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| can a guy like a bj better than sex? Posted: 12/7/2007 5:46:00 AM | Umm...
I'm going to say it's possible. Both would be ideal. Couldn't do without penetration. But couldn't do without BJ's for long.
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| can a guy like a bj better than sex? Posted: 12/7/2007 7:45:54 AM | MissPriss
LOVE YOU POST!!!! who cares... cause he likes it... it is important to remember this... and this street goes both ways... if there is something that your partner really likes and you do it for them... then all is good! just remember to have things on the table or bed that you want him to do as well... and you have the basis for a whole lotta fun! | |
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| can a guy like a bj better than sex? Posted: 12/7/2007 8:04:42 AM | well i think u need to ask yourself does he enjoy eating your muffin as often as he likes u to suck his**** if its a one sided arrangement then id say move on hes a user , lots of guys do that because of alot of different reasons a. they dont want to use a rubber or are afraid to knock u up b. your snapper is floppy c.they prefer to have you down there because its a dominant position for them and they feel in control d. they jjst dont want to have intercourse with u because all they want u for is a release instead of jerking off
personally when u turn an act of love into a simple squirt off u destroy the intimacy that is supposed to be a great part of sex. if u remove that then it isnt personal anymore , it could b anyone or anything that u are getting off on | |
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| can a guy like a bj better than sex? Posted: 12/7/2007 8:36:49 AM | | Can a guy like a bj better than sex? Sure, it's possible but I don't think most of us men do, just a select few prehaps. Besides, seems you should be thankful to actually have someone to do this to. The alternative would be being alone like many others and therefore not able to give ORreceive any sort of intimacy. | |
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| can a guy like a bj better than sex? Posted: 12/7/2007 11:32:38 AM | I don't enjoy it more, and whether I enjoy it at all depends.
A- Does my partner enjoy it or feel like they're 'doing me a favor'? B- Is my partner any good at it? This doesn't just mean technique or lack thereof... (TEETH!! ACK!!).... if one is willing to learn what I like and is enthusiastic about it that makes up for a lot of shortcomings, pardon the pun.
If they don't enjoy it then I wouldn't whine about it, that's no fun. I'd still be willing to reciprocate.......in a big way.  | |
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| can a guy like a bj better than sex? Posted: 12/7/2007 5:50:21 PM | | Know one has got it right at all so far. Its all about muscel control in the mouth vs. the pu$$y. Unless you can controll those muscels down there better than those in the mouth, well then who would'nt like oral better. Time to face facts people. Women get wet, really wet at times down there and the man d$$k ends up swimming. Thats not the case with the mouth. Nice and tight from start to finish. Questions????? | |
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| can a guy like a bj better than sex? Posted: 12/7/2007 6:06:27 PM | Only if its a blow job... Some think just giving a few minutes of attention is a blow job... Its not a blow job until the job is finished...  | |
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| can a guy like a bj better than sex? Posted: 12/8/2007 3:23:05 AM | laura, You'e young and obviously fertile enough ...as your main pic shows us to bear children, and a bj likely represents the best of sex for him w/o the risk of getting you pregnant. However, as you seem frustrated by what might not be as much fun for the giving w/o the getting, the next time that you are, may I suggest that you 'flip your figure' and present him w/ what part of you needs more attention.
Encourage him to reciprocate sexually while he might be more practical about the matter by 'being in his face' w/o really facing him and 'letting it speak' for you. Not only will you stand a better chance of improving his empathy of you ...it's a perfect opportunity for you to expand his horizons to all that you might care to teach him for your ideas of safe and satisfying sex. Tell him Bon Appetité. | |
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| can a guy like a bj better than sex? Posted: 12/8/2007 6:33:04 AM | Hmmmm.... without trying to throw in all the unnecessary bravado in order to answer your question, it means he likes both bj's & sex dear. In my experience men (just as we women do) thoroughly enjoy both... why does one have to exclude the other? It shouldn't when it's a loving relationship...
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| can a guy like a bj better than sex? Posted: 12/8/2007 12:25:10 PM | Some women are good at giving ORAL SEX (bjs) and some? well no. Women that can do it good, can spoil men to only wanting them and nothing else. Sometimes, you have to decline and let him ride you or have SEXUAL INTERCOURSE, until your satisfied. Then, as giving a good boy candy, you give him what he's longing for. | |
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| can a guy like a bj better than sex? Posted: 12/8/2007 3:03:14 PM | | Everyone's a bit different. I'm the same as him. I love everything, but #1 amongst my interests are giving and receiving in that area. There's no greater feeling for me to do both ends of that. For others the opposite is true. It's no big deal so long as he doesn't become exclusively obsessed with that and/or fails to deliver for you as well. | |
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| can a guy like a bj better than sex? Posted: 12/8/2007 7:05:48 PM | I love giving before the actual doing, Gives me a chance to get even more worked up as well..man, I think I'm obsessing again!  | |
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| can a guy like a bj better than sex? Posted: 12/8/2007 10:45:40 PM | | He's probably circumcised. The foreskin is the most sensitive part of the penis and most Americans were raped of their foreskin at birth. To make up for this loss he must engage in things like oral and anal sex to get any kind of pleasure or sensitivity. Americans are too stupid to realize that men are NOT born defective, the foreskin is a vital organ (protects against urine and feces at birth, then retracts by puberty to play a vital role in sexuality). You could suggest to him to start foreskin restoration using t-tape (actually what this does it stretches the remaining shaft skin to cover the glans and over time the skin grows ... this takes years of consistent effort though). | |
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