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| | older women younger menPage 7 of 79 (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13, 14, 15, 16, 17, 18, 19, 20, 21, 22, 23, 24, 25, 26, 27, 28, 29, 30, 31, 32, 33, 34, 35, 36, 37, 38, 39, 40, 41) | {AS an older woman who is quite sexual I find that a lot of younger men will look but are reluctant to touch. For fear of what their friends/ family would say.People assume that if it is a young male,older female there is an alteriare motive. Ussually money, nobody says they must have a great physical relationship I have been looking for an open minded younger guy for a great sexual relationship. Where are you?? }
I doubt that! I doubt younger guys are reluctant to touch older women when in a relationship. I think guys know the right time or when the time is 'right" to go in then the love machine comes out.
I know with me that is the case, were i may be hesitant for a bit, or APPEAR hesitant, but you see it does develope TRUST, I have got to know that I can trust her and she can trust me before ANYTHING happens. But I get going after abit lol
See us guys Do think and there IS such thing as "male intuition" | |
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Posted: 5/3/2006 8:37:02 PM |
Makes me laugh when people say age is not the issue it is the person...and confidence and self esteem. hey if I knew that say 45 yr old women liked to date 37 yr old guys, I would be confidenct to approach them all the time,. Like a 24 yr old guy has the confidence to approacj a 40 yr old woman because he knows most 40 yr old women like guys his age.
So his confidence is high as he has the green light.
I think a guy like me at my age has limited selections based on those women's preferences to be with men alot younger. So how can I not feel low with so much rejection based on my age and looks for example. Many say accept the rejection and move on..I have accepted it but then I move on and am limited on who I can meet. And my self esteem and confidence has taken a hit from it all...if i was made of concrete then fine but I am not...when something good happens for you, makes you feel good and then your confidence builds up. You don't just buy confidence in a can and then the next day feel awesome...it grows with the success you have in whatever it is you try. And when you keep failing and tryng and failing are you really going to have the same outlook?
If so then you people are much better than I am. But I do not believe it.
you can be 16 and confident, or you can be 66 and confident. my point is: confidence gets you women. if you show up half shy, half scared, you might as well not show up because you are already so far behind that being able to make it up will be a miracle.
I have spent a few nights in bars and clubs watching the crowds. it's an interesting experience seeing guys approach women. some are in and out quick, others are out before they are in, and some actually get a favorable nod. you win some, you lose some more.
how about this: dating can be a team sport. get your friends in it, bs about your experiences, make jokes over a mug of beer, perhaps some women will overhear and you may score yourself a date without even trying. "use" unconventional ways to date. and be careful what you wish for, you may end up with a couple of 20 year old sex freaks sucking the living juices out of you daily so much that you wished you were celabate tee hee  | |
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Posted: 5/4/2006 2:17:35 AM | | I am 22 and am intrested in older women. my last g/f was 29. I won't go past 35 though. | |
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Posted: 5/4/2006 7:17:00 AM |
how about this: dating can be a team sport. get your friends in it, bs about your experiences, make jokes over a mug of beer, perhaps some women will overhear and you may score yourself a date without even trying. "use" unconventional ways to date. and be careful what you wish for, you may end up with a couple of 20 year old sex freaks sucking the living juices out of you daily so much that you wished you were celabate tee hee
Biggest downfall in this comment is ALL and not some but ALL my friends are married or in a relationship. Sp me being the only single person out of them all, it sucks. I do most of my things on my own. Like taking my Vegas vacation this week coming up solo for example.
Most people I work with are either 19-24 or who are my age are married or in relationships.
So for me it is hard to meet people. And especially on my own. Not a chance I will head to a bar solo...I would feel uncomfortable. Although yes I do it and will do it on my trip next week. But total different atmosphere there and I do not live there. So with a bunch of out of town people there, everyone is in an upbeat have a great time mood. Different than a local bar here. No one socializes, they just sit with the group of people they came from and if it is packed say on a Thu-Sat night, you get people trying to pick up others.
But a woman would think what a loser for sure if a guy was there solo...but besides that just don't feel comfortable doing it.
And ya I can be a pervert and be hitting on the 20 year old women...as that is exactly what I would be don't you think? Totally different if a 37 yr old woman was with a 20 yr old guy. That is called acceptable. No questions asked. | |
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Hatha
| | Joined: 4/30/2006
Msg: 156 | |
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Posted: 5/4/2006 7:49:09 AM | I would love to date a younger man, the men 40 and 50 years are boring. Anyone interested, if you live in southern california. javascript:smilie(' ') | |
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Posted: 5/4/2006 10:36:00 AM | Hatha-Many men your age say the same about females your ages too.
It's a viscious cycle. | |
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Posted: 5/4/2006 1:27:29 PM | | dateing younger is a choice some have because they look good.its just hard to have a meaningful conversation with a youn person about anything other then sex. | |
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Posted: 5/4/2006 1:48:17 PM | Not entirely true...sometimes you can see what level they are on on a favorite video game. .
Sometimes one would be surprised and you can talk about cinema, art,music, whatever you like as some of the same interests might have brought you together.
Sometimes they are the guys who will dance with you. | |
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Posted: 5/4/2006 1:54:47 PM | But a woman would think what a loser for sure if a guy was there solo...but besides that just don't feel comfortable doing it.
And ya I can be a pervert and be hitting on the 20 year old women...as that is exactly what I would be don't you think? Totally different if a 37 yr old woman was with a 20 yr old guy. That is called acceptable. No questions asked.
I am 37 not interested in a 20 y/o. Maybe 26-28. My own age. Possibly older if we have things in common and that elusive chemisty thing is there..
RW what about going out with some of the girls from the office after work? When women see a man with other women for some weird reason they like that. I have been used as bait before for some of my male friends...I don't know why it is but it is. There are alot of women who will go for the guy if they think they are taken(not me) but I have seen it happen. | |
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Posted: 5/4/2006 7:53:15 PM |
Biggest downfall in this comment is ALL and not some but ALL my friends are married or in a relationship. Sp me being the only single person out of them all, it sucks. I do most of my things on my own. Like taking my Vegas vacation this week coming up solo for example.
Most people I work with are either 19-24 or who are my age are married or in relationships.
So for me it is hard to meet people. And especially on my own. Not a chance I will head to a bar solo...I would feel uncomfortable. Although yes I do it and will do it on my trip next week. But total different atmosphere there and I do not live there. So with a bunch of out of town people there, everyone is in an upbeat have a great time mood. Different than a local bar here. No one socializes, they just sit with the group of people they came from and if it is packed say on a Thu-Sat night, you get people trying to pick up others.
But a woman would think what a loser for sure if a guy was there solo...but besides that just don't feel comfortable doing it.
And ya I can be a pervert and be hitting on the 20 year old women...as that is exactly what I would be don't you think? Totally different if a 37 yr old woman was with a 20 yr old guy. That is called acceptable. No questions asked.
I don't see why you can't discuss your dating life with your married or involved friends. or perhaps you need to enlarge your circle of friends. going out alone isn't such a big deal. in fact, I used to do it occasionally and, believe me, there are enough women who don't think you are a loser just because you are sitting at the bar alone and sipping a drink. some even approach you when they are getting their own drinks.
your attitude seems to be "I can't this, I don't that" and as I already mentioned, you are shooting yourself in the foot with it. I don't see why you should behave differently where you live compared to LV or any other vacation spot. if you are afraid that someone you know may see you and then pass around your deeds, perhaps they aren't worth your time? don't get pissed, but take it a bit easy on the maturity level, you are a lil too "mature" for your age, and for your own good. | |
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K3VLAR
| | Joined: 6/13/2005
Msg: 163 | |
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Posted: 5/7/2006 2:32:07 AM | I've not read all 2785 pages of replies yet,....hehe, so maybe I exaggerated that number a bit,....but I was curious how my story holds up re: age difference.
I was in a rental situation in which the landlady decided she wanted a bit more than rent. I was 30, she was 54,....which is 4 years older than my mother.
ewwww,....now that I think about it :D
I probably wouldn't go more than 10 years older now,.... | |
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Posted: 5/7/2006 6:12:01 AM | god if you're thought of as old at 32 there ain't much hope for me!!
i have an admirer at the moment who is 19 (not on the site) and i have to virtually beat him off with a stick.
age is nothing but a number - i look and feel much less than my number and if a guy is attractive funny and has something to say for himself - well i'm all ears!!! | |
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Posted: 5/7/2006 7:02:03 AM | | hey old is over 35 for men now, women 45 is young...women my age call me old and women in thier 40's call me old. makes me laugh a bit because when will 25 be called old? | |
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Posted: 5/7/2006 7:34:00 AM | haha  I like to have things in common with someone Im with. I have been asked out by men as young as 23. My son is 23  no thank you. I am 49!!! Although they are very attractive, and some are more mature then their age, I dont think so. Have nothing in common with them. The youngest I will date is 35, even then they have to be very mature for their age. We seem to go thru cycles, men over 20 -30 want older, men over 40 want barbies. Its mid life crisis for them tho lol. Trophy's to help them with the fact there not spring chickens anymore. With women over 40 wanting men under its all about being treated good and sex lol. cause all the men our age are playing house with like barbie like like lol. My advice to men over 40 is buy a convertable and come get me lol.. I'll keep ya young lol | |
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Posted: 5/7/2006 8:14:40 AM | | I am with you Gold locks, younger guys just look like kids to me and there is no attraction there. I will just stick with older men who are "more experienced". Sitting around playing playstation all day doesnt sound like to much fun to me!! | |
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Posted: 5/7/2006 8:23:27 AM | | Well I say come with me ladies to vegas...we will have one awesome fun non stop time...I may be 37 but I am not boring..I am all for fun and when people say I am not fun because of my age..it annoys me. | |
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Posted: 5/7/2006 9:08:22 AM | well let me see... i'm 50 and was was living with a guy 36 for 2 yrs, before that i was with a guy 37.yea, i figure if it's ok for a man to be with a younger woman if they are consenting adults and mature enough ,why not. | |
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Posted: 5/7/2006 9:20:33 AM | | does not compute is right. i'm afraid to ask a guy who is 42 what is old to him or what is older? | |
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Posted: 5/27/2006 10:34:28 PM | my experience on pof so far has been (mainly) younger guys messaging me. the few older guys who have messaged me, has gone no where in terms of chemistry. so do i tell the younger guys no way? hell no!! i'd be lonely the rest of my life.
so two thoughts: are the older guys that i would prefer to date, seeking women younger than me? or are younger guys tired of younger girls playing games and enjoy the company of older women because we know what we want and are tired of playing games?
i have gone out with some younger guys since being on the site. age to a certain degree is just a number. i have met some really nice younger guys who know what they want out of life and are mature yet can have fun.
there my 2 cents for the day!!! cheers!! | |
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Posted: 5/27/2006 11:38:10 PM | The boys at work call me a cougar (and a spinster) but the thing is, I don't date younger men... I think they say it because they know it bugs me.  | |
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Posted: 5/27/2006 11:43:33 PM | Oh and I forgot to add, some men don't like an aging woman. I am in bellydancing... I was out for coffee with a guy off here and he told me that he has been to restaurants with bellydancers, and although the are good, they are getting to be too old to look at. That was his opinion and he is entitled to it. Fair enough, he likes younger looking women. My opinion is that his comment was shallow (and it turned me off). What was he doing out with a 30 year old woman when he should be dating someone who is 18??? | |
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pink13
| | Joined: 5/2/2006
Msg: 175 | |
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Posted: 5/27/2006 11:47:28 PM | well my daughters male friends used to call me a milf and i have had quite a few younger guys mail or im me on the site but........
it just makes me laugh i feel it a bit of the mrs robinson syndrome mixed with a notch on the bed with a smidgen of i never had love off my mother so please show me some.
i dont really care about chatting to ppl what ever the age but i would feel like i was dating my son however mature they may feel or act at some stage in your life that age gap is going to cause a problem somewhere.
but having said all that horses for courses and whatever makes you happy you should do live and let live x | |
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