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Posted: 1/5/2009 9:40:45 PM | | I've been with a woman more than twice my age. It was better than what I've ever had. Of course, I don't think many relationships could possibly exist beyond a sexual one for both the men and the women, mind you, depending on how significant the age difference. | |
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MsGone
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Posted: 1/5/2009 9:46:51 PM | | I think it is very easy to be attracted to a younger guy...The problem is that you cant have him as a best friend he has to be a toy,and toys are just funny for that long..enough said. | |
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Posted: 1/5/2009 9:48:37 PM | | since we are on this topic..............any ladies from ontario here?? :P just kidding. | |
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Posted: 1/5/2009 9:49:42 PM | Msg 1397: "I have always said the man who can make love to my brain will figure out what to do with the rest of me........................"
You realize, of course, that there is a four-letter-word equivalent to the expression "make love to" in the English language. | |
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Posted: 1/6/2009 12:25:23 AM | And more than one has tried and failed...........................
The translation of my original statement-(for me)-you need to love the whole person. I am not interested in just a physical relationship, the brain has to be stimulated on many levels to make a rewarding relationship. But that is just me, perhaps too complex for some............................... | |
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Posted: 1/6/2009 6:33:17 AM | | I'm finding it funny that a 40 year old woman posted a message in here about her passionate affair with a 15 year old boy (or possibly younger) and no women seem to be expressing the "outrage" that would be expressed if the roles were reversed. Interesting double standard amongst the women in here. I guess crimes against children are okay as long as it's a woman committing them. Society is twisted. | |
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Posted: 1/6/2009 8:01:43 AM |
.I HAVE DATED A FEW,,OLDER,ONES..AND ONE DAY I HAD AWAKEN TO REALITY....WHY AM I WITH THIS OLD...BI.......
Considering that you are 47, the older women must have been in their 80s. Unless, of course, you were much, much younger than you are now. A **** is a ****, regardless if age, just as an idiot is an idiot, regardless of sex or age.
I think it is very easy to be attracted to a younger guy...The problem is that you cant have him as a best friend he has to be a toy,and toys are just funny for that long..enough said.
This is a stereotypical, untrue claim. I had a relationship with a much younger man and he continues to be my friend. We discussed everything: philosophy, religion, the nature of the universe, life, death, you name it; he introduced me to his music, and I introduced him to mine. I was also married for 25 years to a man my age; we discussed TV shows, his job, his fishing addiction, and . . . that's about it.
Age is not a limiting factor in having friends with whom one can converse. I received an email from a 19 year old yesterday, but it consisted of netspeak asking me if I wanted to chat on Yahoo or MSN. The profile was filled with inanities. No thanks. However, I have received many similar emails and have seen many similar profiles from men my age and older. | |
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Posted: 1/6/2009 8:04:30 AM | | Who cares? Most women that date very young men seem to be very immature. If I wanted a woman who acted like a 20 year old, I'd be chasing 20 year olds. Good riddance. | |
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Posted: 1/6/2009 8:29:44 AM |
Who cares? Most women that date very young men seem to be very immature. If I wanted a woman who acted like a 20 year old, I'd be chasing 20 year olds. Good riddance.
Sounds like sour grapes to me. If you don't care, why post?
Why shouldn't a woman, or a man, date someone with whom she/he is compatible? I dated a 63 year old man who was "too old" for me; I dated another 63 year old man who was the "right" age, but we wanted different things in life. I have had dates with immature 45 year old men. Age does not always bring maturity or wisdom--or knowledge. | |
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Posted: 1/6/2009 8:38:36 AM |
Sounds like sour grapes to me.
Sounds more like I hit a nerve. I care, because I'd like to meet more women my own age that take care of themselves physically, and are mature enough to have a grown-up relationship.
It's true. I meet so many women my age that want to play games, like they did when they were kids. I am usually the oldest guy they have dated. (Though I don't look it to them. Others may argue.) They can't get over the fact that I actually expect them to have a decent personality and behave like an adult. Once I lose interest (Which happens very quickly.), they go back to dating boys, who will let them behave as they like for a little action. I need a grown-up. | |
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Posted: 1/6/2009 9:41:50 AM |
Sounds more like I hit a nerve.
Not at all. More like the desire to comment on:
1. Stereotypes and blanket statements
2. The minor hypocrisies of people who ask "Who cares?" then admit:
I care, because I'd like to meet more women my own age that take care of themselves physically, and are mature enough to have a grown-up relationship.
No matter how I phrase this, it will sound like a personal insult to you, but it isn't how I intend it to be, but there aren't enough "older" women with young men to make a huge percent unavailable to men your age. Don't blame older/younger combinations on your inability to find a suitable woman.
However, I have to wonder about the type of women whom you date. You say:
I am usually the oldest guy they have dated.
You are dating women your age and you are usually the oldest guy whom they have dated? That sounds improbable or as if you date women with VERY limited dating experience! I simply cannot imagine a vast horde of 40+ women who have never dated 40+ men.
They can't get over the fact that I actually expect them to have a decent personality and behave like an adult.
Again, the vast majority of women YOUR AGE whom you date do NOT act like adults? Where do you meet these women?
I need a grown-up.
The solution is simple: date women who are older than you. | |
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Posted: 1/6/2009 9:52:40 AM | | As long the younger person is legally considered an adult, it's none of my bussiness. | |
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Posted: 1/6/2009 10:00:54 AM | gwendolyn2008,
All very common sense... And if you throw attractive out the window, you'd be correct. There are a lot of women that are very much matured to the point they are supposed to be. Not a lot of them are attractive, and the ones that are, are in high demand. I'm not talking beauty-queen attractiveness either. Just clean, healthy looking, and fit. | |
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Posted: 1/6/2009 12:22:14 PM |
Not a lot of them are attractive, and the ones that are, are in high demand. I'm not talking beauty-queen attractiveness either. Just clean, healthy looking, and fit.
I would almost bet that there are women whom you overlook who are clean, fit and healthy looking, but they aren't pretty.
If the "high demand" women don't find you acceptable, what does that say about you?
Again, this is not intended as an insult to you, but rather an observation across the board: many people set their sights too high, and while they shouldn't settle, they do need to be realistic.
Take me, for example: I used to say I wanted a rich, drop-dead handsome, and highly intelligent/educated man. Now, I say I want a self-supporting, attractive (yes, I am shallow, too, but I am not complaining about the dearth of attractive men), and highly intelligent. (Snort.) | |
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Posted: 1/6/2009 12:26:39 PM | | If it works it works, there is no need to over think this subject. | |
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Posted: 1/6/2009 12:32:46 PM | I completely agree with quitarchick. As long as you are both on the same page things can be dynamic. But honestly, that holds true regardless of age. Much luck to all!
Kisses
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Posted: 1/6/2009 12:37:08 PM | If the "high demand" women don't find you acceptable, what does that say about you?
If that were the case, that would be an effective insult. (Very mature of you BTW.) But... I still find plenty of attractive women to date. So far, they tend not to be as attractive on the inside, or grown enough mentally and emotionally. I haven't dated every woman in the world (Or even in my neighborhood.), so I still have hopes of finding what I'm looking for. So far I haven't been rejected by the type I'm looking for. I just haven't found her. (I am only assuming she's out there ... and in high demand.)
Again, this is not intended as an insult to you, but rather an observation across the board: many people set their sights too high, and while they shouldn't settle, they do need to be realistic.
The old "No offense, but..." routine?  Are you sure you want to play this game?
Nah... I won't go there. Too easy. | |
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Posted: 1/6/2009 2:49:15 PM | luxemale? Are you serious??!! From the looks of your profile, she must have been about 89.
IF I were to consider dating a younger guy, and I have, he would have to be someone pretty darned special and there are some out there who aren't just interested in a piece of experienced a**.
I could be wrong here, but it seems that the young dudes think the older women can't get any.....well, that just isn't so. There's plenty of "it" out there to be had and in all ages and packages.
I think much more of myself than that. I don't think the Chippendales are worth crossing the street for, I don't think a six pack is attractive unless its Molson's...or abs or a tight ass.
Ego is a huge turnoff for me. Mutual admiration, respect, having fun together, enjoying intelligent conversations, looking deeply into one's eyes and thrilling at the touch of that special someone...whose voice makes you smile.
You just sound like a guy who can't get anything but fat chicks and maybe an older woman. You know, sour grapes and all that. Don't be a hater. There's someone for everyone, hang in there and maybe you'll find someone more your style....yeah, right. | |
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Posted: 1/6/2009 2:54:09 PM | ewwww cw35,
I guess I must have missed that one...that disgusts me personally. That's child molestation.
She should go to jail. Period. A child that age is a hormone with three legs and whose brain hasn't fully developed yet.
Let some Biatchhh mess with one of my Gsons when they are 15 and I'll shoot her ass off. And that's all I have to say about that. | |
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Posted: 1/6/2009 3:43:43 PM | | ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^what she said.........................................except I don't have grandsons................. | |
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Posted: 1/6/2009 5:40:35 PM | "her passionate affair with a 15 year old boy "
I missed this one, too, Zephyr. I am also disgusted by it.
When the first season of Desperate Housewives had Gabby having sex with the under 18 garden boy I was enraged ... and I don't watch the show partly due to that promotion of child molestation without consequence by a Disney channel show. However, they were gender indifferent. The next season the high school girl with the teacher didn't end up with the molester being arrested that time either. | |
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Posted: 1/6/2009 7:13:37 PM |
The old "No offense, but..." routine?
If I am banned from the forums one more time, I can't come back. So, yeah, I have learned to be PC.
(Very mature of you BTW.)
I am very immature and am the first to admit it.
But... I still find plenty of attractive women to date. So far, they tend not to be as attractive on the inside, or grown enough mentally and emotionally.
I am truly confused . . . you can't find attractive women, yet you date them. Or, wait, you just can't find attractive women who are mature? What you REALLY want is a good-looking woman who is mentally and emotionally "grown," but an emotionally and mentally stable ugly one is not desirable.
Is that it? | |
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Posted: 1/6/2009 7:18:33 PM |
I am truly confused . . .
See. If we discuss something long enough we can find something we agree upon. | |
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Posted: 1/6/2009 7:20:25 PM | Because older men or 30's 40's don't take responsibility and a younger man has a hard****that rocks the night and the day all the time :) with a great BIG STRONG SMILE
plus old men old deadbeats!!!!!!!!!!! demanding.........don't call...........only want it once a week
LAME 
I would rather have a fertile turtle 
Give me happy balls and A NICE LONG FIRM TERM    | |
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