| can you trust some one once they cheat?
Posted: 6/26/2005 6:16:31 PM | | Nope. I made the mistake of giving her a second chance after catching them in the act. Five months later she brought another home and introduced him as her new boyfriend. | |
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Adonna
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Joined: 6/4/2005
Msg: 127 | |
| can you trust some one once they cheat?
Posted: 6/26/2005 6:46:13 PM | WoW...greycat sorry...
So much for FORGIVNESS and holdn on to them... 
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BUD... good point 
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Adonna
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Joined: 6/4/2005
Msg: 128 | |
| can you trust some one once they cheat?
Posted: 6/26/2005 6:46:40 PM | WoW...greycat sorry...
So much for FORGIVNESS and holdn on to them...
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BUD... good point
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| can you trust some one once they cheat?
Posted: 6/26/2005 7:12:28 PM | Do you believe that because YOU have cheated and want a second chance?
Or have you experienced being cheated on, and your partner changed? | |
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| can you trust some one once they cheat?
Posted: 6/26/2005 7:13:50 PM | | if i was to date someone that cheated on me and i took t hem back...i would be paranoid all the tim ethey are cheating on me.so no i dont think you can trust them :S | |
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Mr O
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Joined: 3/26/2005
Msg: 137 | |
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Posted: 6/26/2005 7:18:51 PM | Nope!!!
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Posted: 7/9/2005 1:33:36 PM | | I think there needs to be some serious conversation about the reasons behind the cheating. I think if you can be more honest with eachother about your desires and what you each need then maybe you can work it out. Why not consider an open relationship. I wouldn't stay in a committed relationship with a guy who cheated on me, but maybe an open one; that way we could both do it. I think people really need to think before they jump into relationships and be sure they want to commit to someone at that time. It's such an important decision, because deception is awful for both people and the relationship will be doomed to fail eventually because of it. It took me a while to learn but nothing is more important than brutal honesty... always! | |
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| can you trust some one once they cheat?
Posted: 7/9/2005 1:45:13 PM | Yes, you can learn to trust them and forgive them.
However, forgetting is a total different thing. Forgetting is so hard that it makes the relationship almost impossible to fix.
IMO if you cheat, the relationship is over. | |
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| can you trust some one once they cheat?
Posted: 7/9/2005 6:09:08 PM | I think if you really want to, you can make it work. It just depends on how bad you want it to work. Personally I think that once there's no trust, there's nothing at all and more than likely if it doesn't end there, then it will sooner or later.
also depends on the situation. Were you dating for a few weeks and the other person hadn't realized you guys were exclusive? Or have you been married/dating for quite a long time?
Factors play into wether or not people can handle it. | |
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| can you trust some one once they cheat?
Posted: 7/9/2005 6:44:01 PM | | I might want to trust them again, but I am just not sure it would ever happen. When I met someone I assume they are being truthful with me in all ways, but once that trust has been broken it is hard for me to ever trust them again. | |
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coy
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Joined: 1/24/2005
Msg: 142 | |
| can you trust some one once they cheat?
Posted: 7/9/2005 6:58:38 PM | | i doubt i could trust them ever again. i have told myself that if it ever happens to me, i'm cutting clean cold turkey style. it's a hard way to do it i suppose, but i've got the discipline for that kind of thing. | |
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| can you trust some one once they cheat?
Posted: 7/9/2005 7:02:39 PM | I have trusted another after cheatin...only because....he was a friend first & under certain circumstances I allowed it.....but, after much thought I decided I didn't deserved it & I left him...NOW! that sh&it happens you are GONE..OUT!..if you don't leave I will kick your as&s out...so I learned not to trust another after cheatin...It aint coo & its uncalled for...why be in a commitment when your gonna cheat....a commitment is a commitment...
till the end... | |
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| can you trust some one once they cheat?
Posted: 7/9/2005 10:09:00 PM | A man will only get one chance to cheat on our relationship...I repeat...ONE.
That is to say, he ain't never coming back...and he can go be with his cheating counterpart...while I find someone better than him. | |
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| can you trust some one once they cheat?
Posted: 7/10/2005 12:08:05 AM | Yep. Been there, done that, damn glad I did......
The marraige was rocky for a while, but it DID heal...
We talked. We got counseling. We found out the reason WHY, and took that problem away.
We learned to communicate.
In the end, we decided the realtionship was worth a lot more than anyone's pride. | |
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