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 freindlychrissy

Joined: 7/16/2009
Msg: 551
What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 7/22/2009 5:12:56 PM

Your hole's your hole, any hole's a goal.
Oh that line must be one of the excerpts from Einstein's never before seen works; Theory of how to become an A$$hole or (puzzy) whatever the scale tips in favor of. I'm going with azzhole
 lovemesomemen

Joined: 7/14/2009
Msg: 552
What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 7/22/2009 5:20:20 PM

What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love


didn't read every page of answers so I'll just answer the subject line.


The difference is the spelling of words. Other than that, there's no difference. Insert tab a into slot b.
 odin1642

Joined: 10/10/2007
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What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 7/22/2009 5:28:30 PM
There's a charming equivalent for females, your pole's your pole and any pole's a goal....
 freindlychrissy

Joined: 7/16/2009
Msg: 554
What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 7/22/2009 5:32:41 PM

There's a charming equivalent for females, your pole's your pole and any pole's a goal....
I beg to differ, I don't have a pole and no pole's a goal. I must say I like the Irish/Navtive American conversion that makes a damn fine pole
 James23a

Joined: 7/13/2009
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What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 7/25/2009 1:51:09 PM
To be honest if you asked me its obvious "sex" is any intercourse. Wether it be making love, ****ing, or any other term you want to put on it. But making love is when you are with someone you love. I dont think you can pigeon hole making love by missionary and gazing into your partners eyes. If your enjoying your partner in any way and they are enjoying it as well then its a wonderful thing and just about anything can be making love. I doubt this will be a popular answer but its my thoughts.
 Glenoran1

Joined: 3/1/2009
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Posted: 7/25/2009 2:20:08 PM
The difference is the emotional attachment you have to the person you're having intercourse with. If you and he have a deep, abiding love (not just lust) for one another, the intercourse is one way in which you bond with each other.

Without the emotional attachment, it is just sex.
 *~*Karen*~*

Joined: 4/9/2009
Msg: 557
What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 7/25/2009 8:26:07 PM

having sex is when you are thinking about your own pleasure making love is when you are thinking more of the other person's pleasure....


I have to totally agree with this definition, but have to add: Sometimes while making love passion builds and making love turns into having (hard deep) sex; yet it is still considered love-making because you do not care about anything other than pleasing your partner. Passion adds to the beauty of love-making quite well.
 maximus2169

Joined: 7/27/2007
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Posted: 7/25/2009 10:36:32 PM
Well tender and soft. Why don,t you and I have a little experiment and find out this answer together.
 yekdsievol

Joined: 9/1/2008
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Posted: 8/12/2009 4:28:00 AM
Yes sex you can have with any one, but you can also make love to more than one person , not at the same time ofcourse :) , have you ever been in love more than once?
 Commonsens

Joined: 4/6/2009
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Posted: 8/12/2009 4:45:48 AM

What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love


The amount of furniture destroyed in the process.
 firm88

Joined: 7/21/2009
Msg: 561
What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 8/12/2009 8:26:04 AM
Having sex is just the physical act, but making love is that physical act with an emotional connection.
 *Surfgyrl*

Joined: 12/15/2005
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Posted: 8/12/2009 8:57:14 AM
Since you are looking for a man to answer that question, (especially if both have met and have been steadily seeing each other) it will not happen.

A man will not tell a woman what it takes for him to be completely in love with her, just like a woman will not tell a man what it takes for her to be completely turned on by him.

:)
 2Irish1

Joined: 9/1/2008
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What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 8/18/2009 4:09:27 PM
Uhhhhh...ahhhh...well...ok...who get's off first!!!
 Susieb

Joined: 7/11/2006
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What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 8/20/2009 11:32:45 AM
Well said glenoran1 - guess you are one of the few here who have emotional security.
 dardika

Joined: 7/25/2009
Msg: 565
What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 8/20/2009 11:35:19 AM
both can be quite fun if you are with someone you care about.

Sex to me is usually in unexpected place or even at home when you thought you were just going to watch a movie but the next thing you know...clothes are off and sex...oh yea...sex is coming out of every orifice you have...that can be completely satisfying and fun.


Making love is a little more planned to me...think about it all day, plan a nice dinner, enjoy some wine or whatever, light some candles, play soft music, explore one another's bodies and..well, make love.
 adrenalineontwowheels

Joined: 8/12/2009
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What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 8/20/2009 12:08:50 PM
Sex is a physical act of basic human desire. Making love is having sex with someone in which you are in love. It (making love) is so much more intimacy and caring...and as someone else said, you don't have to come...but it's good if you do.
 DefinitivR

Joined: 6/8/2008
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What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 8/20/2009 3:42:38 PM
Making love refers to the mind and possibly the soul as in tantra or marriage

Having sex refers to the body as in pornography or animal mating instincts
 cashu

Joined: 1/25/2009
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What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 8/20/2009 4:31:15 PM
one is nice the other is great . any one want a test drive
 Fa que

Joined: 2/10/2009
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Posted: 8/20/2009 4:33:15 PM
about 1-1/2 inches north or south

I know... shitty.. joke
 pro-filer

Joined: 5/9/2008
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Posted: 8/20/2009 4:37:55 PM
Who you're with.
 AAG3121

Joined: 8/16/2009
Msg: 571
What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 8/20/2009 8:39:11 PM
It is a state of mind.

When you give 100% to please someone you are with.
It is being totally aware of the persons body and all else does not exist.
Focus totally on pleasing not yourself but the outer.
Sometimes making love my not be mutual.

Just my thoughs
 AAG3121

Joined: 8/16/2009
Msg: 572
What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 8/20/2009 8:40:50 PM
OPPS misted the h
 sglwhtmale

Joined: 7/9/2009
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What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 8/21/2009 2:31:52 PM
About $200.00,Only $40.00 downtown though .........or so I've been told!
 untamedspirit009

Joined: 6/10/2009
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What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 8/21/2009 7:27:37 PM
Wow, that is a loaded question...with an end result...


For many it is the physical or emotional attachment...but in reality,

the connection or chemistry as many label it always seems to be the end result, it is sex.

Don't you think it is how that person or persons are feeling when they engage upon shared enjoyments of sexual endeavors? Sometimes, you care deeply for a person but you just have random sexual pleasures..other times you take it slow and share intimate moments. Even in not caring for them aren't you still sharing a need to partake in pleasing each other? The sharing of bodies meeting is always about pleasure, if you dont get yours while engaging in this act is it the other persons fault? No, I dont think so...You agreed when you stripped each other..no matter how quickly, slowly or not at all that it was about a 'shared enjoyment'....but back to the question...the difference is in how you share it or view it. sharing of bodies in considered sex...emotions can play a factor in it but how often does it? And are you both sharing on the same page while engaging in it? If your in a relationship of 5 years(persay...your milage may differ)...you have moments of having 'sex' and 'making love'. It makes your relationship wholesome and complete

If with a stranger, it is just sexual sharing...and it appears internet dating is just that..a quick fix to resolve a need for 'sex'.... just saying....
 allard

Joined: 3/27/2009
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Posted: 8/21/2009 7:50:47 PM
Difference between making love and having sex? I think it is what a man wants and what a man thinks a woman wants. I think that it is to do with emotions and a womans rose tinted view of sex and a mans "its an act point of view". That is not meant in a bad way but it comes down to the way that men and women are brought up. Women are thought that they should love the person that they lose their virginity to and that respect is a necessity. Men are brought up to think that having SEX, is the goal with no recognition of the emotional side of the act.

So I think that the difference between making love and having sex is time!!! Time for the man to build up the emotional attachment to the act and a woman to appreciate the act for being just the act. So in conclusion the difference is where a couple meet in the middle, emotion on both sides and a love of the act of having sex, with emotion, suppose sounds like making love to me...time!!!
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