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| are some people not MEANT to be in relationships?
Posted: 5/27/2009 10:03:05 PM | | Even the Bible refers to 'single' people so I'm sure there are those in life who are not meant to be 'coupled'. Don't make the mistake of letting discouragement convince you you aren't meant to have a partner, though. If it's to be, Love will find thee :) Until then, live a happy fulfilled single life, full of everything you want it to be :) | |
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| are some people not MEANT to be in relationships?
Posted: 5/28/2009 5:43:20 AM | | I think there are some types of people who should probably not have relationships, such as those seriously addicted to drugs or who have a serious intellectual disability that makes them incapable of being able to understand the interactions between ordinary human beings. There are a few people who probably aren't suited to ever having an intimate and long term relationship with someone because of very serious psychological and social problems, i.e. serious personality flaws, psychopathic traits, or very underdeveloped social and relationship skills. Some people are also poor at essential 'life' skills, i.e. being stable enough to live independently. If people can't take care of themselves, they usually can't do the same for another person or a child. Such people though are probably in the minority rather than the majority. Anyway, some people are happier and better off just being alone, focusing their energy in positive ways to build up their own life and help the community, free of the obligations of a serious relationship or family. | |
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| are some people not MEANT to be in relationships?
Posted: 5/28/2009 6:31:39 PM | My mom lived six blocks from where Robert Service wrote a bunch of junk about relationships and "The cremation of Sam McGee". Its a desolate land of dunes, hot springs, glaciers and voles. Someone did a study and found that there some vole groups formed relationships and others were otherwise.
Those of us in group A are hard on the B voles, but I wonder how much of our civilization is composed of the B's, and whether we could survive as a race without folk that aren't particularly inclined towards long term pair bonding.
Of course that has nothing to do a hypothetical group C. Nearby the vole campground are a few survey camps. Zero females have difficulty finding great relationships there. | |
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