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Posted: 12/6/2007 2:19:13 PM | | Geez, whine, whine, whine, how about the rest of us on here, no sex for one night is nothing compared to getting nothing at all! That's like complaining you don't get fillet mignon for one night and the rest of us are gnawing on boca burgers for months on end! | |
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Joined: 2/8/2007
Msg: 52 | |
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Posted: 12/6/2007 3:06:15 PM | | Marie, it is the holidays, missing some warmth, the fireplace alone would not do it. | |
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Posted: 12/6/2007 6:01:26 PM | Well I have asked Santa to put something extra HOT in my stockin this year!!! You know a girl always needs a "special" occasion!  | |
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Posted: 12/6/2007 7:03:37 PM | I have noticed that even with the aid of the "blue" pill, men in my age group are ....mmm, how do I put this delicately.....RUNNING OUT OF STEAM.
our bodies are changing, unfortunately, not for the better, we seldom find ourselves rejuvenating...more the opposite is true.
it's natures way of saying "pffffffffffffffffftttt"
the former "repeaters" are now becoming one-shot wonders.
our bodies have failed us. 
meds play a big part in all this, too.
some post-menopausal women lose interest........some of us just get hornier  | |
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Posted: 12/6/2007 7:20:03 PM | To quote you on the subject, "In need of rejuvenation"!!!
Okay then, how do we rejuvenate?
I felt rejuvenated when the sex was spontaneous , in odd places, fun like chocolate syrup, or a planned spectacular date. Maybe you two need a weekend get-a-way together away from it all; possibly a weekend away from each other ~absence makes the heart grow fonder.
Anyhow, I hope you find happiness. Having someone who sticks by you through the good and bad days is "PRICELESS". Amen? Pat
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Posted: 12/6/2007 7:32:12 PM | AVALON96,,, oh I love your response , "Don't think it's a matter of running out of steam, the women are just older & wiser and not falling for the same crap as 20 or 30 yrs ago". Halelujah, a man who gets it!!!
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Posted: 12/6/2007 11:55:16 PM | Yeah, I'd have to say so. Not ALL, of course, but the majority. And I've tried, in my analytical way, to figure out what the common denominator is so I can know what to expect, but I can't. I thought it was probably age, but the one guy who is not even close to running out of steam is my age, so there went that theory. It's not what kind of job they do b/c the more physical ones do not seem to have an advantage over the ones who are more sedentary. It's not their fitness level nor medications nor illnesses, I don't think, but I do think a bunch of men are definitely running out of gas. Not just for sex either. I can't tell ya how many times I've been turned down to meet at 9:15 p.m. during the week. I sometimes work two jobs and don't finish the last one til 9 so I'd offer to meet someone then since he wants to meet me "so bad". He can't, he says, b/c he'll be in bed. Geez. And I shoulda realized that would be a sign of things to come. Can't stay up past 9 p.m. Not for ANYTHING!!!! Not for a drink, a meeting, a party, or sex.
What would I like to do about it? Fix 'em. Whatever that takes. Fix 'em. | |
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Posted: 12/7/2007 12:53:53 AM | ~~~I think it's time we heard from the OP..just what type of relationship are we talking about here? Are we talking first meetings..first dates..a few dates..serious dating as in a relationship..marriage..what exactly? I think these questions being answered might actually have alot to do with the answers we're tyring to give. JMO~~~ | |
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Posted: 12/8/2007 3:26:20 PM | | lol ..thats some funny shit!!! | |
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Posted: 12/8/2007 4:02:52 PM | A women in their 40's running out of steam sexually??? Uh, ever get the idea Viagra was invented for men to keep up? | |
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Posted: 12/9/2007 5:05:10 AM | ORCAANNA
too right - got to go with you there hunni.
All talk and no action comes to mind lol | |
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Posted: 12/17/2007 3:36:06 PM |
Can't stay up past 9 p.m. Not for ANYTHING!!!!
Maybe he just realized he didn't want to stay up for NOTHING?!
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Posted: 12/17/2007 4:10:02 PM | | Poor ole Browie! Gotta love the datin world he lurks in! | |
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Posted: 12/17/2007 7:12:31 PM | Hey:
I think over 45 with a partner should be good better best thing to happen. And no I don't have sex often enough. It is definately a difference between personal drives. Never cheated Thought about it but never did follow through. Hopefully the miss's will get a spirt of energy once in a while. Fortunately my dear wifey still gets going every now and then. | |
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Posted: 12/17/2007 8:39:02 PM | | I don't know about other women, but since I hit menopause my libido has sky rocketed. I've never felt freer, more sexual, more passionate and these days I know exactly what I want and don't want. I couldn't say that when I was 20, or possibly even when I was 30. The trick has been to find a man my age that feels the same. | |
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Posted: 12/17/2007 8:40:58 PM | [A women in their 40's running out of steam sexually??? Uh, ever get the idea Viagra was invented for men to keep up?]
God.....that is just absolutely perfect!!! And damn, so true. lol | |
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Posted: 12/17/2007 9:27:00 PM | Now Golconda why would you say "it seems like a lot of women prefer sudoku over sex"??? There are many, many, many women that have replied to this post, but only ONE said the she loves sex , but also loves Sudoku but a lot less work to play Sudoku tonight. So...........please don't put ALL women in that catagory. Perhaps she has every reason to prefer (as you put it) Sudoku to sex.... maybe because SHE had to do ALL the work! Anyways, I know I love to make love and have someone make love to me, and it can be every night, maybe even 3 times a day, if it is with the right person. I don't need the one night stands, been there and done that! Like some of the other women have said it's more about "quality" than "quantity". In fact....if we were to take a poll, I would bet that there are MORE women than men that want sex (and that is satisfying sex by the way) not just alittle poke for all of 5 seconds! | |
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Posted: 12/17/2007 10:13:24 PM | | Geez... in my life, adult women of all ages have always ran out of steam. Maybe I'm just insatiable (sp?). I don't dwell on their "steam" issues. I improvise and appeal to her... "buttons". I can tell what the moods are and when sexual intercourse isn't going to happen and in those cases, I will enjoy "other" sex, like cooking for her or sitting near her. Nice things will happen anyway. | |
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Posted: 12/17/2007 10:56:42 PM | ...ALMOST!!...
It was all there . .
The wide eyes . .
The heavy breathing . .
The plans to get a Passport . .
But that D*** Distance thing got in the way, again . . !!! | |
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Posted: 12/18/2007 9:50:36 PM | | if the sex isn't good then you probably don't want to say that so instead you say you are not interested in sex - to that person. | |
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Posted: 9/24/2008 7:21:08 PM | Must be the cold weather up by you. Try a lady from the south:)
Strange mantra....anyone here in the south heard that mantra??? | |
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meg461
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Joined: 8/18/2008
Msg: 72 | |
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Posted: 9/24/2008 7:29:36 PM | OP, did you ever think that maybe it's you? Maybe you're not good enough at it for a woman to want it everynight? The majority of women I know (that are my age) just couldn't be bothereed with sex, because it's just not very good. Now if we could find someone who is really good..........well. | |
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Posted: 9/24/2008 7:30:08 PM |
I don't know about other women, but since I hit menopause my libido has sky rocketed. I've never felt freer, more sexual, more passionate and these days I know exactly what I want and don't want.
Well, grasshopper, with the right man, you can expand on that 'exactly what I want' theme. It really does get better once you're freed up. | |
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Posted: 9/25/2008 3:21:24 AM | | Sorry but I'm one of those women that likes sex more than once a week. The man that I was dating was older than me, though and just couldn't/wouldn't keep up. | |
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Posted: 9/25/2008 4:00:37 AM | I absolutely agree. It gets better with age and the right partner. Libido combined with passion and understanding make it superb. Foreplay is a great hobby!
Old folks boogie.... sometimes the body won't do what the mind wants it to. There are defintely work around to that as long as the mind is willing.
By now I think we all realize that the mind is the best sex organ. | |
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