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| What to do when dating more than one at a time?
Posted: 12/11/2007 7:17:57 PM | | No offense to the creator of this....but suppose this guy finds out you have other guys you are being huggy/kissy with and dating besides him? It seems to be a general opinion when guys do this that we are scum suckers, lower than anything else on the planet, deserve to die and have our things trashed....could be I'm the monogamous type myself. If I'm dating someone, I date them and only them. I'm not a manwhore. And I personally think it's wrong having feelings invested in more than one person at a time, serious or not. | |
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| What to do when dating more than one at a time?
Posted: 12/11/2007 10:33:34 PM | I don't know what you should do...
But, it's exactly this type of situation which makes me leery of women who list that they're looking for "Dating" on this site. Am I the favorite or the one who's time she's wasting? It always seems to boil down to a choice between "the one I really want who might hurt me" versus "the one I don't really want but whom I can control".
If you would truly be "really into" one of the others, the solution is simple -- dump the "favorite". There's no future there right? | |
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| What to do when dating more than one at a time?
Posted: 12/11/2007 10:39:43 PM |
I just don't know about all this serial dating.
Semantically, this is not "serial" dating -- that would be one after another -- but "parallel" dating -- more than one at a time. | |
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| What to do when dating more than one at a time?
Posted: 12/21/2007 6:27:04 AM | This could really become interesting when........
Let's see...any two of the guys share a common hobby or sport.Maybe even have a common friend they sometimes have a beer with.....maybe they're even cousins,identical cousins.They walk alike,they talk alike.........
Or just happen to be in the same socio-economic circles[OK,same bar circle]. | |
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| What to do when dating more than one at a time?
Posted: 12/21/2007 7:05:40 AM | | Oh wow. A playgirl. I agree to allow him to date others. However, I think the playing the field in this day and age is dangerous. For everybody involved. Some people can not handle rejection. And some people are unreasonably jealous and possessive with their partners. If you are able to identify what type of guys these are. That they are the jealous type or not. Then that would be a good way to determine if dating multiple guys is good. This is also assuming that sex is invovled in the dating relationship. And that these are not platonic relationships. If not then it is no big deal. As far as how to carry on with the favorite. Mention to him that you dig him and would like to be exclusive. Don't come across as controlling though. That might push him away unless he is that way to. Other than that the situation seems to be going in your favor. | |
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