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 Author Thread: What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
 SweetSmartNSassy2

Joined: 7/17/2008
Msg: 451
What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 12/6/2008 2:57:39 PM
I've found the difference is when it's making love, that the guy really takes his time. hits all the zones, works his way around slooooowly and cares how I'm feeling. revels in my responses, is considerate.

having sex - go straight for the lower female parts, no foreplay above the waist.

me - I take my time either way. he's got to enjoy it, too.
 WhiteTigress0107

Joined: 9/30/2008
Msg: 452
What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 12/6/2008 3:06:48 PM
To me the meaning of just having sex is something casual that neither party will regret or admire to the fullest it is the act itself with maybe some "love" involved or just a one night stand. Making love seems to be more special. The sweet caresses that shows he never wants to hurt you (in any way especially emotionally) it has a deep sentimental value. Making love by some definition could mean the slower sex, taking your time and staring into the eyes of the one you're with fully trusting them. It shows that even if neither one says anything it is a wat of showing you care alot about someone. It is sweeet, sensual and romantic. It shows a more emotional attachment between the two people.
 logroq

Joined: 1/8/2007
Msg: 453
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What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 12/6/2008 3:07:34 PM
Having sex is a quicky....BAM! Done, get-up and leave. (Hopefully he'll even be able to get his pants down).

Making love is all the bells and whistles going off! The meshing of two souls by touching each others body in a soft, sacred way, looking deep into each others eyes with the anticipation of fireworks, tasting her lips and sweat on her neck, deep kisses that seem to last all night..........

Dang! Now I need a quicky!
 notshellfish

Joined: 10/1/2007
Msg: 454
What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 12/10/2008 12:20:50 PM
One engages my head, the other just my head is engaged
 elegantly_wasted22

Joined: 12/2/2008
Msg: 455
What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 12/10/2008 12:36:53 PM
To me the difference between making love and having sex is simple, you have a deep love and connection when you make love to someone.. that passion and urge to please the one you love.. sex can be with someone you love too !
Sex can be like a satisfaction for sex and getting off.. going wild, doggy and just woah you know :P.. making love can be slow and alot of touching, communication and sweet taking your time and feeling it.
 *buzz*

Joined: 6/1/2006
Msg: 456
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What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 12/10/2008 1:07:37 PM
When you're in love and making love you do cherish the day and show how deep is your love ... it is as sensual as rumba dance is ... when two people are making only one shadow and if you get a glimpse of their facial expression - it is the same ... in tune, happy, ecstatic. That's the way to go
 Simple_Life

Joined: 11/26/2008
Msg: 457
What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 12/10/2008 2:26:39 PM
I know this is going to sound Stupid but what is Love??? I once tought I was in Love with someone and a Million Horses couldn't drag me away and my head turn for no other. Now a Million Horses couldn't Drag me back!!! However we did make some really senual and passionate Sex as I look back on it, but was it Love???
 Jr2324

Joined: 11/16/2008
Msg: 458
What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 12/10/2008 2:28:12 PM
making love is when ur with the one u love and it means something

sex is meaningless no emotion nothing
 RN2011

Joined: 11/10/2008
Msg: 459
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What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 12/10/2008 4:29:46 PM
Having sex is just two satisfing a physical need but to make love is to show your emotional feelings toward your partner.
 JonIn92656

Joined: 2/19/2006
Msg: 460
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What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 12/10/2008 4:33:03 PM
Having sex is just a physical act involving nothing that two people "getting it on." Making love is an expression of love, of communication, and it involves all the senses. It is so much deeper and meaningful than having sex. Making love is something that separates us from animals. It is surrendering to a higher authority and power, realizing you are not alone, and that you are now part of another person and their life. It is an incredible, life altering experience. I can no longer have sex; I want and need to make love.
 Azure Sky

Joined: 4/17/2008
Msg: 461
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What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 12/10/2008 4:33:50 PM
To me having sex is the pure animal instinct of tigers in the jungle.. natural and untamed. Making love is tamed tigers unleashing their instinct, desire and affection on their mate. Rooooaaar! lol
 Simple_Life

Joined: 11/26/2008
Msg: 462
What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 12/10/2008 5:42:16 PM
Message: To me having sex is the pure animal instinct of tigers in the jungle.. natural and untamed. Making love is tamed tigers unleashing their instinct, desire and affection on their mate. Rooooaaar! lol


I do sometimes Rooooaaaar During and After!!! So that's what Love is now I get it... LOL!!!
 LAgoodguy

Joined: 8/21/2008
Msg: 463
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What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 12/10/2008 7:52:23 PM
Sex and sex when you love someone is how you both feel during and after having sex.. Its all about the feeling that you have toward the other person. When you love someone it shows. For me it does make sex so much better.
 Cogie36

Joined: 10/23/2008
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What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 12/11/2008 7:15:26 AM
I think the difference is.....just doing the act for a release or being together where there is emotion involved....
 just me one

Joined: 10/6/2008
Msg: 465
What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 12/11/2008 11:25:43 AM
To me having sex is just taking care of nature, and we might as well be animals. It is good sometimes to be like that, but come on lets admit that most of us like the whole picture and would rather enjoy the whole package.

Making love to me is a whole day affair, with touching and carresssing and kissing and the whole foreplay thing. And when it is over you lay in each others arms and maybe not have to say a word but you both feel totally satisfied.
 Azure Sky

Joined: 4/17/2008
Msg: 466
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What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 12/11/2008 1:54:30 PM
Aaaaawwweee...so sweet and so very, very true.
 horus13

Joined: 10/11/2008
Msg: 467
What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 12/11/2008 3:28:46 PM
Making love requires trust and the ability to surrender. Sex requires an erection.
 MontanaJames

Joined: 12/7/2008
Msg: 468
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What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 12/11/2008 8:00:25 PM
Sex is like...Bow Chicka Wow Wow, *Spank* !!

And making love is more of an emotional connection

But... What is love? Is it a unexplained connection with someone? Or, is it that the feeling "Love" in women is caused by a chemical in the brain, released after an orgasim, the hormone Oxytocin... also refered to as the "Cuddle Hormone".

Montana White, F.M.D (Fake Medical Doctor) ;P
 sweet_n_heart

Joined: 1/31/2007
Msg: 469
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What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 12/23/2008 12:54:58 PM
Besides the fact " making love " sounds better then " sex ".

To me Making love is when your with someone you really like, care or love.. Sex is like just haven a one night stand or friends with benefits, basically meaningless.
 Adorata

Joined: 12/20/2008
Msg: 470
What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 12/23/2008 1:21:53 PM
Love.

it is sooooooooo obvious.
 Sudchai

Joined: 5/5/2008
Msg: 471
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What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 12/23/2008 9:41:38 PM
Sex has no meaning! Most men have to pay for it. A physical activity to satisfy your own body.

When two people are in love, they have intimacy, they " make love" by having intercourse as a ways to express their love for each other.
 weights4000lol

Joined: 8/21/2008
Msg: 472
What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 12/23/2008 9:59:43 PM
Yeah well to me, maybe not to you ppl. Sex is something I do with a one night person, so basically somebody I could care less about. And love is something that I do with a girlfriend I care about. Sex for me lasts not as long as love bc my brain is not used in sex for me, bc I am like whatever. Love my brain is used like I care deepily for this person and all good she has done for me gets played in my brain and then I react physically and passionately it feels like it lasts forever and sometimes I get the slow motion effect like time standed still for a moment.
 Lil Brooker

Joined: 6/17/2008
Msg: 473
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What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 12/23/2008 10:08:41 PM
What would you say is the difference between "Having Sex" and "Making Love"

The evening, morning or afternoon in question. Really, you can have and enjoy both with the same man. Sex is primal and physical. Making love is emotional and physical.
 jonash2007

Joined: 7/11/2007
Msg: 474
What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 12/23/2008 10:13:00 PM
Making love is when your eyes roll backwards in their sockets at the moment of orgasm. Sex is just when your eyes are closed at that moment....lol
 jonash2007

Joined: 7/11/2007
Msg: 475
What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 12/23/2008 10:13:59 PM
Ooooh sounds like you've had some crappy lovers..sorry about that...those guys give us guys a bad rep..
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