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 MizzRobin

Joined: 12/9/2007
Msg: 51
Girls getting jealous...
Posted: 12/12/2007 11:58:37 PM
It does seem to be popular. I have a twin brother and a cousin who share my birthday with me.
 TolsmaLMC

Joined: 9/6/2004
Msg: 52
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Posted: 12/13/2007 12:00:05 AM
Wow, my step-father's mother has the same birthday as me. June 5th.
 MNQ

Joined: 9/2/2007
Msg: 53
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Posted: 12/13/2007 12:00:28 AM
I was just thinking that today...my ex's girlfriend's ALWAYS seem to have an issue with me then totally ban them from making any contact with me yet their okey if he stays friends with other girls...whattup?!?!? This happens consistently I wouldn't have any issues with my partner staying friends with his ex...I think that's healthy...if I did then I would say there's more problems with our relationship then him being friends with his ex.
 MizzRobin

Joined: 12/9/2007
Msg: 54
Girls getting jealous...
Posted: 12/13/2007 12:00:41 AM
I know a really intimidating person. She interviewed me for my job. I couldn't wait to get out of that room. She stared me right in the eye, she had perfect posture, and she got right to the point, she was interrogating me! Know anyone like that?
 MizzRobin

Joined: 12/9/2007
Msg: 55
Girls getting jealous...
Posted: 12/13/2007 12:04:37 AM

I was just thinking that today...my ex's girlfriend's ALWAYS seem to have an issue with me then totally ban them from making any contact with yet their okey if he stays friends with other girls...whattup?!?!? This happens consistently I wouldn't have any issues with my partner staying friends with his ex...I think that's healthy...if I did then I would say there's more problems with our relationship then him being friends with his ex.


This is a big debate with a lot of couples. I think it depends on a lot different things such as how serious you were with your ex and how long you were together. I think the biggest concern the guy you are with would have is that you still have feelings for your ex.
 TolsmaLMC

Joined: 9/6/2004
Msg: 56
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Posted: 12/13/2007 12:06:10 AM
Yes! Alot of people. They are mostly "professional" types who don't even crack a smile. I hate that. And then they ask you a question, and when you answer it, they ask a question about your answer or why you answered it that way. I seriously want to say, "look, you and I both know these interviewing questions are just balogna....just go ahead and give me the job, ok?"
 MizzRobin

Joined: 12/9/2007
Msg: 57
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Posted: 12/13/2007 12:08:46 AM
I really had an interest in human resources until I met that woman!
 rowdysheis

Joined: 6/19/2007
Msg: 58
Girls getting jealous...
Posted: 12/13/2007 12:10:27 AM
I don't get jealous. Jealousy come from a lack of trust and if I don't trust a man, I'm not going to be involved with him. If I was seeing a man who was unfaithful, I'd cut him loose. If I trusted him, I'd have nothing to be jealous about.
 MizzRobin

Joined: 12/9/2007
Msg: 59
Girls getting jealous...
Posted: 12/13/2007 12:12:28 AM

Jealousy come from a lack of trust and if I don't trust a man, I'm not going to be involved with him

You don't even get jealous in the beginning? Do you trust guys right off the bat?
 TolsmaLMC

Joined: 9/6/2004
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Posted: 12/13/2007 12:12:55 AM
What are you interested in now?
 MizzRobin

Joined: 12/9/2007
Msg: 61
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Posted: 12/13/2007 12:15:38 AM
Just like a woman... don't know what I want. Haha... Someone is going to give me crap for that.

I'm really not sure. I do like my job now. I can always grow with the company until I really know what I want to do with my life.
 MNQ

Joined: 9/2/2007
Msg: 62
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Posted: 12/13/2007 12:16:15 AM
We've been together a long time 3 and 5 years and one month...lol...but we obviously didn't work out for reason so there's no going back...but it's a shame to lose that friendship considering they know you so well and vice versa...I just think...that is not a good way to start a relationship.
 TolsmaLMC

Joined: 9/6/2004
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Posted: 12/13/2007 12:18:01 AM
"Just like a woman... don't know what I want."

Women who don't know what they want...story of my life...Hahahaha!
 MNQ

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Posted: 12/13/2007 12:18:24 AM
This is a big debate with a lot of couples. I think it depends on a lot different things such as how serious you were with your ex and how long you were together. I think the biggest concern the guy you are with would have is that you still have feelings for your ex.

We've been together a long time 3 and 5 years and one month...lol...but we obviously didn't work out for reason so there's no going back...but it's a shame to lose that friendship considering they know you so well and vice versa...I just think...that is just not the way to start a relationship.
 TolsmaLMC

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Posted: 12/13/2007 12:19:25 AM
"We've been together a long time 3 and 5 years and one month...lol...but we obviously didn't work out for reason so there's no going back...but it's a shame to lose that friendship considering they know you so well and vice versa...I just think...that is not a good way to start a relationship."

Hmm, do you still see him or talk?
 MizzRobin

Joined: 12/9/2007
Msg: 66
Girls getting jealous...
Posted: 12/13/2007 12:20:57 AM

We've been together a long time 3 and 5 years and one month...lol...but we obviously didn't work out for reason so there's no going back...but it's a shame to lose that friendship considering they know you so well and vice versa...I just think...that is not a good way to start a relationship.


You're absolutely right. It seems that he is just worried and can use a little reassurance. Tell him that you are with him right now and thats whats important. If you wanted to be with your ex you would be. Then if you really wanna make him feel good... tell him how much better he is for you than your ex.
 rowdysheis

Joined: 6/19/2007
Msg: 67
Girls getting jealous...
Posted: 12/13/2007 12:21:37 AM
No, I don't get jealous. Why would you get jealous in the beginning of a relationship. If he's doing something that would cause jealousy in you, why are you with him? I would never be with a man who would intentionally try to make me jealous. Nor would I ever do anything to make him jealous.
 MizzRobin

Joined: 12/9/2007
Msg: 68
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Posted: 12/13/2007 12:22:42 AM
I am learning the hard way that its not a good idea to keep in touch with exboyfriends! Some people can make it work... for a while.
 TolsmaLMC

Joined: 9/6/2004
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Posted: 12/13/2007 12:23:17 AM
What if he unintentionally made you jealous? Did that ever happen?
 rowdysheis

Joined: 6/19/2007
Msg: 70
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Posted: 12/13/2007 12:27:13 AM
I've been married 5 times and 2 of them cheated. I don't get jealous, I get divorced. I have no desire to be with a man who wants to be with someone else. My other 3 husbands never cheated and never did anything to cause me to get jealous.
 MizzRobin

Joined: 12/9/2007
Msg: 71
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Posted: 12/13/2007 12:27:20 AM
I had a waitress hitting on someone I was dating before (didn't bother me but...) and he did the sweetest thing, He looked at me and then put his hand right on top of mine.
 MNQ

Joined: 9/2/2007
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Posted: 12/13/2007 12:27:33 AM
You're absolutely right. It seems that he is just worried and can use a little reassurance. Tell him that you are with him right now and thats whats important. If you wanted to be with your ex you would be. Then if you really wanna make him feel good... tell him how much better he is for you than your ex.

Haha...no...none of my partner's ever had an issue with me being friends with my ex's...it's my ex's gf that have an issue with me...lol.


I had a waitress hitting on someone I was dating before (didn't bother me but...) and he did the sweetest thing, He looked at me and then put his hand right on top of mine.

I had a waitress do that to me too...we were out for dinner for Valentines...and she was totally hanging out and chatting it up with him...not very professional considering this was obviously a "Valentine's Day" dinner...but he did good...when she was totally catering to him...not ever asking if I wanted anything...he finally turned to me and said...would you like more wine...because she sure wasn't offering...unbelievable.
 TolsmaLMC

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Posted: 12/13/2007 12:29:15 AM
What kind of a tip did you put in after that?
 MizzRobin

Joined: 12/9/2007
Msg: 74
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Posted: 12/13/2007 12:30:19 AM
She was an excellent waitress. Gave us a few laughs. She got a good tip.
 TolsmaLMC

Joined: 9/6/2004
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Posted: 12/13/2007 12:33:00 AM
That was nice of you.
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