| older women younger men Posted: 1/22/2009 1:35:11 AM | | a very conservative man once told me “if you don’t hunt you don’t eat” since then cougars have always been on the menu, however only trophy quality is ever harvested | |
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| older women younger men Posted: 1/22/2009 1:37:40 AM | | I couldn't do it. I would be wondering what he was thinking the whole time and I just wouldn't be comfortable. No give me an older guy with the intellect to match. | |
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| older women younger men Posted: 1/29/2009 12:28:45 AM | Ive dated older women and thats i prfer due to the level of maturity that they hold ,however i do date younger women my age just aint same as dating older.Always leads with drama,but thats every person.I try to see the good in people | |
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| older women younger men Posted: 1/29/2009 12:52:33 AM | | What the hell? Bring on the younger guys, maybe they don't have so much past to dwell on like the old ones. Age is irrelavant, it depends on how strong the mind is. I have met 50 year olds that act like babies and 30 year olds that are real men, and vice versa. | |
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| older women younger men Posted: 1/29/2009 1:22:27 AM | | Age is mostly irrelevant but the problem is they are Hot and want to do it all the time Anywhere but are not that Good at it. I only have so much patience. LOL | |
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| older women younger men Posted: 1/29/2009 10:50:49 AM | For the young guys out there there is nothing better than a cougar they can teach you things noone else can. On top of that they have their own stuff house, car, money ect. They are more likely to fix you breakfast and other favors. This is providing that you can hold up in the bedroom LOL. As for those prospective cougars out there that don't want to try on young guys, Well a 20-30 yo boy can do wonders to relight those fires for you. It will also be like getting a new puppy, each time you get a different one. You get to hold and squeze and pet him until you get him trained then you get to get a new one. Sort of like trading cars as soon as you wear the new off LOL. My cougar kept me My Wife is 10years older than me. but once she found the best why keep looking  | |
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| older women younger men Posted: 1/29/2009 10:55:04 AM | | BTW she is a real hottie and a great partner in life that loves me more than I deserve. | |
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| older women younger men Posted: 1/29/2009 4:59:38 PM | Age is just a number. It's all about the attraction, chemisty, etc..
That being said, there is something about an older woman that is very sexy. What it is, I'm not sure. | |
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| older women younger men Posted: 1/29/2009 5:07:45 PM | Reading this thread is particularly interesting to me at the moment!
I recently met a younger man and there was instant chemistry. I'm not acting on it because the age difference freaks me out, but I am curious about other people's viewpoints. I've been thinking a LOT about Demi Moore and Ashton Kutcher lately.  | |
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| older women younger men Posted: 1/29/2009 5:57:30 PM | I honestly believe that it depends on the people.. Older women and younger men are definately physically compatible but all the science books already tell us that.. but it comes down to is a individual thing.. everyone carries / handles themselves in a different manor.  | |
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| older women younger men Posted: 1/29/2009 6:02:06 PM | | Blue Note - if the chemistry was instantly there, why deny yourself the happiness. Don't worry about what others think - well, as long as he's legal :) | |
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| older women younger men Posted: 1/29/2009 6:10:11 PM |
well, as long as he's legal
LOL! Yes, he's legal. Thanks ComicDoc. I'm definitely going to take your comment into consideration (because I want to ).  | |
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| older women younger men Posted: 1/31/2009 6:58:16 PM | | I totally agree , age is just a number , The chemistry is where it is and most importantly its the communication and the ability to read one another and understand each other.The things that ive understood about older women and being in a relationship with them, They love there space and i love my space as well.Im a laid back guy, theyd rather be home,Thats how i am.Unless im single then im not cause you have to go out to meet people,Unless your fortunate enough to meet GOOD HEARTED PEOPLE !! On here, which i have and some you wonder about lol but yea. POF has done me well so far,Thanks MOderator of pof.ALl im saying is dont say no to something that you havent tried to all these women who say i cant go younger just because, just becasue what!.Try it out and see if you like it, who knows he might be the mr right for you.WHere in the book of love does it say a age preference for a male or a female. | |
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| 52/60 = ok Posted: 2/14/2009 7:41:02 AM | just wanted to add my 2 cents worth without getting into my business to much but,52 and 60 works out just fine. At first i didn't think it was going to work but works very well, i'm outgoing and he's more layed back not sure yet where i'ts going it's been 1 yr. that's all ya need to know. Happy Valentines Day to all you wonderful men.  | |
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| older women younger men Posted: 2/14/2009 9:28:47 AM | | here's the thing, being 22 myself I've noticed a huge difference in not only the maturity level but also the character traits of an older woman versus a younger woman. I personally would choose the older woman over the girl my age everytime and here's why. Older women have there stuff together, they know what there looking for and they will not settle to get. they are driven and there is something sexy about a driven woman. I have met younger women with the same drive but the majority falls short compared to the older women. I have always leaned slightly towards the older side since I can remember, Alot of women my age say that 22 year old guys are way too immature but I think it is just the opposite. 22 year old girls are immature. I do understand that yes I am only 22 and I still have a lot of growing up to do, but I have lived alot of life and had alot of experiences that most people never have in my young age and I feel that I am mature for 22 and I'm just looking for somebody on the same level. | |
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| older women younger men Posted: 2/17/2009 1:38:52 AM | | Yea Phoenix, i know very well where you are coming from. How frustrating it can be. | |
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| older women younger men Posted: 2/21/2009 7:25:43 PM | I only date women about a decade or so older than myself. Don't get me wrong, I'm not looking for a midlife crisis in play. Meaning, I am not looking for a 40 year old trying hard to be 25, I'm looking for a 40 year old IN GOOD SHAPE that behaves/dresses/talks like a 40 year old. So age is important to me. But younger women don't make any sense to me WHATSOEVER!! BH | |
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| older women younger men Posted: 2/22/2009 5:59:18 AM | *rolls eyes* Oh why not..
If he's a good adult male, who cares how old is he.
I do try to stick to about 8 years +/- limit though. It's just my own date-ability spectrum. | |
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| older women younger men Posted: 2/22/2009 6:08:23 AM | No shame in that game.....course I'm just a dirty old woman. *just saying*
On a serious note, most people take issue with the younger man/older woman sexual scenario vs the younger woman/older man scenerio. Perhaps it's simply a double standard that will never go away--maybe it's just believed that women should think and be sexual based on traditional standards of seeking an older man for security and sex?!
Honestly, when it comes to sexual relationships, regardless how folks define them, I'd like to believe all parties should be of legal age to consent to any sexual act and be smart enough to know if it's just a 'sex thang' or something more. In any event, there are NO guarantees in any kind of relationship but a lot of fuss seems to stem from major age differences--particularly when the sexual suitor is a woman and older than her male sexual partner. | |
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| older women younger men Posted: 2/22/2009 11:16:32 PM | I don't see any problem with dating a older women, if that's what you like, it's your choice to make,,
I would go as far a marriage and it wouldn't bother me one bit,, if we can make each other happy nothing else madders :) | |
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| older women younger men Posted: 3/15/2009 4:05:19 AM | | I HAVE TO AGREE WITH YOU. MANY OLDER MEN ARE SET IN THIER WAYS, LOOK FOR WHAT THEY MAY SEE IN A WOMAN THAT MAY RESEMBLE A PREVIOUS RELATIONSHIP THAT HAD GONE BAD. AND THAT COINCIDES WITH THE BITTERNESS. IT'S LIKE WALKING ON EGGSHELLS AND YOU DONT KNOW HIM VERY WELL. DONT WANT TO PUSH ANY BUTTONS FROM THE PAST. YOUNGER MEN NORMALLY DO NOT HOLD ON TO THE BAGGAGE AND IT'S NICE TO JUST BE YOURSELF AND ENJOY LIFE WITH SOMEONE WHO ENJOYS YOU. NO MATTER WHAT THE AGE DIFFERENCE. | |
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