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| What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love Posted: 1/13/2008 7:10:10 PM | I don't want to make life, and I don't want to make death, I don't want to make love, I just want to make sex.
Want to make sex, want to make sex oh Want to make sex, want to make sex Want to make sex oh, oh Want to make sex, make sex
Sorry that song popped into my mind...the difference is women want passionate love made to them... and men are just happy with ...sex | |
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| What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love Posted: 1/13/2008 8:36:15 PM | | Having sex and making love can have the same meaning. We think of sex as being anaimalistic and more of a non-emotional act. Making love of course is different in the respect that (in my experience) you are slowing the pace and literally making love to your lover's body, mind and soul. Sex is raw and urgent, and let's face it, sometimes that is very nice! I think healthy relationships can have encounters of both kinds... | |
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| What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love Posted: 1/13/2008 9:05:59 PM | according to doctor don,there is absolutely positively no difference.who ever coined the phrase which was not too far back was just thinking with the small head..what did they say a hundred years ago..nothing .they just did it.then as years went by it was having sex,doing the dirty deed,lets screw,lets ****,how about a romp in the hay and my all time favorite is from LATKA GRAVIS (andy kaufman from TAXI )lets have nik nik..so you see people there is no difference..its all in your mind.a made up thing to make sex sound more clean and less dirty its a saying for lovers who want to justify a reason for having plain old down right body sweating hard core down and dirty muff diving tube steak gobbling ..beef injecting sex..so what are they going to say in a hundred years from now..hey baby lets populate the world partner... that reminds me of a joke..not enough room on here..i tell it on the next comment | |
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| What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love Posted: 1/13/2008 11:05:34 PM | | maybe i've been wrong but...in my oinion just because you are in love with someone does not mean that everytime you have sexual intercourse you are making love. nor do I believe sex is something you only do with someone you are not in love with. I think it's definitely possible to have sex before breakfast and make love after dinner with the same person. I see sex (in a full fledged healthy relationship) as two people enjoying each other physically and just having fun. Making love with that same person is when neither of you have to say "did you enjoy it" "do you love me" because you just felt it in each kiss and every vibration, saw it in their eyes...and maybe your neighbors heard it, maybe not...who knows...but thats my opinion | |
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| What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love Posted: 1/14/2008 10:57:46 AM | Having sex is there is no feelings for the other person..you don't care if you see him again..I can't do this!!
making love is you feel feelings of love for that person and what to see that person in your life | |
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| What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love Posted: 1/14/2008 11:18:26 AM | | this may sound kind of corny; but, to me i believe making love is something you do with someone you care about you you think about all the time. While having sex is just meaning you have no feelings for the person you just do it. | |
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| What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love Posted: 1/14/2008 11:46:10 AM | | Let's see: they are both "action" verbs. One you can do by yourself, one you can't. One usually has at least one person attaining physical release, the other includes achieving satisfaction from pleasuring the other person. Personally I am old enough to remember when "making love" included everything preceding the actual act: the conversation (for the mind), flowers (for smell), chocolate covered strawberries (taste), the right music, etc. The goal was achieving a "one-ness" that was more than a physical joining. Each has it's merits. One requires thoughtful preparation and one requires a condom. | |
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| What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love Posted: 1/14/2008 12:07:00 PM | | If you have to ask that question, then you have probably never really made love. And for those that answered that "having sex" is just about your own pleasure, and not your partner's, I disagree. Even when it is "just sex", I still want my partner to have the most pleasure possible, even moreso than my own. | |
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| What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love Posted: 1/14/2008 2:18:39 PM | | I don't get why it's so hard for people to get that. I guess it really is a personal mind state. yo can be completely in love with someoe and have a great relationship but everytime you have sexual intercourse does not mean you are making love. two people who are in love can definitely have sex and both parties be just as pleased as the other and still care about making the other person happy during the act. i think the people saying they will never have "sex" again have some pretty high expectations...do you know physically, mentally, and emotionally drained you would become if you only "made love" of course depending on the frequency. but some couples like to have sex and enjoy it very much...what's dirty or animalistic about two people who LOVE each other having sex... | |
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