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 Jonie09
Joined: 5/7/2009
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 southshore46
Joined: 5/8/2009
Msg: 1502
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Posted: 5/13/2009 8:36:31 PM
I generally prefer younger men. But I have my limits. Most likely I wouldn't date a man that is more than 15 years youngrt than me. I probably wouldn't be compatible with a man when the age difference between us is that large.

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I've never enjoyed being a "cougar", as I've never found a younger man who was at a good maturity level. I'm not saying all younger men are immature, I just haven't found any yet. So, I go for the old dude


A 29 yr old woman probably wouldn't be considered to be a cougar. At your age many men who are about 5-10 yrs younger than you are still maturing. A 5-10 yrs age difference becomes less important when you get older.
 SFloridaKing
Joined: 5/9/2009
Msg: 1503
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Posted: 5/25/2009 12:42:09 PM
Amen to that. Im a 20 year old man in Palm Beach and I have had my fair share of women, but I must say, the older the better. With everything. Attitude, maturity, conversational skills, even sex, is better with a woman who is atleast 28 years old.
 Handful38
Joined: 7/27/2008
Msg: 1504
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Posted: 5/25/2009 2:20:10 PM
The sameway I feel about a older man younger women =)
Its only a number but finding some on here who don't agree w/that philosophy. But theres a few if your 2 years older/younger your a foul-ball. I think if theres chemistry & enough things in common overall why not ?
 RazzleRoadRunner
Joined: 4/13/2007
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Posted: 5/25/2009 2:33:30 PM

How do you feel about a sexual relationship between a younger man and an older woman?


I have T-Shirts that are older than some of the young guys that try to contact me. Sometimes they are looking for emotional support and sometimes they are looking to learn from the sexual experience of an older woman. I am not their mother, so they think it's o.k. to dazzle an older woman into accomodating them.

I have my boundaries though........I am just not up to the game of helping little boys in adult bodies to become men. I will leave that up to the female gender in a similar age group.

Sometimes, I wonder how they would react if the older woman they contacted, actually turned out to be their mother.
 akakakes
Joined: 3/27/2009
Msg: 1506
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Posted: 5/25/2009 4:40:14 PM
My rule of thumb, He must be older than my oldest child by some yrs.. K
 lyndag
Joined: 7/24/2006
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Posted: 5/26/2009 1:12:41 PM
I don't have any problem with it. I've often gone out with guys many years younger than me. As long as your up front about your age and he has no problem with it, I say go for it.
 moongirl2
Joined: 3/23/2009
Msg: 1508
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Posted: 5/26/2009 1:30:36 PM
younger men are much better for sex.older men start needing cialis and viagra and it's no longer spontaneous..it's wait honey til the pill kicks in..they also have alot more baggae than the younger ones..but if someone is looking for money than old you go...
 XoticDeeva
Joined: 4/10/2007
Msg: 1509
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Posted: 6/10/2009 8:39:03 PM
I tend to attract/date younger guys, never had any problems regarding the age difference, people usually assume we're in the same age group but it's not just about "sex"... as long as he's not on some "BULL" it's all good.[/b
 ava26
Joined: 2/8/2009
Msg: 1510
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Posted: 6/14/2009 1:16:59 AM
I have dated men younger then me by two years. If its not a huge gap why not but everyone is different.
 nwyoung31
Joined: 5/29/2009
Msg: 1511
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Posted: 6/20/2009 8:50:34 AM
i think its a great think i love older woman and i think ther is nothing rong with it at all life is what u make it, if your happy then life is good
 birdshite
Joined: 5/29/2009
Msg: 1512
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Posted: 6/20/2009 8:52:46 AM
As long he is over 35.....
 nwyoung31
Joined: 5/29/2009
Msg: 1513
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Posted: 6/20/2009 3:49:31 PM
im 23 and if a older woman wanted me in sure id let her hve me
 in69out
Joined: 6/5/2009
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Posted: 6/25/2009 7:08:38 AM
Much like the forbidden fruit, hmm "Is it OK for me to have a partner who is much older or younger than I am?" You'll do better off if you forget about your ages and concentrate on whether the relationship works for both of you, or not. What really makes a romantic relationship succeed is the:
(((((emotional connection)))).
 HBPatti
Joined: 2/5/2008
Msg: 1515
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Posted: 7/3/2009 8:11:26 AM
Most of my best relationships have been with younger men...I have been a Cougar my whole life...even before when it was kind of forbidden, it never bothers me what people think anyway...my friends and family all love me so who cares!!!!!!.
I am bored with most men my age (I just turned 64 last month and still going strong). The youngest long term relationship I had was 22 years younger and I finally broke up with him because he "acted too old"..REALLY!!!!
Have fun you Cougars and GO FOR IT!!!!!
 gracengracie
Joined: 2/3/2009
Msg: 1516
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Posted: 7/3/2009 8:40:25 AM

How do you feel about a sexual relationship between a younger man and an older woman?



For myself, no my optimal choice. I prefer them 10 years older.

In general, it should be about how the specific couple feels about it. They are the ones sharing and living it. If they are happy, it's all good.
 eaglesfly1
Joined: 4/19/2009
Msg: 1517
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Posted: 7/5/2009 11:48:00 AM
I love cougars. I have always dated older woman. It's the best sex I have ever had.
 randy_mc
Joined: 6/15/2009
Msg: 1518
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Posted: 7/13/2009 9:55:31 AM
i'm 18 and i heard that there are alot of cougars out there but i can't find any.
 LivNLafNLuv
Joined: 8/9/2008
Msg: 1519
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Posted: 7/18/2009 9:05:16 AM
Young at heart has always had me seeking younger men. At 58, I enjoy the companionship of younger men. I work hard at staying physically fit and try to be the best I can be. Most men in my age group are balding, have some disgusting facial hair, overweight and not even physically fit. I'm just not seeing the sexual attraction there at all. A man in his 40's is usually in much better physical shape, more attentive and fun. Usually divorced and now knows what is important to him. I like them at this stage in their lives. They don't cling, I'm not doing their laundry, preparing their meals or paying their bills. I get the best of them and they get the best of me.
 StevieCashmere
Joined: 4/22/2009
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Posted: 7/18/2009 2:23:23 PM
Everyone has their preferences, for thewir own reasons, but what is a 'age barrier' anyway?
~sc~
 redredrose1948
Joined: 1/7/2007
Msg: 1521
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Posted: 7/18/2009 3:51:51 PM
Well, age is a matter of the mind. If you don't mind it does't matter. I was married to my guy for 30 years and we were together 2 years befor that and it worked just fine. He was 10 years my junior and he just passed away on Christmas Eve of 08. So don't tell me that that can't work, you both have to work at it .
 Mizanthrope
Joined: 6/3/2009
Msg: 1522
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Posted: 7/20/2009 4:14:06 AM
^^^ Nice to see is was not just a sexual relationship that worked out well there.

I admit that a younger guy is more appealing although I couldn't go for more than about ten years difference, if that. My last LTR was with a guy who was six years younger, never was a problem, we broke up due to reasons other than age.

However I would not have the confidence to initiate a relationship with a younger guy. I confess I have had to tell a few men that I view their advances in a negative light due to their being much older than me, so would really hate to be seen the same way. I reconcile the double standard by being comfortable as long as the younger party shows interest first.


 anuary
Joined: 7/31/2009
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Posted: 8/6/2009 12:10:47 AM
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 Ependa
Joined: 7/16/2009
Msg: 1524
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Posted: 8/6/2009 12:19:39 AM
it's a very personal preference...my boyfriend of 5 years was 14 years younger than me...it worked for us..probably because I have the mentality of an 11 year old and he is really an old man , lol.
 in69out
Joined: 6/5/2009
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Posted: 9/15/2009 11:21:18 AM
Much like the forbidden fruit, hmm "Is it OK for me to have a partner who is much older or younger than I am?" You'll do better off if you forget about your ages and concentrate on whether the relationship works for both of you, or not. What really makes a romantic relationship succeed is the:
(((((emotional connection)))).
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