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skit.y
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Joined: 10/23/2007
Msg: 78 | |
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| What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 12/7/2007 6:52:41 PM | I’ve always thought of it as three… fvcking, having sex and making love.
Fvcking is the lust filled, raw, passionate hunger that burns hot and hard.
Having sex is fun, playful, a grand, joyous romp.
Making love is being completely present to your partner each filled with how much you love this person; with every breath, touch, taste being a joining and expression of your love flowing into receiving their love. It opens us up, filling and flooding us with our love. Leaves me awed, inspired and so humbled… wish I had the words.
I believe all three have a much loved and valued place within a relationship; wouldn’t want to give any of them up. | |
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| What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 12/7/2007 7:28:46 PM | I'm sure it's already been said, but to me one is a physical act and the other is the physical act with the absence of rational thought and whole lot of confusing emotions thrown in for good measure. Give me making love everytime.  | |
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| What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 12/7/2007 7:31:50 PM | Making love....umm... is when his body is on top of yours and his lips are on your lips....and you're both looking deep into each other's eyes as he slowly enters you...and the world cease to exist.... there's no need for words or sounds....and he grabs your hands and holds them tight in his....and you just lay like that without moving....just looking at each other... both completely naked on all levels....mind, body, and soul....to me that is making love ;)
Having sex ....yeah well that's good too...specially if it's with ^^^ the same guy you're lucky enough to make love with also.
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| What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 12/7/2007 8:45:20 PM | You are a woman and actually asked???
Sex is a ton of fun with someone you don't know and have no desire to know in the future. It's raw and exciting.
Making love is what you have to do with your man to keep him happy.
Geeeze..
I am joking of course. | |
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Savona
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Joined: 1/28/2007
Msg: 86 | |
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| What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 12/7/2007 8:54:12 PM | Sex is the human need for contact and our deep seeded need to procreate. and as preveisoly stated a ego driving act.
Making love is a totallyemotional and spirtal experince that should take both party's to a total new level. one were it is not your needs or wants that matter but your partners. one that does not end at climax but cares over to time afterwards.
were lifedoes not exist outside of the two of you. | |
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Nona37
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Joined: 12/4/2007
Msg: 91 | |
| What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 12/8/2007 3:18:35 AM | | I believe that people in love can have both. Making love and sex. I believe they are both essential to a healthy sex life. I remember once in my past, I actually suggested to a man that we have sex, and no, it wasn't someone I was in love with. He stated to me, "I want to make love" so I then took the cue and rephrased my question, "Ok, wanna make love really hard?" lol | |
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| What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 12/10/2007 2:07:43 PM | This thread is hilarious.
Now, I have experienced sex and making love.
My goal is at some point in the hopefully distant future and not on POF, find someone where I can interchange sex and making love. (I do prefer to have the same man for this...  )
It's a mood thing for me. I am much more physical and making love sounds way too complicated sometimes.
Intimacy... intimacy... blah blah blah... To me intimacy is when you can fart and it does not matter if he hears you...
Even then, I would hope he would oblige by farting also... That, to me, is intimacy!!!  | |
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