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 compactdisc

Joined: 1/7/2008
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What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 1/15/2008 6:12:37 PM
i think according to that ^^^ it must have just been sex that i experienced then.

even tho ive loved i have never been loved....so i guess thats my answer then.

it was just sex then......well at least from her point of view......
 observant lvr

Joined: 12/26/2007
Msg: 252
What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 1/15/2008 6:30:52 PM
It's all about how the two people feel towards each other
 et1000rr

Joined: 12/23/2007
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What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 1/15/2008 6:40:32 PM
why thank you so very kindly nessie...i think...if that was directed toward me....if not i'll gladly accept on the others behalf... :)
 Precious Gem 2

Joined: 3/14/2006
Msg: 254
What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 1/15/2008 8:31:24 PM
the difference bewtween "sex" and "making love" to me is that sex is just fulfilling a need..having an 'itch' scratched...purely physical....making love...now that's something else..it's not just a sharing of bodies....it involves the heart and soul...you share the very essence of who you are...it's offering up everything you are to show your partner your deep feelings for them...there is no greater feeling in the world...it's wanting to weep at the "ultimate" moment because of the beauty of it...GOD...I want that again!!!!
 golfwhacko

Joined: 11/12/2006
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What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 1/15/2008 9:12:34 PM
When you care more about pleasing your partner than yourself.
 Precious Gem 2

Joined: 3/14/2006
Msg: 256
What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 1/16/2008 3:27:26 AM
should also add to that....sex is instant gratification...making love is about taking your time and enjoying every precious second of the wonder of it...the light touch...watching the look on your lover's face that your touch creates...the soft whispers...breathing in your lover's unique aroma...tasting the flavour that is esentially his and his alone...it involves all the senses...and can start waaaaaayyyyyy before you actually slide beneath the sheets together..
 Mud.Lemon

Joined: 12/11/2007
Msg: 257
What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 1/16/2008 5:38:17 AM
For plenty of people, there is no difference.
Nothing we can do about that.
 swtmasswoman

Joined: 12/29/2007
Msg: 258
What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 1/24/2008 6:20:51 AM
"Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm.

Sex is like cake. Cake alone is okay.

Love is like the icing and whipped cream and chocolate and all the delicious extras that make the cake more than it ever could be alone. I want my cake and eat it too.

I thank you."

cake is good but def.better with the whipped cream and chocolate.
If your only looking for a quick lay than obviously its only sex.
making love I would atleast think you would have to have an emotional(not just a physical)connection with the person.
 CALIMAAN

Joined: 4/10/2007
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What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 1/24/2008 6:27:46 AM
SEX IS WHAT I DO & LOVE IS ? SHE DOES! THE DIFFERENCE IS SO CLEAR; NO MIX UP PLS! LOL
 Twin Girl 61

Joined: 1/5/2008
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What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 1/24/2008 6:34:07 AM
the difference is how you FEEL about the person you are doing it with. sex or making love technically the act is the same. it's the feelings involved that define it for you. The expression "making love" possibly originated in ancient times and eastern and western philosophy describe the act in a spiritual way. Either way, sex or making love or even the F word all describe the same thing. it's what's in your heart that makes the difference.
 TwilightNurse

Joined: 1/3/2008
Msg: 261
What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 1/24/2008 6:40:52 AM

the difference between "Having Sex" and "Making Love"


personal opinion is that sex is just that... a romp for needs, wild and passionate, the enjoyment of the sex rather than with the person.
making love it more emotional, in the way that you express, still can be wild and passionate the boundries slightly moved to a high level of contentment, as you are with the person you most desire.

Anyone can have sex, to make love with someone there has to be a bond between the two in question.
 Dancin Boots

Joined: 6/8/2007
Msg: 262
What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 1/24/2008 8:46:46 AM
To me the difference lays in the 'morning after' feelings.
With sex, you wake up in the morning and you feel empty as though you had fun but there is NO completeness in it. It is something that you may or may not do again.
With making love, you wake up in the morning next to your someone special that you want to be with. The one who completes you. And the feeling that you are feeling at that moment is completeness. It is something that you MUST do again and again.
Completeness -- the making of two halves into a whole.
Sex can be either one of two things either recreational or relationship. Recreational is Fun and can be done as a hobby - hobbies are a part of who we are but do not make us whole. Such as quickies etc.
Relationship sex is more of the 'making love' nature and there is a joining of hearts as well as bodies. Making Love can take hours .... making love begins 'in the kitchen' so to speak -- it is a part of all that you do. The foreplay one can experience is out of this world and both of u experience pleasure that is beyond words.
 Twin Girl 61

Joined: 1/5/2008
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What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 1/24/2008 8:49:09 AM
I can't say I get the concept of another person completing me. I am complete, he is complete and together we are happy.
 blue_gray_white

Joined: 12/30/2007
Msg: 264
What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 1/25/2008 8:03:24 AM
making love... wheres all the fore play leading up to the act of the union..
its a 24/7 respect, helping, showing care, affection for each other. thats the best , foreplay can be so wonderful exciting..... foreplay is just not the "feelings" just before we hit the "hay"/// its 24/7.... sex is just foreplay while we are in the "hay"..
 1Lilly of the Valley

Joined: 11/2/2006
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What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 3/8/2008 10:37:23 AM
OMG a man that is right on the make why are you still single, why are any of you men on this thread single? If you say these things to the women that you are with they would know you got it! And the sex/make love would be out of this world and you could have both. Cause a quicky is sex really, but you can add a little love in there too lol! Eve whoope!
 ejesq

Joined: 5/12/2007
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What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 3/8/2008 10:38:57 AM

What would you say is the difference between "Having Sex" and "Making Love"


The love.
 Enchanted107

Joined: 12/10/2007
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What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 3/8/2008 12:06:15 PM
Having sex is the a mechanical act to reach a goal. It is just an act dictated by lust or
desires of your body.

Making love is being one with the one you love when you are having sex. Making love is more meaningful as you are powered by your heart and emotions and not by your loins.
 TheLimey

Joined: 2/24/2008
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What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 3/8/2008 12:32:17 PM
Making love is what a woman does while a guy is having sex with her :)
 catisangel_1987

Joined: 8/21/2007
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What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 3/8/2008 1:03:48 PM
There is such a major difference between them. You can have sex with anyone, but to truly make love you have to love them with your heart. To make love you do it to please them, and not to satisfy your own needs, which is what having sex is most of the time. When you make love you do it with your heart, soul, and mind, so it is so much more then what having sex is.
 Longboy11

Joined: 9/24/2007
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About the same difference as.............
Posted: 3/8/2008 1:04:11 PM
...................making babys and giving birth.
 Achtland

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What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 3/8/2008 1:16:36 PM
I don't believe you have to be in love to make love,,, making love is passionate and both giving to eachother,,, having sex is self gratifying,,,
 StormPainter

Joined: 12/3/2007
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What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 3/8/2008 2:05:53 PM
Personally I don't see how anyone these days could know the difference between either of them! all everyone seems to be concerned with is, are her breasts big enough! or are they Real! ..If it's not that, it's about Penis Size! It's like everyone is trying to qualify for a part in a porno movie! What I'm trying to say is, I don't think most people even understand what just enjoying sex is about anymore.
 Nordic33708

Joined: 11/11/2006
Msg: 273
What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 3/8/2008 2:09:49 PM
272 responses.

If it takes that many views on the topic I think it's safe to say that the difference can't be explained. If it could, one reply would have been enough...........
 ash.i.am

Joined: 2/16/2008
Msg: 274
What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 3/8/2008 3:03:12 PM

Making love is what a woman does while a guy is having sex with her :)



men suck...lol
 Sabrosura

Joined: 8/1/2007
Msg: 275
What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 3/8/2008 3:12:02 PM
Having sex = A "mechanical" act with no emotion. Just going through the motion(s). Basically, get laid.

Making Love = A loving act between two individuals who have invested feelings and emotions with each other.
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