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Posted: 5/14/2008 8:22:08 PM | I hate to say this but after having done alot of thread searches on "Is he a player" etc..........
In my opinion.... if anyone who had to ask if the person they are *seeing* or dating or whatever the case may be is a player, she/he IS a player period. Trust those gut instincts...... they are usually dead on. | |
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| is he a player?
Posted: 5/14/2008 8:34:42 PM | like someone said from evrything u said in your post i see so many red flags its not even funny.this guy is definately a player and any other names u want to call him lol.
this guy is playing u so bad.plus its been only 7 weeks u said and he talks about your kids like they are his.thats way too fast for him to act like that.seems like hes really trying too much to impress u and convince u hes a nice guy.but falling for the trap u set up with your girlfriend was really dumb of him and shows he might be a player but not a very good one at that.what a dumbass he is.
anyways cut your losses and say goodbye to him cause if u stay with him your problems wont be over. | |
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Posted: 5/15/2008 4:55:36 AM | I'm going to be very gently but you need to grow up and fast. If you were single I woul dnot care; but you have kids. I mean"he is nice looking and younger?" wow! sounds magical.
This guy is going to cheat on you so much and so often he will forget your name. You need to dump him in a heart beat, get your life in order, and get a career for yourself and your kids. You shouldn't be playing house with a young guy that you pretty much believe everything he says and he's a jerk; I'll bet my last $5 on it. You need to get your life straight. If you stay with this guy, you are extremely naive and unwise. | |
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| is he a player?
Posted: 5/15/2008 6:29:26 AM | | Do you really have to ask us? This guy is a creep. Don't wait for the Christmas rush, tell him to get lost now. | |
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Posted: 5/15/2008 7:25:50 AM | | he sounds like someone you don't want in your life. Label him whatever you want, but he doesn't sound like a good catch to me. | |
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Posted: 5/15/2008 7:31:47 AM | | How much evidence do you need? he has talked intimately with your friend, been on a date with her. Short of actually watching him having sex with someone else in front of you, I really dont know what it will take for you to see what a lousy cheat he is. And if you stick with him, then you have no one to blame but yourself. | |
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Posted: 5/15/2008 8:01:54 AM | He is sexually dysfunctional, selfish, almost homeless, on a dating site chatting up other women and you ask is he a player.He is a pig in a poke ,but is evidently a pig. Dont let him near your house or kids please.
I had a similar experience here to putty penny,had a minimal profile here to post on the forums. Saw the individual who was romancing me enter and try to hit on me. hehehe punked.Yet he says I played him, yeah right! I was glad to know who and what he was before I got hurt. Did I want him after, hell no.You have been shown the same, run!!! | |
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| Whats up with this sight?
Posted: 5/15/2008 8:14:18 AM | | Is it just my computer or is the whole site frozen. Testing! Testing! No IM"s, No updates? What's up? | |
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| is he a player?
Posted: 5/15/2008 8:19:27 AM | is a woman actually going to listen to what others have to say?
a woman should be able to tell if he's a player within a few days' time.
for her to be around him as long as she has, do you really think she'll want to give up on him even if she finds out he is a player?
women love players even though they claim not to. it's irresistible to them. ~illogical~
look at the NBA players. Don't they have illigitimate kids from an average of 3 diffferent women? that's a HIGH average! It makes one wonder why women choose the men they do. | |
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Posted: 5/15/2008 8:25:15 AM | | If you have to come on here and ask us, you already know!! Do your kids and you a favor, run as fast as you can!! and do some real soul searching about yourself. Why after only 7 weeks are you even entertaining the idea of a forever with anyone???? My dear mother told me that to really know someone, you need to winter and summer with them. Think about that. She was never wrong and never let me down in her advice. Dont bring unhealthy men around your children. Care more for them than you do yourself. Really know a man before introducing him to your precious children. Good luck with finding out just how valuable you are so you dont let unhealthy men into your life. | |
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Posted: 5/15/2008 8:31:07 AM | | I'm a retired attorney and think I have a good deal of insight. This guy is using your kids to get to you. How can you even think of moving in with someone after only 7 weeks of dating. You don't even really know him as can be seen from his contacts with your roommate. Run from him as fast as you can. | |
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Posted: 5/15/2008 8:35:55 AM | I don't think you have here a player. Or what is usually called a player. What you have here is a USER and a LIAR.
First of all, you should have put a stop to getting to know your children when you have only dated for 7 weeks. Come on lady, 7 weeks and you are already exposing your children to a potentially devastating situation emotionally for them. So what you have here is an OPPORTUNIST, but you are allowing it to happen. | |
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Posted: 5/15/2008 8:54:17 AM | | Is it just me, or is everyone on the POF forums a twit? The OP is long gone. Let the thread rest in peace. | |
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Posted: 5/15/2008 9:24:57 AM | | Wow I understand what you mean, I have been in a simlar situation. I also met some one from here , who lives quite aways from here. He has been here a few times on the weekends by bus,the first time he came down he said he had a return ticket , obviously not I had to pay for his ticket home he said he would pay me back but the next time he couldn,t pay me back , as he had no money.When he went home he started acting all weird talking rude to me accusing me of being with someone else , it is like he had a split personality. So my friend also talked to him on here and he asked her to add him on msn, she told him that she had big breasts and he wanted her right away to go on cam , she told him that she didn,t have one , he started talking about sexual things , and about meeting up with her . I also thinks lately he talks to other girls when he is talking to me on msn, cause he doesn,t always answer me .Today, because i couldn,t answer him right away , he accused me of being with someone, but i was getting my daughter ready for school. He got mad at me an called me a whore, so i told him goodbye , and mayb some time we could talk when he cannot be rude. | |
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Posted: 5/15/2008 10:25:55 AM | | ^ i don't know why women are so open to such men and yet so easily reject others who behave better! | |
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Posted: 5/15/2008 10:31:51 AM |
Is it just me, or is everyone on the POF forums a twit? The OP is long gone. Let the thread rest in peace.
No not at all. With the rules of the forums, if someone wants an answer to a question they can't post a new thread on this topic b/c someone without a life will have this thread deleted for being redundant. So people have no choice but revive old threads to get answers for their current situation. | |
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Posted: 5/15/2008 11:10:11 AM | I would def say he is playing you.....obviously you can't trust him if he is on here flirting it up with other girls and making comments towards them.....listen to your gut feeling...usually it is right!!!!!
I always wonder that if you date someone that you meet on a dating website if they would ever be willing to take them selfs off | |
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Posted: 5/15/2008 3:57:54 PM | | Re-read your post, like its coming from a friend of yours and then give yourself the answer!!!!!!!!! | |
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Posted: 5/15/2008 5:28:28 PM | This dude is no player. This guy is a full blown perv. 7 weeks and he wants you to move in? He is already hitting on other women? Doesn't take much to figure out he isn't worth any thought. Honestly not trying to be mean, but I hope this is just a joke. I mean this one is clearly an ass at best and you are thinking about taking him seriously?
I suppose I should just say one more thing if you can afford to pay for him, like multiple sexual partners, and kinky things in bed. I suppose it might work out. | |
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Posted: 5/15/2008 6:01:59 PM | uhhh....you guys. i truly think you've all been played.
my honest thoughts? the original poster made it all up.....i mean it's pretty obvious, don't ya think? in England they have a great saying - it's called 'taking the piss' and that is what the original poster did, i really think - making fun of forum posts and posters and maybe taking a bit of every post they had found and could think up and putting it all into one incredibly unbelievable thread. | |
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Posted: 5/15/2008 8:22:30 PM | YES LADIES AND GENTLEMEN IT IS A DUCK... | |
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| is he a player?
Posted: 6/12/2008 6:23:42 PM | | Firstly, he seems very forward!!! Hmm the thing is you say chatting your mate up isnt hard evidence in my opinion it is...i wouldnt want to be with a man who chatted my mates up or other women. Ask yourself if he was really serious would he tell people that you werent in a relationship. On the other hand he might merely be doing it to get attention some blokes are like that they feel that they need every woman to fancy them and tell them or they get insecure but if youre having doubts now at the beginning of your relationship then imagine what itl be like in a few years. good luck huni x | |
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Posted: 6/12/2008 6:42:30 PM | | Sounds like he has the team uniform and everything. Listen to your friend honey. I don't think there should be any question, no he is not genuine. Way to many red flags. | |
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