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Posted: 12/18/2007 12:41:55 PM | Hey Cassa? That was priceless darlin! Sitting here dying laughing at it! But ya know? That may not be a bad idea when you think about it!
And Brower? Maybe "you" are the root cause of the fact that you don't get any/enough/bad sex? Ever think of it that way?  | |
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Posted: 12/18/2007 1:33:49 PM | And Brower? Maybe "you" are the root cause of the fact that you don't get any/enough/bad sex? Ever think of it that way
I thought that for fifteen years.
I have no doubt that I'm the cause.
I'm not a woman, I'm quite capable of analyzing and figure things out, that's what I've done for a living for thirty years.
I also have no doubt that it's largely because I was raised to treat women the way that y'all CLAIM you want to be treated.
That's also why I'm uncomfortably honest about it now.
I'm kinked, my sex life sucked and I wasn't very good at it and I have absolutely zero interest in another relationship that isn't highly sexual and completely unfinancial. But apparently, what's left in the Discard Bucket isn't particularly kinked or sexually motivated (yes, yes, save the protestations, they're wasted on me).
OTOH, lately I've wondered if my wife wasn't part of the problem, too.
I know my first girlfriend was.
She always cried during sex.
You want a sucky experience, try that for six months.
After awhile, I avoided sex as much as possible with her.
And what I honestly think is that most of the women here would be a repeat experience, in form or another. I have to admit, it never occurred to me that women might not like sex. And it never occurred to me that they'd actually think they do when their behavior says otherwise. | |
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Posted: 12/18/2007 1:34:04 PM | Nowhere in my post have I biotched about men. I love em!
Moonchild , you're georgeous ,, and as usual , you're on the other side of the planet ..lol...... but I'm glad to hear you love us ,,,,,,,,,  | |
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Posted: 12/18/2007 1:38:08 PM | ^^Awe thanks Barnaby! You are too cute!
And Brouwer? I am taking my "discard" bucket and going back to my own sandbox. You are bumming me out so bad I have to run to the Doc's for depression meds! | |
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Posted: 12/18/2007 1:47:10 PM |
I'm not a woman, I'm quite capable of analyzing and figure things out, that's what I've done for a living for thirty years.
Nothing like a back handed compliment to explain things.
I so get it. | |
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Posted: 12/18/2007 3:46:30 PM |
The women here honestly believe they like sex.
But... they don't.
SO WRONG! Women like GOOD sex, excuse me, GREAT sex. Not just sex for sex sake. | |
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Posted: 12/18/2007 11:03:22 PM | Outof thedesert~~ lol! H3ll, there have been times I would have been delighted with mediocre sex.. . . .
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Posted: 12/19/2007 4:13:12 PM | broward;
I think more than your "drive" is kinked.
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I have met three ladies here. No dates yet but there is always hope I suppose.
Most, not all, but most, live too far away. Bummer huh?
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As for a lady crying during sex...only had that happen once. What a joy that was to know she was so emotional and so free with her feelings. Made the experience all the more memorable for me.
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Posted: 12/19/2007 5:38:10 PM | I wonder that too. but you look great! Nice legs. Love your hair. I am in ONtario Canada...love american women.  | |
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Posted: 12/19/2007 6:56:38 PM |
Are guys afraid or what? Or is this just a game we play to keep entertained while we spend our evenings alone?
I wouldn't call it a game; I'd call it a pass time. But yes; it provides a bit of social interaction without actually leaving the comforts of home.
.. the cats and dog won't ever let me leave the house on weekends (I think the kids have paid them off...) | |
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Posted: 12/28/2007 2:34:15 PM | | Seems the same to me. No dates just chat get bored chat to someone new get bored. None of it goes anywhere. Unless of course theirs the ones looking for dirty girls hehe. The rest of us are wasting our time are we | |
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Posted: 1/1/2008 5:53:16 PM | | I've been seeing a fantastic man for the past 6 months who I never would have met if I hadn't became a member on here. I had just come out of a bad relationship and was not looking for anything serious. Instead I have met someone I have fallen madly in love with and its thanks to Plenty of Fish for that!!! | |
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Posted: 1/1/2008 6:01:13 PM | | I had my first date a couple of days ago....main problem is he lives 80 miles away. He's a nice guy, I may see him again...he could be the one! | |
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Posted: 1/1/2008 9:35:47 PM | | I have met two men from this dating site. My profile has been viewed by many but not to many nibbles. I know that I don't appeal to everyone and that's okay but I'm hoping that some of these fellas checking out my profile are a little interested. Who knows. | |
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Posted: 1/1/2008 11:04:28 PM | I haven't met anyone from here yet? Swapped some mesages back and forth with a few. I don't know if they arent interested? Or if i"m just too shy to ask for a date?  Maybe i should put in my profile all parts work just fine! LMAO | |
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Posted: 1/2/2008 8:15:36 AM | I've dated a few people from here, but I also just like to use the site to kill some time, and not feel so alone when I'm lonely.
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Posted: 1/2/2008 8:30:20 AM |
Cato...gal to gal, Texan to Texan (yup, I'm a native, just temporarily transplanted), I'm wondering if your lack of response could be because of your profile? Don't want to hurt your feelings, but I'm thinking it's a little off-putting in places. You can email me if you'd like! I promise I'll reply!
Odd, how differently people see things. I looked at Cato's profile after seeing this comment, and I think it's great! I think it's refreshing to see such openness and honesty.
Just goes to show...
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Posted: 1/2/2008 9:15:21 AM | Did you mean to ask do participants on POF date? Or did you really mean to ask if they engage in long term relationships? | |
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Posted: 1/2/2008 10:15:22 AM | | Oh yeah........ I have met a man here that recently became a member. He doesn't have a clue yet as to how hard it is to find the right one. I sure hope that I can hold his attention and keep him the best kept secret on the POF. lol I have gathered friends along the way and still think that POF is worth an effort. Singles meeting singles is just as satisfying as meeting the right one. Keep on keeping on. It is my opinion that friends first, meet later is the way to go. | |
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Posted: 1/2/2008 5:56:26 PM |
I am finding out there is a lot of talk and flirting but is anyone serious...never get dates or actually meet anyone.
Based on my experience, this pond is under a strict "catch and release program". | |
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Posted: 1/2/2008 9:56:02 PM | I was going to delete my profile but my friends have convinced me to give this site one more try. So here I am. I find most men just want to chat online and aren't interested in meeting in person. :ots of them are married also.
I enjoy reading the forums so that's a plus!!!!!! | |
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Posted: 1/2/2008 10:27:16 PM | ...Hmmm,....There is not only dating going on....but I know of several couple who have made long distance moves to be with one another and two couples I know have tied the knot this year. One just last weekend...not to mention the many friendships that have been formed. I have met some very wonderful people through POF that I am proud to call my friends.
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