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 RabidWolverine
Joined: 3/17/2006
Msg: 101
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My advice to all men over 30...stay single, don't waste your time on the women...that way I can get them for me!!!..man there I go dreaming of meeting a 35 yr old woman..sorry back to the topic....
 creegirl
Joined: 4/6/2005
Msg: 102
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Posted: 4/3/2006 8:44:37 PM
A sexual relationship if it is just that and nothing more is perfectly ok. Fulfilling a need. lOL
 RabidWolverine
Joined: 3/17/2006
Msg: 103
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Posted: 4/3/2006 8:58:37 PM
So Creegirl is 37 too old for that in your eyes? Just got to see what my odds are in this current dating scene..seems odds are fully stacked against me in even getting a meeting for a coffee let alone a date...man maybe if I lied and said I was 29?
 sue1962
Joined: 3/18/2006
Msg: 104
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Posted: 4/4/2006 10:27:46 AM
I have had a relationship with someone 11 years younger then me,and the most important factor missing was honesty and intregity,if it takes a older man to have these qualities then so be it...what i have a problem with is young guys not 30 yet wanting to met,i think my son is in his 20's and this just seems wrong,they might be nice boys,but at this pont in my life i would like a man.....
 RabidWolverine
Joined: 3/17/2006
Msg: 105
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Posted: 4/4/2006 10:30:04 AM
^^Now this seems unreal..so many say older men are boring and do not want to commit, and younger men are hotter and are willing to settle down...weird...
 Bear3889
Joined: 9/8/2005
Msg: 106
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Posted: 4/4/2006 11:12:52 AM
I have to agree with you wolverine i am a 41 year old male and i have met and talked to a few women that were a couple of years younger and some the same age as me and others wont reply because of my age i have had women in there late 30s refuse to talk to me because of my age they tell me im to old so instead being ignored and told im told old witout them even knowing me makes me think being single is the way to go women are getting judgemental towards a mans age and looks
 RabidWolverine
Joined: 3/17/2006
Msg: 107
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Posted: 4/4/2006 11:26:29 AM
Yep, is the latest way...hey means that all the single guys over 35 who get shunned for being old get to spend thier money on thmesleves...cuz in 5 years those 25 year old studs will be wanting to settle down with a 30 year old woman not a 49 year old woman...oh well live it up guys while single...you will be for a very long time to come...enjoy it to the max because there is no use in trying to change thier minds that you are fun...just do your own thing...go on trips, socialize with people where you go and have a blast...you will be better off for sure....nothing like vacationing solo and meeting people where you are going...best feeling in the world
 stolidis
Joined: 1/26/2006
Msg: 108
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Posted: 4/4/2006 6:07:38 PM
I see this happenning all the time as older women dating or trying to pick up much younger guys..Especially where I work..

I feel that when a mature woman wants a younger guy,it is for different reasons..Most would say it is for the sex..I don't know if this is always the case...I feel when an older woman is after a much younger guy,there are a few things that stick in my mind...The first thing is a control thing..An older woman can control a younger guy and that turns her on..It makes her feel powerfull..She knows that she would not be able to control someone her own age the way she would with a boy toy..Another reason is when these older gals are dating younger guys,it makes them feel young again...another reason why women want younger guys is that maybe they do not feel confident enough as a woman in themselves....I believe the latter to be very true which almost all the time the women will deny..
 RabidWolverine
Joined: 3/17/2006
Msg: 109
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Posted: 4/4/2006 6:27:26 PM
buddy you just opened up yourself to some big time bashing look out
 Sweet Euphoria
Joined: 6/17/2005
Msg: 110
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Posted: 4/4/2006 6:57:45 PM
Seriously...Who would want to control you? Someone's bitter. I like older men but, ummmmm...yeah..nevermind. Good luck!..lmao
 sunshine17
Joined: 7/11/2005
Msg: 111
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Posted: 4/4/2006 7:50:56 PM
i look much younger than 33yrs. i always meet guys 23-28 never the older guys approach me. I dunno younger ones have more guts less fear perhaps -however getting involved,sexually the do not cut it - they can't meet your emotional needs -but if you want to waste time then go for it- sure you can teach them a thing or two... i think it's an experinece more than a good investment.
 patywhack
Joined: 3/20/2006
Msg: 112
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Posted: 4/4/2006 8:08:58 PM
You know i give this some thought..but feel it isnt wise to date men as old as my son. Even they are charming, full of life and all..
 nicthegreek1
Joined: 4/2/2006
Msg: 113
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Posted: 4/4/2006 11:27:43 PM
i love older women.. the best realtionships i have had have been with older women and i swear by them...but i have to admit, sometimes i feel like im being used i mean come on ladies men have feeling too you know we are not just a piece of meat lol not that im complaining ;-)
 lovin4062
Joined: 3/22/2006
Msg: 114
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Posted: 4/4/2006 11:49:53 PM
Personally I don't think chronological age should be a huge factor in a relationship. It depends on how people get along with each other and what it is that they are looking for. I personally prefer men around my own age because it makes conversation easier being that there are more things in common with one another..... such as children, life experiences etc. I have been in relationships with men much younger..... and much older...... and close to my age. Each brought wonderful things to the relationship in their own unique way. Most of the time I seem to attract men much younger than myself because I don't look my age...... and also the much older ones.... I think for the same reason. I don't ask them how old they are before I accept a date with them...... I just go by how I feel about them from the start. I am young at heart ..... I do many things that I can relate to with the younger generation..... but then.... same goes with the older ones as well. Maybe some women have issues like the ones that stolidis mentioned...... but not all of us.
 RabidWolverine
Joined: 3/17/2006
Msg: 115
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Posted: 4/5/2006 6:47:03 AM
It is a fast growing trend and I wonder if sometime while all the women over 30 snag all the men under 30, that maybe women under 30 will date older men?? I dunno, I think those days are far gone and there will be a huge influx of older men over 30 that will be single compared to under 30...but then after a decade of this happening there will be a ton of women over 50 who will be single as well, as those under 30 guys will no longer want them as they enter thier 30's searching for someone to settle down with...by then all the men in thier 40's will be bitter, jaded and depressed...oh cannot wait til I am in my 40's to sit back and see this unfold
 ED00001
Joined: 4/5/2006
Msg: 116
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Posted: 4/5/2006 6:25:46 PM
I think there is nothing better than date an older women
 arlie1969
Joined: 2/7/2006
Msg: 117
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Posted: 4/5/2006 6:29:10 PM
age is a state of mind,met a 48 year old and shes a sweet heart ,some of the younger ladys could take lessons from the older women out there
 montyjam
Joined: 3/5/2006
Msg: 118
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Posted: 4/30/2006 7:23:23 AM
From my profile:


I tend to judge people as individuals and don't have a "type" with respect to the people I date. I've dated people 20 years younger and 30 years older. The only differences I could find were muscle tone and music preferences. *grin*


So when younger guys contact me, asking if I would consider dating younger men, I refer them to this particular blurb in my profile.
 RabidWolverine
Joined: 3/17/2006
Msg: 119
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Posted: 4/30/2006 7:56:56 AM
^^^I can see why younger men would contact/approach you...no older fart would he would think he has no chance...I know I would think that way...good stuff.
 darcy_016
Joined: 7/27/2004
Msg: 120
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Posted: 4/30/2006 9:06:44 AM
It goes both ways...I have met men my age who just want the young blondes...younger men seem to appreciate me more. I would be very happy with a sweet 37 year old..(who has already had his babies or doesn't want any..find that the one major issue with younger men)..a hot 37 year old is still a younger man for me!...who cares how old he is if there is chemistry and you are both honest and care about each other??
 RabidWolverine
Joined: 3/17/2006
Msg: 121
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Posted: 4/30/2006 9:45:04 AM
Well again looks and being hot has got alot to do with the older women so this may be why we old guys lose out...quite interesting...Darcy I am 37 but faaaaaar from hot...is why I am still single..I am all you said but hot..so as is the typical outcome I would be hearing the imfamous line "There is no physical attraction" but woth younger men I don't see any older women saying that to them..no sir
 webdiva_911
Joined: 2/28/2005
Msg: 122
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Posted: 4/30/2006 10:10:31 AM
What is acceptable in dating men younger than you? In my book they have to be at least 10 years older than my oldest child - and that took a lot of me to accept. Rules when I was growing up was the woman could date only 2 years younger and up to 10 years older - nowadays you see 18 year olds with guys in their 40/50s - and society calls him a lucky dog but if you see a women with a guy that young - you assume she is his mother, aunt or older sister.
 RabidWolverine
Joined: 3/17/2006
Msg: 123
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Posted: 4/30/2006 10:44:40 AM
This is a joke..I have never been called a lucky dog being seen with a younger woman that age..I get "What a pervert he is" or "Can't he get someone his own age" comments and looks...ya guys being complemented for being with a young woman? Sorry those days are going going gone real fast...women are praised "You go girl" when they are seen with a hot young guy in his 20's...she is praised to the high heavens and many say "Bout time we got respect, men have done it for years so in your face guys"
LOL...so true and yep we guys today are to pay the price of revenge for the past guys...thanks guys I appreciate you doing that years back..has made dating oh A Living Hell..for me.
 darcy_016
Joined: 7/27/2004
Msg: 124
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Posted: 4/30/2006 10:48:32 AM
there is either chemistry or no chemistry..doesn't matter how old he is..if a 25 year old asked me out and there was no chemistry then i guess I would be saying...sorry there is no physical attraction. No one can explain chemistry..it is either there or it is not...age is irrelevant.
 RabidWolverine
Joined: 3/17/2006
Msg: 125
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Posted: 4/30/2006 10:53:16 AM
Ahh the infamous no physical attraction...that is what I have heard for 5 years so far...and everyone says "Never give up" I say sure it becomes a game of how many more will say that famous line?
I doubt younger men have no chemistry, the attraction is there from the get go, it is the old farts who lack the attraction, we are not youthful and as so many say "Full of life" and if we act youthful and full of life we called that word..Immature? Or told "Stop acting like you are in your 20's, you are almost forty for crying out loud, grow up"
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