| can you trust some one once they cheat?
Posted: 7/10/2005 2:16:20 AM | | I know for a fact that you can trust someone who cheats on you but it has to grow and rules have to be made and they must gain trust back. We cannot put everyone in one hole and say because ive been cheated on many times does not mean that the next person will do the same after cheating on you once. I think people answer this question way to fast without examining it. | |
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| can you trust some one once they cheat?
Posted: 7/10/2005 3:31:45 PM | Well this may sound bad.............However if they cheat... chances are they will probably do it again......
SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO play the game as well, if they cheat u cheat AND MAKE DAMN SURE THE ONE YOU CHEAT WITH IS HOTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTER 
Now BITE me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! | |
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| can you trust some one once they cheat?
Posted: 7/10/2005 5:20:33 PM | | Never done it, or had it done to me....to my knowledge anyway... I would want to really understand why she felt the need to and try to fix it, so that it wouldn't happen ever again...if my trust was again misplaced, or we just can't fix it...I don't think I could take it. | |
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| can you trust some one once they cheat?
Posted: 7/13/2005 7:47:42 PM | | I trusted too many cheaters, too many times. Accepting them back, when I should have been pizzing in their iced tea. I only wanted honesty. If you wanna cheat, tell me so, and go. I'd rather just hear it that way, then be lied to or mislead. Any cheaters from now on will be terminated upon report. | |
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| can you trust some one once they cheat?
Posted: 7/13/2005 7:54:25 PM | Sorry but I have to agree with most
I'm a very unforgiving person in that area of relationships
If they cheat, they don't love you
plain and simple.
and any type of arguing or explaining or therapy is not going to make up for the fact that the person whom I loved and would never cheat on would cheat on me. Had it happen once and I was on the next plane for Canada. left her pretty much at the alter after I found out too.
if a person cheats, then they should not be in a relationship and be looking for the other 'swingers' at the local bar or club or whatever.
If you treat someone like trash then you should be dating trash. | |
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| can you trust some one once they cheat?
Posted: 7/13/2005 8:50:45 PM | | Agree, how can u trust someone who cheated, if they did it once, then how do you know in your heart that they wont do it again.. | |
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RitzNB
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| can you trust some one once they cheat?
Posted: 7/13/2005 9:26:25 PM | @ hottie207
I couldn't trust him again. Once the trust and respect are gone the relationship is doomed to fail. I wouldn't tolerate infidelity. He'd be history. | |
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| can you trust some one once they cheat?
Posted: 7/13/2005 9:48:04 PM | NOPE!!! NOT A CHANCE!!
My best friend dated a guy who cheated on his gf with my best friend and when they started dating excusivly (so she thought) he was cheating on her with one of her co workers... he siad he wouldnt cheat anymore ... but he did a few more times .. they are not together anymore thank god she woke up!!
So a word to the wize ... if the person you are dating cheated to be with you chances are they will cheat on you too! | |
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| can you trust some one once they cheat?
Posted: 7/13/2005 11:04:14 PM | | To all those atanding up to this for us guys thanks and an answer to the question it depends on the guy if hes soul less hell naw if he loves you enough its his turn to show it to you not your turn to stay and beg for him to change his mind if its made up leave him. For a women it don't depend on nothing if she cheats and you let her know your hurt beyond belief it don't work stand strong and let her come to you if she don't come back then get another women, but never give up if your in love just stand your grounds you got the right to do that whether your a women or man. | |
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POF123
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| can you trust some one once they cheat?
Posted: 7/14/2005 6:24:49 PM | | I equate a relationship to a treasure chest, where you keep your shared memories and special times together. When you cheat on your partner its like using your treasure chest as a "honey bucket" the stink never goes away | |
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| can you trust some one once they cheat?
Posted: 7/14/2005 8:17:10 PM | To quote Reverend Lovejoy: the long answer is yes, with an if; the short answer is no, with a but . Yes, you can trust a cheater if it is uncharacteristic of their personality and you actually trust them when they apologize. I've witnessed several of my friend's relationships last through a couple rounds of infidelity only to see them a week later together like nothing happened.
But you also have to keep in mind that some people are chronic liars. If you don't trust them when they apologize, then you can't really continue an honest relationship. Unless you both agree to have an open relationship, but I've never seen one of those work out. Ever. Plus you open yourself up to all sorts of health concerns.
People are insane. It helps to remember that.  | |
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| can you trust some one once they cheat?
Posted: 7/14/2005 9:17:13 PM | No, negative, nada, nunka, never, niente, why?
I mean there is really no excuse. You are in full control of your actions, and body unless your insane in which case you belong in an institution. Drunk or otherwise.
I say forgive them for cheating, and then break up with them for it. Because it was always just 1 time. Yeah the one time they got thought. I say apply the rule of 3x3. If they cheated with 1 they cheated with 9. lol
I mean whats to stop them? Nothing. Exactly. Glad you agree. | |
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