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 Author Thread: can you trust some one once they cheat?
 Babylonia

Joined: 1/27/2005
Msg: 101
can you trust some one once they cheat?
Posted: 6/9/2005 12:42:32 PM

but i would make him suffer for it and buy me lots of jewlery. lol



Yeah, then dump the **stard....LMFAO

I've always wanted a Chopard bevel ring.
 CoffeeMan

Joined: 6/7/2005
Msg: 102
can you trust some one once they cheat?
Posted: 6/9/2005 1:19:01 PM
Here's a mind screw for you...
I didn't find out that my fience was cheating on me untill some time after we already separated due to other issues. And it was her bestfriend that told me about it after she had found out that her boyfriend was cheating on her with my now ex-fience.

What a wonderful time we live in, eh?

But to the point, no. You cheat on me, that's it. It's over. The person who I though you were and trusted has been destroyed and can never be replaced.
 Lippyblonde

Joined: 8/7/2004
Msg: 103
can you trust some one once they cheat?
Posted: 6/9/2005 1:22:19 PM
NO
 girl interupted

Joined: 6/5/2005
Msg: 104
can you trust some one once they cheat?
Posted: 6/10/2005 4:02:05 AM
well yes there is hope for a new guy or gal in a relationship, I think the issue is do you stay with a cheat? once they have cheated on you and wants to come back to you?
In that situation NOOOO way he did it once to me he will do it again, so let him or her go do it elsewhere. Ive been cheated on by my x husband several times , I tried my best to make it work, but in the end he left for someone else and because he had gotten away with it so many times he did it without a care for me whatsoever. but if I saw him now I would say thank you for leaving me , im happier, and am free to live and enjoy life. Besides cheaters never win.
 can_chaser_dl

Joined: 5/4/2005
Msg: 105
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can you trust some one once they cheat?
Posted: 6/10/2005 6:58:35 AM
i believe if there was ever anything there you can build back the trust you once had if you figure out the reasoning for what happened
 bellaxxx

Joined: 5/29/2005
Msg: 106
can you trust some one once they cheat?
Posted: 6/10/2005 8:02:52 AM
its the reason why they cheat that u have to look at, if it was for a bit of fun or was there something wrong and if so why be that weak to cheat personally i couldnt trust as i think it takes a very low person to cheat. why be with someone if u wanna be with someone else!!!!
as the great saying goes once a cheater always a cheater sorry xx
 crazaygurl

Joined: 6/10/2005
Msg: 107
can you trust some one once they cheat?
Posted: 6/10/2005 8:24:06 AM
Hell friggin no.
The trust was broken the moment they stuck their winkie somewhere else.
 Anlachok

Joined: 4/24/2005
Msg: 108
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Posted: 6/10/2005 9:49:27 AM
In a perfect you could but being an imperfect world and we're all human..well no...the basic trust is gone and doubt will ever be there and hanging over each other's head...I say move on and hope you don't get your trust taken for granted.
 lonertx63

Joined: 4/5/2005
Msg: 109
can you trust some one once they cheat?
Posted: 6/10/2005 9:56:40 AM
Gawddd, ladies, ya got to understand a man has immediate needs for his twinkie! Damn, how heartless can ya be denying us our due? I need a woman in every port to handle my twinkie needs. Cheatin is just havin a little fun. What the hell is wrong with you possessive females? It is a man's NEED that comes first, and you should be glad for his twinkie. How could you overlook such a need? Sure forgive the fokker for dippin his wick everywhere he goes. It is part of life,,a man must have these things. Twinkies are very important to nourish and take care of. Now, you need to change your attitude, and let the men have their harems, and get laid wherever they want. God, are you heartless. That is just twinkie-cruelty to deny a man what he needs. You must let him have room to grow, and meet his needs. Ain't that the role of a good woman? And keep raisin the kids, and have supper when we get home. Oh, and keep your job cause I'm busy raisin my twinkie. (Some women just have no respect for good ole boys!)
 hippy2003

Joined: 12/26/2003
Msg: 110
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Posted: 6/26/2005 2:28:37 AM
ONCE A CHEAT ALWAYS A CHEAT.
 waynepb4999

Joined: 5/28/2005
Msg: 111
can you trust some one once they cheat?
Posted: 6/26/2005 6:57:05 AM
Almost all people who cheat have either a very low self esteem or very little love and respect for their partner. Let's face it we all love a bit of flattery now and again but to take it that one step too far simply means that there is something drastically wrong or missing in the relationship.
 fair_lady

Joined: 4/18/2005
Msg: 112
can you trust some one once they cheat?
Posted: 6/26/2005 7:04:56 AM
One of the bits of advice my mother gave me when I was young that proved to be so true is "Once a Cheater, Always a cheater". I think it is a wise and truthful statement.
 gh101

Joined: 2/7/2005
Msg: 113
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Posted: 6/26/2005 7:09:06 AM
NO
 affectionateiowawoman

Joined: 6/17/2005
Msg: 114
can you trust some one once they cheat?
Posted: 6/26/2005 7:25:25 AM
No, I agree with everone else, once a cheater, always a cheater. It's just in their blood or something. I know people can change, but most don't. My ex brother-in-law told me once, after taking my ex-husband back, 'if you have a rotten piece of meat, does it ever get any better?' I got the message and left my ex, who married again and cheated on his new wife!! No, I won't take it again, if you cheat on me, out you go, and don't let the door hit you on your way out!!
 ThatNickGuy

Joined: 4/9/2005
Msg: 115
can you trust some one once they cheat?
Posted: 6/26/2005 7:31:01 AM
Just once, huh? And they'd never, ever EVER do it again? Cross their heart, hope to die, stick a needle in their eye?

There's the door. Hope the doorknob hits them in the back on the way out.
 Knight Rider

Joined: 4/10/2005
Msg: 116
can you trust some one once they cheat?
Posted: 6/26/2005 11:52:44 AM
No,once a cheater always a cheater!Besides,even if they didn't cheat,if they were
late getting home,what do you think is the first thing that will pop up in your
mind!!

Once the trust is gone,relayionship is over,no matter how much it hurts to
not give them another chance!
 GeorgieLeopard

Joined: 5/13/2005
Msg: 117
can you trust some one once they cheat?
Posted: 6/26/2005 2:38:21 PM
Absolutely not, out the door, bud and don't let it smack your ass on your way out!
 Ive

Joined: 6/25/2005
Msg: 118
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can you trust some one once they cheat?
Posted: 6/26/2005 2:47:15 PM
It depends - how bad do you want them back...
 lonewolfofwest

Joined: 5/14/2005
Msg: 119
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can you trust some one once they cheat?
Posted: 6/26/2005 2:52:47 PM
no you can not i have been there with my ex fiancea she cheet on me a number of time and lie to me and told me stories a lot an abanded me after the first time she said she would never do it again but she did many time we broke up and later got back together just to have her do the same things again there is more to this story i still live with her and her mother and baby only as a room mate i am not the real father to the child check my profile out and you will see pic of her with me and the baby she is on this site looking for other i am to but looking for real relationship where i won't get hurt
 heavyw8t

Joined: 12/3/2004
Msg: 120
can you trust some one once they cheat?
Posted: 6/26/2005 3:39:38 PM
Not me. Either they have the cheater mentality or they don't. I have never done it because it is a violation of trust between people and I wouldn't treat anybody that way. Ever.
 PersiusOne

Joined: 8/20/2004
Msg: 121
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Posted: 6/26/2005 3:51:02 PM
Never - that is an instant dealbreaker.
 AngelaLeong

Joined: 5/31/2005
Msg: 122
can you trust some one once they cheat?
Posted: 6/26/2005 5:08:27 PM
HELL NO-

Cheating is DISHONEST

Once a cheater....always a cheater

 Nicesmileyguy

Joined: 6/10/2005
Msg: 123
can you trust some one once they cheat?
Posted: 6/26/2005 5:10:58 PM
No freakin' way! I made that mistake with my second girlfriend and the next thing I know she's pregnant with another man's baby!
 Adonna

Joined: 6/4/2005
Msg: 124
can you trust some one once they cheat?
Posted: 6/26/2005 5:25:26 PM
OH Cheating .........eh?

NOPE!! It's like a cup that fell to the floor - you can ALWAYS see the Cracks and try drinking from it again -(sometimes those cracks expand), but simply watch out it dosn't shatter & burn for another temperate juice... -- NO!! NO!! NO!!...
 budman_ct

Joined: 5/30/2005
Msg: 125
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can you trust some one once they cheat?
Posted: 6/26/2005 6:09:32 PM
Now way, never trust them again. If someone cheats on you and you forgive them they got away with it, so whats to stop them from cheating on you again??? you will just forgive them again,and again, and again.........

Has anyone ever had someone cheat on you and then try to convince you it was your fault???? Hows that for insulting!
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