| can you trust some one once they cheat?
Posted: 4/16/2007 1:57:05 PM | NO! They cannot ever be trusted. EVER AGAIN. They have no respect for you, whatsoever!!!
Take a look at my post entitled: "Is there ever a good reason to be unfaithful" under "Ask A Guy." | |
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| can you trust some one once they cheat?
Posted: 4/16/2007 2:55:47 PM | | No - once the trust has gone you have nothing! My relationship of 13 years ended through this and we had been married for 7 years of that and had 3 children together. That wasn't enough to stay together and have no trust. | |
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| can you trust some one once they cheat?
Posted: 4/16/2007 3:02:10 PM | | Totally NOT! Once it's done and discovered it permanently damages not just the trust, but the whole relationship...how can you ever really trust that person again? Your always looking for their reactions when they meet people, always wondering about the people they work with or socialise with...my dad gave me 1 valuable piece of advice " ....never go back to a damaged relationship..." , its worked for me so far and i know it sounds tough but betraying another person is the ultimate kick in the nuts and should never be forgiven or forgotten, you'll come out of it a stronger person. | |
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| can you trust some one once they cheat?
Posted: 4/16/2007 3:47:17 PM | | never...you fcuked up big time.....how the hell can you trust again....you will always be wondering if it will happen again and i don't want to stress about that...the odds are that person will cheat again... | |
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| can you trust some one once they cheat?
Posted: 4/16/2007 3:55:47 PM | | Heck no! "Once a cheater, always a cheater." That saying is so true, believe me...I've been cheated on in 5 out of the 7 relationships that I've been in. The first and only man I ever loved cheated on me and admitted to it. He told me that he loved me and I promised to never cheat on me again and since I loved him I forgave him, only to have him cheat on me again..with the same girl. I finally got smart and dumped his sorry a**. | |
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| can you trust some one once they cheat?
Posted: 4/23/2007 10:18:03 AM | | My favourite is when you catch them red-handed and they deny it. That just tells me they cannot own up to it, they think you're stupid, and that they can get away with it again. Never, ever, ever go back to a cheater. | |
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| can you trust some one once they cheat?
Posted: 4/23/2007 11:16:44 AM | | I met a girl that was living with a guy when we met and started fooling around. When they split and we got together I found myself watching her carefully. My friends all warned me . Cheat on him, she'll cheat on you. She asked me if i could ever trust her and i said that it would be eared over time,(i was just as gulty as her). I found out later that i wasen't the first guy she did this with. Long story short, it took about 5months and i stated seeing the same pattern with me that she did with him. She denies it and i can't prove it so it went on for 3 more months then it was over. A tiger never loses it's stripes. Lesson learned. | |
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| can you trust some one once they cheat?
Posted: 4/23/2007 11:24:33 AM | | I don't think you can say "Once a cheater, always a cheater," but it's pretty close to a slam-dunk indication that a relationship (even marriage) has no future. If not immediately, then eventually. Anyone can make a mistake, but trying to put the peices together after usually isn't worth the effort. Even if they never cheat again, the relationship is NEVER the same. Either they didn't value the relationship enough to not risk screwing it up, or they're too self-centered to make the sacrifices needed to put it back together anyway. Can be done, but it's doubtful. And, if it was a back-door relationship rather than a one-time fling, you can't bail quick enough. | |
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| can you trust some one once they cheat?
Posted: 4/24/2007 7:38:16 AM | | If i find out they cheated I will be able to forgive them but that will be the end. Time to move on to greener pastures. The trust would just no longer be there. | |
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| can you trust some one once they cheat?
Posted: 4/24/2007 7:47:06 AM | Yeah U can probally trust them, 2 cheat on U again :D
Ummmm, for real. Havent the slightest idea. I lost my mind reading powers. When my spider senses quit working, lol.
Ok now 4 me to try to be serious.
Depends on the person I guess. Depends on the situation/circumstances. And probally depends, on alot of things. Nobody will be able to answer, but U. | |
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| can you trust some one once they cheat?
Posted: 4/24/2007 7:51:21 AM | | As if it hasn't been said once or twice before ... absolutely NO! Violate a fundamental and sacred trust by cheating ... no second chances ... don't let the door hit you where the lord split you as I wave goodbye. | |
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| can you trust some one once they cheat?
Posted: 4/24/2007 1:41:48 PM | Have cheated on someone I really liked :( And then told them about it. And promised, not to do it again. And then cheated on them again. Have a cigar burn on the back of my left hand, right now. Where I put a cigarillo out on myself. As punishment, for what I did. (see above.) LOL, was fooking painful and HOT. :D
I like to think Ive changed and grown since then. But, dont have a clue. If U can trust whoever iz cheating on U. Or are U doing the cheating ? Thats a choice U get to make. Irregardless of what someone says. But if your involved with someone. And care about him/her. Then shyt just isnt that simple. Az to no, dont trust them. Pack it in and move on. I would probally try to forgive a woman I was with. If she cheated on me. Provided I actually had real feelings 4 her. Whatever, later.
PS,...shyt, but my opinion iz it has a high probability of falling into dust. If someone really truly cares 4 U. Then they wont want someone else. Gawd hate all this serious shyt. Its like therapy. Only Im not getting $75 bucks an hr.
PS2, lol shyt, but there are things like open relationships. It depends on what U want. And what your willing to accept. I mean if someone wants a strictly conventional. Woman/man relationship, then I would say. Burn me once shame on U. Burn me twice, shame on me. Gawd. | |
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| can you trust some one once they cheat?
Posted: 4/24/2007 6:56:58 PM | | If it is you that they cheat on...then No u cannot...they have left you in there heart ,and in any moral or trust u have had for or with them | |
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| can you trust some one once they cheat?
Posted: 4/24/2007 7:12:05 PM | | Once a cheater always a cheater is not always true. Some may only do it once, and never even think of doing it again. Some people learn their lesson. But it really doesn't matter. Once the trust is gone, the relationship is over. Too hard to get that back, and there will always be that transgression hanging over the head of the one who cheated. | |
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| can you trust some one once they cheat?
Posted: 4/25/2007 12:32:57 AM | Absolutely No!!! I think being cheated on by someone who claims to love you just messes up your head! And anybody who would do that to you, maybe cares about you but obviously doesn't care enough! I think once you've had time to deal with the initial shock when you find out, you need to kick that person to the curb and find yourself a better partner!! | |
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