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 cutenurse1122

Joined: 1/7/2008
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What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 4/7/2008 5:33:39 PM




"Making Love" is when the guy doesn't have to come.




"Making love" is also when the woman fakes it in the name of love.
 cyn3100

Joined: 8/4/2006
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What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 4/8/2008 12:18:20 AM
Having sex = 1 orgasm
Making love = 10 orgasms
 Minau

Joined: 9/2/2007
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What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 4/8/2008 12:22:46 AM
Making love is when he looks you in the eyes and kisses you...
 BeerShark

Joined: 10/5/2006
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What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 4/8/2008 12:26:06 AM
Making love is soft, It's slow, It's glowing, It's tenderness It's the gentlness of fingertips against the flesh.
Having sex is f-cking! It's raw, It's animalistic, It's hard and It's fast, It's the slap of a palm across an a55.
 blssmlvs

Joined: 8/17/2004
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What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 4/8/2008 12:37:58 AM
having sex is getting your and saying oH YEAH BABY THAT GREAT THEN "OK gET OF ME NOW " AND SAY I GOT TO GO . AND MAKING LOVE IS SOMETHING AS BEAUTIFUL AS SUMMER WHEN YOU LOVE THAT PERSON SO MUCH THAT YOU FEEL LIKE THE EARTH IS A PLACE IN HEAVEN ... OK SO WHAT IAM A ROMANTIC
 custis

Joined: 3/16/2005
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What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 4/8/2008 2:07:14 AM
Making love generally costs more.
 chewmanfu

Joined: 7/10/2007
Msg: 332
What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 4/8/2008 2:19:57 AM
Making love usually entails having to "talk" afterwards......
Having sex?....not so much talk, more like fixing a sandwich afterwards
 strangebunny

Joined: 2/15/2008
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What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 4/8/2008 7:30:21 AM
having sex is making bodily contact with any attractive piece of meat that you can find (the more beautiful or in my case the bigger and fatter the arse the better) and mutually sharing extreme pleasure with it, with the added opportunity of exploring some really deep psychological stuff.

Making love is very much the same thing (altho the big fat sexy arse becomes less important) ...but this time with someone that you deeply connect with /are in love with such that the deep psychological stuff becomes deeply meaningfully comforting, such that you hope to spend the rest of your life with that person doing it forever.

 1just 4fun

Joined: 6/26/2007
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What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 4/8/2008 10:32:57 AM
I love the answers given...many were quite poetic, some were serious and well thought out, and some were plain fun.

You've helped me sort out a problem that came my way by total chance, opened my eyes, and helped heal a fizzure (not a break) in my heart and self confidence.

My own thoughts on the matter:
having sex...as most agree, pure sex with no consideration for your partner.
making love....doesn't have to be with a loved one, but, yes, each puts the other's enjoyment before their own. Hopefully each is of a like mind and the "sex" is earth shaking.
 Flirty and Fun Blonde

Joined: 4/20/2008
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What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 5/8/2008 7:12:05 AM
I think there are three classes of intercourse.....
1...Sex: an act performed out of obligation with little to no feeling or emotion. Somtimes I relate this to many married couples that are just perfomring an act.
2. Making Love: a soft romantic encounter performed out of love, respect and passion. The feelings are from within; heart, body mind and soul....
3. F***: an animalistic act performed out of sudden spontanenous passion and desires.

I think every healthy, fulfilling relationship beeds both 2 and 3 (personally 3 is very desirable in my book).
 DIAMONDANDRUBIES

Joined: 4/15/2008
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What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 5/8/2008 9:31:51 AM
Your title 'Ambitious Slacker'...suits your comment to a tee.
 kittenshere41

Joined: 4/16/2008
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What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 5/8/2008 9:39:51 AM
having sex is meaningless. no real feelings for each other whatsoever, no nothing just bland. someting to do in spare time.

love making is a beautiful act between two people who truely love each other. and the feelings are incredible.

sex does not compare to the love making
 bathurstman35

Joined: 12/15/2007
Msg: 338
What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 5/8/2008 12:37:06 PM
making love is having sex with someone u love.its an experience thats a lot more than just phisical.
having sex on the other hand is what most people have theses days lol
its purely phisical.
 canadianlady50

Joined: 5/1/2008
Msg: 339
What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 5/8/2008 12:49:31 PM
Both sex, and making love are GREAT , with the right person. I've had the pleasure of both.

I've had a man make sweet passionate love to me, and I've also had him take me like a wild man , and at times me take him like a wild women and please ourselfs to the ends of the world.

The most important thing is to just enjoy either love making , or having sex, and feel good about it, and yourself long after the act is completed.
 Pjhawtie1979

Joined: 5/3/2008
Msg: 340
What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 5/8/2008 1:18:16 PM
I have many ex's who really need to read this post!!! There is nothing worse than having sex with someone you love, when all you really want is to make love to them. Some people (in my case men, but I'm sure there are women) just don't know how to express themselves in an intimate enviroment. Unfortunately, they don't realize that lack of passion is hurtful in a long term relationship, and it's really no great "shakes" for them either.
 AngelnGa

Joined: 6/9/2007
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What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 5/8/2008 7:11:52 PM
Making love requires feelings for the person you are having sex with. Having sex with someone you truly care for involves passion and a knowledge of what they want. Connection on an emotional level cannot be copied in any way.

Having sex is great but it is the act and nothing else simply for pleasure.
 rockmyworld2nite

Joined: 8/22/2007
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What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 5/8/2008 7:16:33 PM
The difference is the level of intimacy. Feeling put forth. "Having sex" is just that....wang bang, you both get off. "Making love" is more drawn out preparing, and more felling attached. More feeling put forth.
 bathurstman35

Joined: 12/15/2007
Msg: 343
What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 5/9/2008 11:00:42 PM
canadianlady50 i just looked at your profile and in relationship status it says 'prefer not to say'
u said u had both.l0l
i can only imagine lol
judging by what your status is.
 bathurstman35

Joined: 12/15/2007
Msg: 344
What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 5/9/2008 11:06:18 PM
1 just for fun'
quote:'making love....doesn't have to be with a loved one'
then why do u think they call it making love????
duhhhhh

i guess u are as deep as a puddle.
excuse me i didnt mean to be rude but i just couldnt resist this one.
 thehunterguy

Joined: 6/18/2006
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What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 5/11/2008 7:27:22 AM
Yup, 50, bucks and about 10 beers ?
 hoot22

Joined: 6/29/2008
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What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 7/3/2008 9:29:30 AM
The difference is only in the mutual feelings of both involved. Sex is an act of primitive copulation. Not involving any real emotion just the need to procreate, or for our present time it is just a sexual release. Men have thousands more eggs to "release" then females. So ejaculation is more of a neccessity then for a female. A man can have sex with a woman that is feeling emotion for a man but it is still just a sex act, because the mans emotions are just a need to release the primitive need to procreate.
To make love is an act of feeling tenderness, need, lust for someone that is feeling mutual feelings. To be physically aroused by a woman's smell, touch or her voice and feel like you want to surrender all of your self to her and want her to feel the same as you. Love is feeling the greatest emotion inside of you grow inside of her and feel connected by flesh, spirit and emotions.
And then Just get it on.............
 Paumanok

Joined: 6/15/2008
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What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 7/3/2008 9:32:35 AM
The difference between having sex and making love is whether you are a man or woman. Men make love, but women have sex. If women want love they have to separate it out from physical experience so it can match the swirly music of their favorite movie. Men love how sex feels and call it all one thing. Love spills over, or spurts, onto the woman and there is no magazine article test he can take to tell him if it is true love or just sex.
 good guy75

Joined: 3/25/2008
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What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 7/3/2008 11:11:41 AM
sex is when you get in bed and you go right at it.not worrying if your partner is getting off you just ram here.i nkow that sounds awful but its the truth.making love is when you take your time look her right in her eyes and touch her every wear .passion passion.why are you asking this question i nkow you nkow the differance.
 tomterrific24

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What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 7/7/2008 1:08:05 PM
I think the answer can be found in the final sceen of the last episode of Everyone Loves Raymond. For him sex will be over before the ice cream has a chance to melt. For her making love means the ice cream will not only have a chance to melt, but dry up and become a hard lump in the bottom of the bowl before her emotions subside.

I think her way is better.
 yorkslass

Joined: 4/30/2007
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What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 7/7/2008 2:06:51 PM
making love is when u actually love somene having sexi is when yr just dating
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