hand.
Just as I said....Just my opinion
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| is sexual intercourse actually cheating
Posted: 12/12/2007 12:38:18 PM | | Of course it's cheating. Even kissing a person other than your spouse / significant other is cheating. The only time it wouldn't be cheating is if your partner approved this. An example of this is swingers. | |
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| is sexual intercourse actually cheating
Posted: 12/14/2007 6:52:34 PM | | where one partner is physically incapacitated,i think there may be little alternative than to seek third party intervention,and i think most men would want their partner to have this option | |
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| is sexual intercourse actually cheating
Posted: 12/14/2007 7:36:29 PM |
if the lady decides she cannot live a life without a sexual dimension
If the lady decides, then she isn't part of a couple.
If the couple decides, it is no one else's business.
I am curious what kind of friend you are, if you are banging your best friend's wife .
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| is sexual intercourse actually cheating
Posted: 12/14/2007 7:43:49 PM | | I think it is cheating in my opinion. They could experiment with toys so he was able to please her that way or find some other way. I would exhaust all forms first. And if it came to given permission I dont think I would recommend my best friend as that will come between you two but maybe a stranger at a bar and use protection. | |
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