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 TenderNSoft

Joined: 5/12/2007
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What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 12/10/2007 4:25:28 PM
Savona

Believe me...I know the difference.

I wanted to see the answer men give versus what the woman give.
 augustapeach

Joined: 10/28/2007
Msg: 102
What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 12/10/2007 5:06:52 PM
Theres time when you with your partner you just want have mean raw sex lol and theres time when you want make love..you want to show affection ,,you want to make the person feel special,you want show the person what he or she does to you
 Heart Bandit

Joined: 5/13/2006
Msg: 103
What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 12/10/2007 5:51:01 PM
Having sex is all about satisfying the physical urge without any deep emotional attachment. Making love is done by those who truly love one another and feel the connection on both the physical and emotional level.
Simplistic explanation, but I believe it's to the point.
 leezer101

Joined: 12/6/2007
Msg: 104
What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 12/10/2007 8:46:52 PM
making love is when you and your partner are close together giving each other the tenderness and closeness and the affection that only the two of you feel for each other you must feel very close to your partner cuddle caress you must be as one. sex would be the absolute opposite.
 MelloDLyn

Joined: 10/25/2004
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What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 12/10/2007 8:56:08 PM
Having sex is just getting off, well for the guy that is. I don't get off just having sex and that get nothing out of it so I don't like to have sex just to please someone else. Now making love is full of passion and fireworks and electricity and u want it to go on all nite. U both get something out of it. I would never want to have a nite of having sex with a guy when if he only got to know me the making love part is so intense for me. The wait it worth it. U get to know about each other and likes and dislikes and u care about pleasing the other person.
 Herding Cats

Joined: 11/8/2007
Msg: 106
What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 12/10/2007 10:25:04 PM
What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love


It's like the difference between having ice cream and making cookies.

Both of them satisfy a craving, but the first one is quick and easy — ready to go right out of the box and all you need is a spoon.

The other takes some time and the right ingredients and tools to get everything just right... Then eventually it heats to the just the right temperature — transforming it into something else that can continue to be savoured even as the heat is wearing off.

They're both good, just depends on your mood.

Can't have ice cream ALL the time.
 floosie

Joined: 10/14/2007
Msg: 107
What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 12/10/2007 10:34:01 PM
About twenty minutes.
 okimgame

Joined: 10/2/2007
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What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 12/10/2007 11:57:50 PM
[About twenty minutes]

Good one.

A couple of extra kisses, according to my ex. :(
 BearHeartUK

Joined: 11/15/2007
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What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 12/11/2007 12:38:31 AM
Having sex is a physical thing.
Making love is a mental thing, a connection.
You can make love without having sex. With words, with a touch, a look in your eyes etc etc
 chaswhatif

Joined: 4/30/2005
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What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 12/11/2007 4:11:30 AM
We see sex on the farm.Makin'love looks sorta similar and is so different(worse).
A couple,each engrossed in pleasuring the other...lovemakin'?
 sexyviper

Joined: 10/12/2005
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What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 12/11/2007 4:27:59 AM
you can have sex with anyone ...you can only make love to the one that has your heart
 cuddlerman

Joined: 6/29/2007
Msg: 112
What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 12/11/2007 5:08:45 AM
Sex is for fun, entertainment, pleasure. Making Love is when you love someone, so much better, no comparison to just sex.
 SensualAquarian

Joined: 6/2/2007
Msg: 113
What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 12/11/2007 7:05:50 AM
Well this is an easy one for some people to get confused......Sex for Love I mean....

Sex, is just that....It is purely for pleasure....and usually not theirs but your own....There isn't much feeling behind Sex....It is mainly a self serving action with somebody you may find attractive, but don't want a relationship with....

Making Love is something you do with somebody special.....It is shared between 2 people...It is more passionate....More affectionate....Less about the getting off and more about sharing a moment.....
 Artistee

Joined: 7/24/2006
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What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 12/11/2007 7:13:19 AM
Umm...when she's wearing no make-up, her hair's up in curlers, her finger/toenails are unpolished, and she's clad in an unromantic flannel nightgown...and you still thorougly enjoy getting off sexually with her (and want more)...I guess that would fall into the "making love" category...

Ahh...YAH....
 Schadenfreudian

Joined: 7/5/2007
Msg: 115
What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 12/11/2007 7:13:44 AM
SA: Still, judging from the many attempts to define the difference, it's the difference in terms of millimeters between the top of a gnat's wing and the bottom.

I think the difference is what your partner wants to hear: she favors hearing that you and she "made love" because apparently the other term is too vulgar/animalistic for us oh-so-superior human beings.
 LQQK`N41MANONLY

Joined: 7/9/2007
Msg: 116
What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 12/11/2007 7:26:51 AM
sex is w/someone u have no emotional attachment 2.. making love is when u have an emotional attachment towards that other person ur involved with..
 manofthesea24

Joined: 1/29/2007
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What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 12/11/2007 7:34:38 AM
I vote for this deffinition. Making love is slow, sweet and very satisfying.
 manofthesea24

Joined: 1/29/2007
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What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 12/11/2007 7:36:31 AM
Hay Cats,
Can I have cookies with my ice cream? mmmmm
 gavinfanlvoe

Joined: 1/3/2007
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What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 12/11/2007 7:48:01 AM
that means, i never had sex...

i made love only...

but to feel if your partner feels good, that makes you feel good(happy) as well.
 livesimply30

Joined: 11/26/2007
Msg: 120
What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 12/11/2007 9:56:36 AM

It's like the difference between having ice cream and making cookies.

Both of them satisfy a craving, but the first one is quick and easy — ready to go right out of the box and all you need is a spoon.

The other takes some time and the right ingredients and tools to get everything just right... Then eventually it heats to the just the right temperature — transforming it into something else that can continue to be savoured even as the heat is wearing off.

They're both good, just depends on your mood.

Can't have ice cream ALL the time.


Excellent explanation ... .. but sometimes you can have cookies with your ice cream... which is a nice treat.

 valleyjavastop

Joined: 6/4/2007
Msg: 121
What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 12/11/2007 10:15:41 AM
having sex is releasing some pressure ,.
making love is like ,,a relationship re energizer ..

enjoy both types of sex in a good relationship,,its give and take

men understand tool talk ..women understand good food or value.

the answer men give versus what the woman give? we can agree that there is a difference between sex and makeing love anyway..
 Mountianfresh

Joined: 12/1/2007
Msg: 122
What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 12/11/2007 11:05:01 AM
It has been said before by others;
Sex is sex. Hot, anamalistic, mutual satisfaction.

Making love is taking the time to please each other in an amazingly intimate way.
You are totally in sync both physically and emotionally. sights, sounds ... all your senses are heightened in a deep meaningful way.

Hot animalistic sex... Great! Making love... The icing on the cake (or cookies)
 chellaruse

Joined: 10/31/2007
Msg: 123
What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 12/11/2007 12:06:45 PM
Sex is when they go home the same night and you don't think about them the next day or the day after, or the day after that. Sex is a service rendered. 50 bucks, ha, ha...

Love is when they stay the night, and you think about them the next day and can't wait to see them again. Love is a heart connection given and you don't want or need the 50 bucks. Ha, ha...
kidding.

Sex is sex.
Love is love.
 bigflgator07

Joined: 6/8/2007
Msg: 124
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What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 12/11/2007 12:27:34 PM
sex and makin love is almost like eating soup...do you wanna use a fork?...NO... cause i wanna use a spoon to savor every drop !!
 17 Again

Joined: 4/23/2007
Msg: 125
What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 12/11/2007 1:20:37 PM
Making love is all about Love and its filled with extrodinary emotions. Feeling like you are between heaven and earth and you just want to remain there forever. No words have to be said. Full of smiles in your heart, your soul and your mind. Wanting to give all that you can and more. Full of careeses and even when you just touch the one you love anywhere from head to toe it makes you feel essatic to feel the flesh of that person you love. And when you are all done and have nothing left to give you can just fall and rest in each others arms. At that point you have no worries in the world.

Sex is so differant. Its more like forefilling lustful desires. And after its just back to reality
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