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Posted: 3/22/2009 10:30:31 AM | | I feel the same way, I find that discusting how anyone, man or woman could be with someone 15. this world has no morals or ethics.... | |
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Posted: 3/23/2009 9:45:55 PM | Age is just a number,i personally find many older ladies to be vibrant,and very exciting both in and out of bed.
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Posted: 3/23/2009 10:39:45 PM | Absolutely agree ...
I've dated older [+6], I've dated younger [-20] ... I've married [only twice] one older [14 yrs together +6yrs older] and one younger [3 yrs together, yes the Ashton & Demi match -15yrs younger]! There has to be a balance of maturity though, it's not about being younger! It's about being a genuinely kind, honest, trusting and caring man...in my experience, they are the younger gentlemen, by years!
I've got a very committed heart complimented by a very young soul and very active lifestyle! I'm not happy sitting and watching life pass me by! I'm not a serial or casual dater by any means but I have found my niche in life and it works for me. Age is a number I refuse to be defined by in any measure. I have been fortunate that I don't look my age, complimented that I do not, always appreciated. But I believe that to be because it's the way we choose to live our lives with out preconceived boundaries and be active at any age, exercise, healthier eating!
The friendship and companionship of a younger gentleman just works for me and is truly my preference. The friendships that have stood the test of time are with two gentlemen and I remain great friends with and we talk often [-8 yrs & -20 yrs younger].
Again what works for one person, doesn't always work for another! You can't be someone who is concerned about: what will my friends say, what will my neighbor's say, what will So'n So say? Who cares! Yes, here is a double standard -- an older man with a younger woman rarely catches a second glance! We, older women, just have to smile back at those giving a second glance (or stare) with confidence!
If you are confident in who you are, what you want in life (and ultimately at some point, in love) and you are with the person that makes you smile and you are happy, does any one else matter but that person you have chosen to be with? Regardless of age!
Enjoy ... we are only given one life to live, the choices we make are ours to make! Mistakes will be made along the journey, but if we learn from them, we have enriched our lives! | |
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Posted: 3/24/2009 4:53:37 AM | Me as a woman...don't like younger men...
I love older men, they appreciate you in a different way, they don't take you for granted.
they have the old school manners and romanticism.
Maybe they could even be a bit sexually impaired but they sure know how t please a woman!! | |
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Posted: 3/24/2009 8:38:26 AM | I think it is not about age...it is about compatibility...the OP says "relationship" in his post and it depends on what the couple is building...and what do I think??
nothing...its thrir business..if they are happy..having fun...growing...how wonderfull they have found this | |
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Posted: 3/24/2009 9:05:41 AM | It's illegal to sleep with someone under the age of the consenting age in what ever state.
I wouldn't EVER sleep with a younger guy, they have no path in their life and are so immature. | |
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Posted: 3/24/2009 5:43:05 PM | I think I'm in love!
I love the older wiser, sexier type....... 
Angel you fancy tickler you...
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Posted: 4/18/2009 3:37:33 AM | | I truly believe that age is only a number. The maturity factor is what I look at. I've met men on here my age that act more immature than a 5 year old. Although I haven't dated anyone more than 5 years my junior I am acquainted with younger men that are very mature for their age. | |
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Posted: 4/18/2009 4:04:47 AM | | I love older women. They're the only type of women I date. It's all pluses in my book. Can't imagine dating anyone younger than me. They're cute but so much drama it'll make you die before your time. Give me an older woman any day of the week. | |
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Posted: 4/18/2009 4:14:15 AM | hazleblue eyes,
This is the most logical and HONEST statement I've seen on the forums concerning this topic. You're so right about the maturity aspect. That has to be the biggest factor on the part of both parties involved. Age is just a number. We shouldn't let it define us. Age doesn't mean maturity it just means you get older and you might have some more experiences under your belt. It doesn't mean personal growth. I had a discussion with a woman on POF about a similar topic and I told her when I've approached older women age doesn't come in my mind I just see an attractive woman I would like to get to know because many times we look the same age.
Thanks for posting an HONEST response. | |
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Posted: 4/18/2009 5:34:50 PM | When I read these threads on this topic it blows my mind how so many women just bash and bash men that are thier age. You read women in thier 50's bashing men in thier 50's, women in thier 40's bashing men in thier 40's, women in thier 30's bashing men in thier 30's. And the interesting thing is, they all say the exact samethings about them. So does this mean that women in thier 40's are not great as women in thier 50's? Etc?
And the tired saying of "Older men are all set in thier ways, have baggage, are bitter" wow, I never knew that women are not set in thier ways, not bitter and have no baggage when they are over the age of 40? Many have ex-husbands they are bitter about from a failed marriage that is usually solely blamed on him. Many have children that are either still living at home, or the fact they do have children even if they do not live at home. And they are set in thier ways because I believe we all end up knowing what we like and dislike, know what we want in life by the time we hit our 30's. BUT seems it is not acceptable for us OLD MEN to be that way ONLY women are allowed. This way, women are always in the driver's seat, especially dating a younger guy.
Women know that nowadays THEY hold all the cards in dating. So they can pick and choose and set whatever standards they want. And add in that they can get sex anytime by anyone THEY want to from. Men? Nope, only a select few can. And women no longer NEED a man so this gives them the upperhand. Men today over 35 I say are now paying the price for men in the past.
I hear the comment as well "Oh you guys got away with dating younger women for years, dumping your wives for younger women, now it is our turn."
I say WOW, I never knew I was married at 5, dumped my wife at 10 and dated younger. Thanks.
Remember we men ARE considered NOT in thier league, never the other way around.
I am 40 and there is no way I can match up to a 26 yr old younger guy. So I am so not in the same league.
I feel for all men over 40 who are single, because there are going to be less and less women who will want to date us. Being in your 20's and single, has got to be the most amazing time now and those are the guys who are in high demand.
They beat us in looks, money, sex. And oh ya, we men generalize that women want money from men and we get bashed. Women say "Oh all you older men are set in your ways" is a generalization but again is allowed...because it comes from women.
As I say, ladies, you hold all the power nowadays, just use it right because you may misuse it and end up emptyhanded. But 99% of women are smarter than that right? So what do I know...I am a 40 year OLD MAN...LOL
Glad I threw the towel in on dating this year. | |
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Posted: 4/30/2009 1:24:42 PM | I personally love younger men the enthusiasm about everything they do no drama, no baggage, just a great time had by all. But if they want children the Cougar thing does not apply, but I have dated many younger men and love it.Although I don't count older men out some are very enjoyable, enthusiastic, and down right hot.  | |
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Posted: 5/8/2009 2:03:04 PM | | everyone should check out agelesslove.com I've been there for months and it's a pretty good site for learning more about ow/ym relationships | |
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Posted: 5/8/2009 2:06:57 PM | | older women and younger men just make sense. Women's sexuality is a lot more complex than that of a men so I feel that's why there's a gap in age between the two genders' sexual peaks. It's a lot less taboo now than 10 years ago with couples like Ashton and Demy to show off and I think that's great. There shouldn't be any restrictions preventing people from embracing something they want to share. | |
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Posted: 5/8/2009 8:31:38 PM | Isn't it interesting you always get an example like this "I know men who are in thier 40's who act immature and men in thier 20's who act more mature"
So a guy in his 40's acting and feeling like he is in his 20's is immature? Wow. But a woman in her 40's who acts and feels like she is in her 20's is ok? Nice double standard there ladies.
It seems rare that women will compliment men thier age. Like women in thier 40's saying nice things about men in thier 40's. Only a very few do. And yet the men in thier 20's seem to get raves all the time.
Oops forgot, those women who put us men in our 40's down are usually the ones who are bitter towards men that age because one guy that they married was an a-hole, so that sets the tone for the rest of us.
Why is it acceptable for women to generalize us men, but when a man does the same about women, look out. Is there no more common ground between genders the same ages? Is it all about one person having the power? I mean ladies, YOU have ALL the power in dating, so what more do you want? We men have to court you, pursue you, ask you out on dates, accept rejection, pay for dates, pick you up, drive you where you want to go for a night out. I mean wow, and when we hit our 40's, we are lazy, no good in bed, boring, no fun, too serious...does it ever end?
I like all women, but seems as I hit my 30's I realized that women my age search for flaws in us, then I hit 40 and now it is assuming things about us. And then we hear that men in thier 20's are perfect. Unreal. I guess we should all just give up hope? | |
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| older women younger men
Posted: 5/8/2009 10:14:02 PM | Cougers maybe.
If your legal and your both happy...so be it.
Doesn't make you a bad person. | |
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Posted: 5/9/2009 6:22:14 PM | what else are women supposed to do when they reach their sexual peek in their 40s and the men their age are in sexual decline, can't perform, or are trying to chase young girls who can still pop out children??
Any guy who doesn't care about having kids, wants a woman who craves sex just as much as he does and doesn't want to deal with the "im a princess and my daddy says I'll marry a handsome surgeon, drama drama drama" attitude should totally consider dating an attractive (moderately older) woman. | |
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Posted: 5/9/2009 6:31:45 PM | Been there, done that - and it was good ! Married/divorced one 7yrs younger , serious connection of 3yrs with one 17yrs younger .
It's the meeting of the minds that counts - what life experiences and attitudes there are - not the numbers . I tend to think "younger" , and am active and vital - so it works for me . But I've found that dating the PERSON rather than the age, is the most successful policy . | |
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Posted: 5/9/2009 6:44:27 PM | | I've never enjoyed being a "cougar", as I've never found a younger man who was at a good maturity level. I'm not saying all younger men are immature, I just haven't found any yet. So, I go for the old dudes! | |
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Posted: 5/9/2009 8:23:56 PM | | As an "older woman" I have found that younger men are great for sex but not so much for relationships. | |
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Posted: 5/10/2009 4:07:17 PM | | i only date younger men...emotionally i can't relate to my own age group...sexually younger men are more virile and better looking....everyone is different but in general...younger is better. | |
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Posted: 5/10/2009 4:12:25 PM | | I see nothing wrong with it,I like younger men but not too young. | |
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