| Are women too Uptight . . ???
Posted: 12/9/2007 11:17:27 AM | Yes ALLLLL women are completely uptight because we don't want to talk about the size of our breasts or set up a time to "get it on" in the first 5 minutes of a conversation... 
MAYBE if you were a gentleman and talked to women with the respect and dignity we deserve, you would get a little further in this dating world... | |
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Savona
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Joined: 1/28/2007
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| Are women too Uptight . . ???
Posted: 12/9/2007 12:24:21 PM | Email: Would love to do you = BLOCK
IM: How's oral working for you on POF = BLOCK
I am not prude, no not at all, but hey please just copy and paste to someone who you know will be more receptive.
MOST decent men looking for a relationship don't act like this so my only assumtion can be Married. Another Married Azzhole... next.
Savona | |
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| Are women too Uptight . . ???
Posted: 12/9/2007 12:58:19 PM | iam looking for friends or maybe a date.
dating is too risky tho as most of the women i have met were not serious at all so its best to play safe and chat.....even getting women to chat on here is easier said than done.
when i send decent , proper messages to women who look decent and nice who share similar interests to my self, more often than not they never reply, they just read my message and ignore it.
iam not asking to meet them , just to chat or e-mail, iam not taking any thing from these women by wanting to simply chat to them.
my theory is that these women check my profile and look at my pictures and if they dont think iam " hunky " enough they pass me by. | |
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| Are women too Uptight . . ???
Posted: 12/9/2007 1:19:11 PM | Fact is that one of the meanest things you can call a woman is still a "slut"
Call her a ****, a husband basher, a child abuser, a bad mother (all far worse issues than a bit of screwing around, and it's largely ignored.
But call her a slut. Anybody would be up tight.
Think about it gentlemen. In our twwn years, if we werent continaully talking about sex, or chasing ****, what was the reaction from our peer group? "Wass matter wit you. You some kinda fag?
Would leave any women uptight. Unfortunately. | |
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| Are women too Uptight . . ???
Posted: 12/9/2007 1:22:33 PM | MAYBE if you were a gentleman and talked to women with the respect and dignity we deserve, you would get a little further in this dating word
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Ah yes
"MAYBE'
The olde universal cop out.!
Fact is that men, who do treat women with respect are regarded as weak kneed whimps and are treated with contempt.
Like it or not, if a boyfirned is not trying to get the ladys pants off it offends her sense of sex appeal and her ego. "You don't think I'm attractive'" and all that. | |
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| Are women too Uptight . . ???
Posted: 12/9/2007 1:24:42 PM | MOST decent men looking for a relationship don't act like this so my only assumtion can be Married. Another Married Azzhole... next.
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When you ASS, U, ME, and all that!
Single men like sex just as much as married men. There's NO way you can tell he's married. Even married men don't always wear rings. | |
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| Are women too Uptight . . ???
Posted: 12/9/2007 1:26:00 PM | | I agree with smity on this one.... some things should wait for a later place and time.... | |
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| Are women too Uptight . . ???
Posted: 12/9/2007 1:36:02 PM | No, not at all. Well, at least not some 900 pound phone sex operators living in triple wides out on the range anyway.
Carnal conversation for me is for her to initiate unless I'm just about to do something to her and she deserves fair warning. | |
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| Are women too Uptight . . ???
Posted: 12/9/2007 1:42:19 PM |
Like it or not, if a boyfirned is not trying to get the ladys pants off it offends her sense of sex appeal and her ego. "You don't think I'm attractive'" and all that.
This isn't about boyfriends, it's about strange men we've just met. It's not even close to the same thing... | |
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| Are women too Uptight . . ???
Posted: 12/9/2007 2:45:40 PM | UPTIGHT ?????
How ‘bout “ Why are some men so damned stupid ?”
Let’s skip the fact that all of the important terms in this discussion are very subjective.
Lets forget that the exact timing is both important and, at times, comical.
And let’s ignore the fact that on some chat sites, there are a healthy number of “woman” who are 10 year old boys …….
How stupid does a guy have to be to exist on any dating site for more than 24 hours and not figure out that this is a bad idea ? How many threads do you need to read before you realize 99.9% of the women on such a site are not going to find this 1) attractive 2) amusing 3) unique 4) a great turn on 5) a sure sign of a compatible personality ?
I am inclined to think that most of this crap is done purposely to piss women off
or by men so immature that they honestly believe “Pretty Woman” was a
documentary on how hookers and their johns interact . Little girls
buy into Disney Romances and these guys believe that if you get a job
delivering Pizza you will get laid once every night by a lonely
blond with big tits. ( It HAS to be true! I saw it on a bunch of porn movies!")
Has any woman tried to feed it back to a guy ? I wonder how many of these “men”
who ask a woman about her breasts or the flavor of her favorite feminine hygiene product would/could stick around for a lengthy answer ….without giggling or wetting their pants ,of course. | |
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| Are women too Uptight . . ???
Posted: 12/9/2007 4:33:09 PM | “How stupid does a guy have to be to exist on any dating site for more than 24 hours and not figure out that this is a bad idea? How many threads do you need to read before you realize 99.9% of the women on such a site are not going to find this 1) attractive 2) amusing 3) unique 4) a great turn on 5) a sure sign of a compatible personality?”
esad, I couldn’t have said it better. Your post was excellent – however, the part about feeding it back to men hasn’t worked. Some of these “men” are so thick headed that rather then getting the hint they will invite you to see what they… er…ah…cringe… have for you. It's just easier to block. That way they can start another thread about women not wanting to IM, are too uptight, or won't answer emails. | |
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| Are women too Uptight . . ???
Posted: 12/9/2007 5:13:04 PM | | A lot of men are stupid about talking to women. They ask stuff that is not there business to soon then say we're uptight? Ya right maybe they should consider not all women want to discuss sex while trying to get to know you. If your dumb enough to bring it up don't be surprised when the lady freaks on ya for being a prevert. | |
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| Are women too Uptight . . ???
Posted: 12/9/2007 5:26:54 PM |
don't be surprised when the lady freaks on ya for being a prevert
Prevert? Is that close to an adverb? Most of the time they are useless anyway. So stick to verts, I mean verbs.
(Couldn't resist, no harm intended) | |
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| Are women too Uptight . . ???
Posted: 12/9/2007 6:44:55 PM | Women are into respect.
So talking about sex first suggests you think that is all they are good for.
At the end of the day most women like sex as much as men do. | |
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| Are women too Uptight . . ???
Posted: 12/10/2007 11:34:05 AM | | let the lady dictate conversations of this matter.they will,and when they do you can take comfort in the fact that they now have enough respect for you to do so.in other words.your in the door dude. | |
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Posted: 12/10/2007 12:01:27 PM | ~OP~ Get out the webcam and show me your dungeon ~ then maybe we'll move right along to the sex talk. 
Otherwise, keep it PG13, show some respect for the fact that not all women are attracted sexually to ALL men and when that attraction is absent, the conversation is awkward, strange and basically OVER before it starts. At least with me. I'm all for the conversation moving sexually at one point or another. It's a vital part of a long-term-situation. BUT ~ if you start off with me and that kissy-kissy-send-me-pics-talk ~ I'm not the gal for you. I have many more things to talk about than what you prefer sexually and quite frankly what I prefer is no one's business unless I find them needing to know for future "maybes." I stopped having those dull routine sex conversations about 8 years ago. I can talk to my gal-pals about kissing, routine sleeper sex or whether or not swallowing requires eating pineapple to be palatable. Sorry, but the whole sex online talk stuff is just blahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhzaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa anymore. Best of luck to you though, it's all a matter of personal preference. You may find someone who wants to discuss those things immediately ~ I hear you need a credit card though. Just a thought.  | |
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| Are women too Uptight . . ???
Posted: 12/10/2007 12:14:01 PM | Uptight
I am never Uptight
*Yell* Loraina you got my scissors again...tee hee
Nope not Uptight at all! | |
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| Are women too Uptight . . ???
Posted: 12/10/2007 12:23:54 PM | | I don't mind having adult conversations, however, I don't care for that to be the first topic of conversation...yes, we are all adults but there is other stuff to chat about...when the conversation turns intimate quickly it puts up a red flag as that's all the person is interested about. | |
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| Are women too Uptight . . ???
Posted: 12/10/2007 12:33:33 PM |
Fact is that men, who do treat women with respect are regarded as weak kneed whimps and are treated with contempt.
Not true, but I speak only for myself. I don't consider them wimps. I actually like them. | |
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| Are women too Uptight . . ???
Posted: 12/10/2007 3:28:07 PM | | No, most men just think talking about it straight away will do the trick -although it has the opposite effect | |
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| Are women too Uptight . . ???
Posted: 12/10/2007 3:48:10 PM | | Its not woman being uptight....it's too many men out there that expect sex on the first date! Been there! When the conversation has to be about "sex and preferences" on the first date or even in an email prior to a date, its odd to even think that talking to a "stranger" that way? Is very uncooth! Maybe I'm old school but whatever happened to getting to know someone and being in a serious relationship before looking to jump in the sack? Is that long time pasted? I'm starting to think so......ho hum! | |
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| Are women too Uptight . . ???
Posted: 12/10/2007 3:55:15 PM | your in the door dude.
Don't count ur eggs yet......doesn't necessarily mean ur in ;) Just means ur both on the same wave length.....Still doesn't mean ur in lol
Take a big sigh....I know, sounds like a lost cause, but in all honesty? Its all about chemistry.
What ever happened to romancing? | |
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| Are women too Uptight . . ???
Posted: 12/10/2007 3:57:05 PM | I'll tell you whats worked for me...avoid the subject alltogether, let her bring it up, If she wants to talk about it, then, she will broach the subject.
This dosen't mean, no flirting or whatnot, and it also dosen't mean, act like a total horndog, or you'll lose her. Women can be skittish about talking about sex, simply because, if you talk about it, especially in the early stages, then, they will simply conclude that you only want a physical relationship.
Everyone has a pretty good idea, when, and at what stage, things are going to happen.
So, be patient & let things take their course. | |
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| Are women too Uptight . . ???
Posted: 12/10/2007 4:15:29 PM | what about the ladies wanting sex straight away.
ive met 3 women from off this site.....all wanted some type of intimacy straight away on the first meet.
all the women were lovely people, friendly and polite...at the end of the day these women were very much normal human beings.
i dont have a huge sex drive, i like to get to know her first , go out for a drink or go bowling , ive had GFs before where there has been no intimacy at all.
before i get " bashed" let me say yes i let one woman perform oral sex on me on the first date, another we had full sex on a first evening together.........this does not belittle either of us.......i was not in any way expecting this from any of these ladies but i let the events flow. I was expecting a night out having a few drinks......neither of us were drunk either.
yes i could have said NO to all these women, yes i was flattered i was recieving the attention i got from these women and i just accepted the intimacy as normal.
so its not always guys on the look out for sex or "easy" women, maybe there are a few of you ladies out there looking for " easy" men !!!!!!!!!!!!!!! or stupid ones !!!!!!!! | |
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