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Posted: 3/22/2008 4:53:37 PM | | Porn instead of sex? dont get me wrong cuz i do like my porn, but if my woman is wanting more sex then more sex she shall get...now if you cant keep up with me sexually(at least 10 times a week) then the porn is the quota filler....much rather get some loving then self-service myself but one way or another the poison's gotta go | |
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Posted: 3/22/2008 4:59:55 PM | It means a number of possible things:
a) the guy's a complete idiot
b) he isn't getting what he wants out of the woman he's with
c) he's lazy and cannot be bothered to please his partner as well so he just selfishly jerks off instead
d) he;s (as all men say) 'visually stimulated creatures' who er, just 'can't help themselves' because its 'what men DO'
Men are idiots. Stick on your own porno, make sure it contains plenty of washboard stomached 12 inchers and masturbate loudly to it next time he's likely to walk in!!!
Bottom line is, yeah, porn's ok for those who like that kinda stuff but anyone who continues to watch it constantly whilst in a relationship is just plain disrespectful to their partner, if it's causing offense.
PORN IS EVIIIIIIIIIIIIL!!!!! | |
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Posted: 3/22/2008 5:47:08 PM | mjb, Nothing I'd like more than making love to my lady than "relieving" myself, but then she still lives at a distance and we both enjoy each other's company for matters other than sexual ones. Every now and then, I do have 'to take matters into my own hand' w/ some help for the visualizing, but then she remains a lady.
I'd say that if you're in a relationship w/ a guy who prefers relieving himself via porn ...over being w/ you and watching what can provide conducive ambience, besides new ideas for mutually-acceptable directions in how you engage in making love together, than you are in a wrong situation. Perhaps, you need to have a nice long talk w/ him about what it is about porn that he finds more appealing than doing the real thing w/ you. If he's unable to give this inquiry further thought for why your asking, then it's time to move along. | |
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Posted: 3/23/2008 4:48:55 AM | I like porn but it will never replace my desire to have sex with a real woman.
I guess maybe he is getting bored with things in the bedroom and would like alittle variety with his partner, but is to shy/afraid to ask for it? | |
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Posted: 3/23/2008 6:12:41 AM | Porn instead of the real thing, all the time?????
No way Hunnie, you need to move on and find a man who is interested in pleasuring you! A little porn is ok, turns me on to watch porn with a partner I am comfortable with. Does he let you watch it with him? Hmmmmmmm still No thank you!! LOL Girlzilla | |
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Posted: 3/23/2008 6:22:24 AM | I agree,
If porn is that big a part I say ditch that guy, he could had an addiction. Pretty pathetic if you ask me. | |
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Posted: 4/22/2008 1:33:56 PM | | I think that a little porn could be nice, But you must keep the excitement in the bedroom, kitchen, anywhere in the house when the heat is turned up. the key is to not be boring in bed. If you keep that kind of excitment, you won't need porn. Keep it exciting. | |
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Posted: 4/22/2008 3:11:05 PM | | I've actually heard of this before. Some men have been know to actually become addicted to porn and they are no longer able to find satisfaction sexually without it. So it has to be treated like any other addiction. The first step is recognizing his behavior as being unacceptable and deciding you are no longer willing to enable that kind of behavior. Confront him with it and tell him either he needs get some help for his addiction or you're outta there. If he refuses to get help then you need to hit the road and fast. This kind of behavior will not get better it will only get worse and before you know it you've wasted years of your life on this guy! | |
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Posted: 5/8/2008 6:05:04 PM | | not getting that; everyone is different but I have never needed or used porno for sex; too much happening for that; if its just an act I could see needing it, but for me, never needed it. | |
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Posted: 5/8/2008 6:30:47 PM | What do I think of a man who prefers his porn (two-dimensional fantasy) to his woman (three dimensional reality) - simple. I divorced him. And that, my friends, is a good thing! As I have now met a man who, can enjoy his porn but clearly prefers moi!  | |
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Posted: 5/16/2008 8:03:29 AM | I had this probem in my last relationship! he made me feel utterly worthless and ugly! even though we had an amazing sex life he still did this... EVERY single night!! We split..not because of this but after he was after sex from me all the time
I said why not use porn it was enough for you when we were together and he said well i realised what feels better!! haha too little too late me thinks! | |
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Posted: 5/17/2008 12:08:16 AM | Sincerely, most women are so lousy in bed that porn is a better option. Not at first, but a year or two into the relationship..it gets boring. I presume most men are lousy in bed too. How interesting can it be for a gal after 2 years of the same thing?
We expect far too much from our sex lives. Should be fulfilling, happens all the time, for years on end, exciting, you want no one else, you are always satisfied. ENOUGH already! Its pure BS. No couple has hot sex after the initial thrill is gone. They might have acceptable sex, but only in rare cases is sex all its cracked up to be.
In those cases, porn, simply put, is more satisfying than sleeping with the same person night after night. Of all the women I have dated only 2 or 3 were really fun to be with in bed beyond the first few months. Finding that kind of sexual chemistry is difficult. And by the time you find it, you might find that there are other elements missing in the relationship that are important.
I think we put ridiculous demands on our relationships.
Best friend
Partner
Sexual goddess or god
Companion
Same interests
Good conversationalist
Etc...
We often find someone who fulfills us in so many ways, but frankly, the sex is not that great. So the man or woman uses fantasy to get off. I dont see why sex is the basis of a good relationship. I really dont. Its way too over rated. Keep looking for someone who fulfills all these needs, yer gonna end up alone raising feral cats. | |
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Posted: 5/17/2008 12:41:06 AM | All men (ok ok ok MOST) watch porn and spank the monkey so to speak. It's what they do... lol
I enjoy porn now and then but not as a replacement for sex, unless I find myself in my current position... SINGLE! lol | |
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Posted: 5/17/2008 1:12:30 AM | | It's because he's not physically/sexually attracted to the person he's with and only ended up with her due to low self esteem or utter desperation. Most men also choose this if masturbation feels better than sex, or if they grew up in a strict religious background where sex was considered sinful or evil. | |
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Posted: 5/17/2008 2:04:48 AM | Porn- good.
sex-good
porn instead of sex, is not good!!
i dont know why any man would want to do that, especially as sex with someone you love is so much better! i think any man like that, should be single, obviously. | |
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Posted: 5/17/2008 7:48:15 AM | That he's not into her and has a serious addiction. I'd say "there's the door, have a nice life".  | |
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Posted: 5/17/2008 8:14:32 AM | | I can't speak for anyone else, but porn has no bony elbows to poke in your ribs. It has no sharp toenails to skin your shins. It does not zig when you zag. It just lays there and takes it like the slut it knows it is, and loves every minute of it. | |
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