| What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 5/15/2009 9:32:23 PM | "Sex is the intercourse. Love is the kissing, holding and crying. (Yeah, I said it)."
Most love involves the best intercourse...along wiht the above actions and so many other feelings...its not that simple...I know there r women who I loved...but knew they werent the one for me...so my love was there intercourse??? maybe?? or maybe not???
Sex can have many many strong feelings invloved and can be mistaken for LOVE??
Sex will still make some kiss passionately...hold on for dear life...and cry if it hurts...lol...
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| What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 5/16/2009 6:44:51 AM | The first time I ever made love with my husband was the first time I ever made love.
I knew immediately that this was not just "sex". It put everything I had been doing prior to meeting him in a new light.
The first time my husband ever made love just happened to be the first time he made love with me. He too knew it immediately. The way he said he knew was it was the first time he ever had sex with a woman and wanted to stay. With every other woman he ever had sex with or fvcked he could not wait to put his clothes on and go home. With me he did not want to leave.
I was married to my husband until his death. Since becoming single I have known in my heart that I didn't want to go back to just having sex. I wanted a lover and I wanted to make love. The first relationship I entered I fooled myself into thinking I was in love, but in the end I realized I was just being fvcked, the sex was hot, but it was not making love. It was emotionally empty. The man was a good liar. It is a case in point of me making love to him and him fvcking me. I walked away after seven months because I knew I wanted and deserved more than just hot sex. I think I knew from the beginning all I was doing was having sex, and the sex was such a magnetic draw I pretended, and tried to convince myself that it was love.
My current relationship, I waited until we knew each other and I trusted him. I told him I could not have sex casually, that I wanted to make love. When the time came and we became lovers I recognized the same thing I had with my husband. I can't explain it other than to say until you make love with someone you will never really understand. In my lifetime I have only made love to two men. All the others have been just sex. I was using another person's body just to get my orgasm. While I love orgasms as much as the next person, with this the kissing, the touching, the cuddling, the pillow talk, the skin to skin contact, the gazing into each others eyes all have meaning to me. There is no feeling of the heart that a woman can feel quite like the moment that a man who is making love with you slips his member inside you, looks deeply into your eyes and then kisses you, intertwining his fingers with yours. It is a moment of union of bodies, and hearts and souls. This is the reason God intended for sex to be reserved for marriage.
Sex if fun, don't get me wrong. I have a high libido and want it all the time. However,
making love escalates the sex to an entirely different level. At this stage in my life I will keep my libido under control and wait to get that sexual satisfaction I seek with the man I love, while making love. Its that much different. | |
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| What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 5/21/2009 4:00:23 AM | | My friend is a doctor and came to me the other day all upset. He was feeling guilty after sex with one of his patients. I told him it was ok because he was single and that made him feel better. After I left it dawned on me that he was a veterenarian. That would be sex. I went to my personal doctor the other day and explained my problem with constant masturbating. He told me I had to stop...so he could finish the exam. That would be sex. To answer the question...making love...that would be sex. Being "in love" now that's the good stuff. Puts a little bounce in your step eh? I'm still fishing for the good stuff. | |
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| What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 5/21/2009 1:58:38 PM | When having sex I just care about my own pleasure and not about my partner.
When I am making love I care more about my partners pleasure than I do about my own.
When having sex, I have to have physical attraction to the person, but emotional attraction is not important.
When making love, the emotional attachment is where it is at. I am profoundly connected to that individually intellectually, spiritually, emotionally, and that makes them all the more desireable physically.
Having sex is genital focused.
Making love is focused on the whole person. I love to gaze into their eyes. I love to kiss them on their lips. I love the feel of my skin against their skin. I love to touch them , embrace them, hold them close. | |
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Posted: 5/21/2009 3:54:11 PM |
When having sex I just care about my own pleasure and not about my partner.
When I am making love I care more about my partners pleasure than I do about my own.
When having sex, I have to have physical attraction to the person, but emotional attraction is not important.
When making love, the emotional attachment is where it is at. I am profoundly connected to that individually intellectually, spiritually, emotionally, and that makes them all the more desireable physically.
Having sex is genital focused.
Making love is focused on the whole person. I love to gaze into their eyes. I love to kiss them on their lips. I love the feel of my skin against their skin. I love to touch them , embrace them, hold them close.
...for truth.
That is exactly it. No further discussion necessary. | |
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| What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 5/21/2009 8:30:07 PM |
Where does the Quickie fit, in all of this?
Two people that love each other can choose to just have sex. This could be a quickie.
Two people who do not care about each other however, in my opinion do not make love, they just have sex. This could be a quickie or an animalistic fvck, or hot sweaty
hard pumping sex.
Making love, in the choice of the words itself implies that the act engaged in, is in itself creating a greater bond, or making more love between the two involved. The term originated to express how every time two lovers have intercourse they have grown emotionally closer and magnified their love, therefore they "Made more love". | |
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| What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 5/22/2009 11:32:57 AM | Sex is all about the physical, while making love is physical and emotional. When making love, you not only want to give your partner pleasure but you want to be so close to them that you two become one. Sharing yourselves in a way like no other.
Sex is good, making love is even better. IMHO | |
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| What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 5/22/2009 1:16:19 PM | | Sex is about the action, making love is about the emotion behind it. Sex is about physical pleasure, making love takes that and adds emotional connection. Sex is about what is actually being done, making love puts more of an emphasis on who you are doing that with. Sex is joining for sex's own sake, making love is having sex to express what two people (and here is the big part!) ***already feel***. And I do agree with the person who said the thing about facing v.s. turning away. Nothing wrong with either, but when going for the emotional connection of "making love" looking into the other person's eyes and seeing their expression is one of the best parts. | |
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| What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 5/22/2009 1:53:33 PM | | Making luuuurrrrvvvvvvv is what men call it when they want you to believe they actualy have respect and feelings for you other than the feelings in the end of their noobs. But at the end of the day it is no different from having sex so dont believe a word they say, its sex, so whatever you want to call it just enjoy while you can. | |
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| What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 5/24/2009 5:18:19 AM | Intent .....
HAVING SEX
The desire for personal sexual satisfaction with little or no consideration for your partner if indeed you have one.
MAKING LOVE
The desire to pleasure your partner selflessly ensuring their needs and desires are met and then exceeded. Love is not required but does heighten the experience for both partners.
Making love can be hard and rough provided thats what your partner needs, tender and gentle or a combination and, when they think they can be pleasured no more... surpizes them with one last act.
Guys when your done get a warm moist towel and a dry one... wipe her body with one then the other ... kiss her tenderly and snuggle while you run your hands softly, slowly, over her sated body. Once she is asleep you may sink into slumber too while holding her.
I smile as I look at the red hand prints on her ass that she begged for which so excited us both... I am amazed my love wants to be spanked and her hair tenderly pulled during climax.
God I love this woman she is fantastic.... I'm here for the forums.. she reads them with me.... I'm not dating anyone but her. If i have my away.... we will be at each others side for the rest of our lives. | |
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| What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 5/24/2009 5:07:54 PM | Making love is all about passion...givin in to the one and only love of your life..candle lights..soft music...rose petals on the bed...looking at each others eyes and feeling the
connection.
Sex = sex with anyone...for your own satisfaction | |
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| What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 5/25/2009 4:00:09 AM | When having sex I just care about my own pleasure and not about my partner.
When I am making love I care more about my partners pleasure than I do about my own.
When having sex, I have to have physical attraction to the person, but emotional attraction is not important.
When making love, the emotional attachment is where it is at. I am profoundly connected to that individually intellectually, spiritually, emotionally, and that makes them all the more desireable physically.
Having sex is genital focused.
Making love is focused on the whole person. I love to gaze into their eyes. I love to kiss them on their lips. I love the feel of my skin against their skin. I love to touch them , embrace them, hold them close.
Well said and I am with widowdesire 110%!  | |
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| What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 5/25/2009 4:07:38 AM | sex is what you do before you fall in the trap and get hitched
making love is what she makes you do once she owns you !!!
the second on does not require removal of clothes or actual physical contact....
i aint never taking the bait again !!!!! 
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| What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 6/21/2009 1:47:58 PM | Hi. The difference between making love and having sex is all in the feelings you have for the person you are with. You make love to someone that you have deep feelings for. You have sex with someone you just met and are attracted to.
That is my opinion anyway. ~grin
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