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 jesuit
Joined: 6/15/2011
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Hi my name is Josh and im tired of young girls they do not know what they want so I tried out the older field turned out to be great would like to continue with the old women came upon yours thinking I'd try 1 last time
 jesuit
Joined: 6/15/2011
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Posted: 7/5/2012 9:54:46 PM
Hi my name is Josh and im tired of young girls they do not know what they want so I tried out the older field turned out to be great would like to continue with the old women came upon yours thinking I'd try 1 last time
 XNhightshade
Joined: 6/25/2012
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Posted: 7/5/2012 11:33:08 PM
32? Old? How young are you going hun? They are legal right? lol. I don't look my age either, I don't mind dating younger. It's the maturity level that makes all the difference in the world. If they are calling you old at 32,they are obviously not very mature. But they are out there. And they would be happy to date you or even have a relationship with you. Relationship wise, the biggest problem might be kids. I'm 45. I don't want kids. It's the first question I ask. If they do, I stop right there. I would never take someones opportunity to have children away from them.

BTW, I have some cats, lol you are STILL alone. Learn to like yourself and your own company. Any man who talks to you because he is bored or lonely is not a man you want to talk with.
 Dolphinboy1976
Joined: 6/16/2012
Msg: 1854
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Posted: 7/6/2012 3:28:57 PM
When I was 33 I was having it off with a 46 year old woman. She was fantastic in bed!
 FisherMane2012
Joined: 11/14/2011
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Posted: 7/14/2012 11:57:44 AM
I dated a woman that was 20 years older that me for about 3 years.
And another that was 27 years older for just under a year.
I've been on several dates with women 10-15 years older.
 MysteriousBlondie
Joined: 6/14/2012
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Posted: 7/14/2012 4:54:54 PM
Men older then me are bitter, resentful, rude, critical, discourteous, prejudice and cynical about everything in life.

Men my own age are not really bitter YET....but, trust me, they are headed there on a fast train to no where's ville.

Men younger then me are fun, witty, usually without "baggage" (bad debts, ex-wives and kids...yuck) and pretty much drama free and have "hope for the future" filled with dreams and an enjoyable life.

The only problem with the younger guys (that I have personally encountered - I am not speaking for ALL of them):
The fellas younger then me have a tendency towards "SMOTHERING" me. They want to "plan my future" and "own and control" me. I don't like being "caged and trapped" by ANYONE (of any age).

So, if there are any cutie pies out there in this fish pond who are carefree, "baggage" free, drama free and looking to fall wildly in love on a moment-by-moment basis (I'm not looking for permanent bf or husband...yikes!! ) then you know how to find me here in this fish pond.
 starlight334
Joined: 6/18/2010
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Posted: 7/14/2012 8:08:21 PM
Yes older men are bitter because the bulshit women put them through their life. (this just adds up to the "kiss ass" they need to do at work...either if they have a boss or if they have direct customers not even mentioning the bad co-workers)
I know a cinical aphorism which states: The best 10 years of a woman life is betwen 28 and 30. :-)
 gigglesevraftr
Joined: 11/27/2010
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Posted: 7/14/2012 9:14:35 PM
LUV younger men! At least the ones I have experienced are fun, lighthearted, and energetic. They want to go places and do things. They understand just wanting to keep it casual!
 w8tngforu
Joined: 11/6/2010
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Posted: 7/14/2012 9:25:17 PM
Sorry I'm all about the mirror...way to much competition with younger girls getting in my way and rightfully so! It's kind of like a tattoo on a young girl than whats it going to look like 15 years later? Not pretty!
 sdnaughty12
Joined: 4/21/2010
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Posted: 7/25/2012 11:34:17 PM
Divine is trying to get it
 PleasureStick
Joined: 7/16/2012
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Posted: 7/25/2012 11:52:13 PM
Older women are better at sex. :D I prefer older. One day.. I will prefer younger.
 TCMWoman
Joined: 4/7/2012
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Posted: 7/26/2012 10:40:36 AM
Wow 75 pages on this subject and I was just thinking yesterday how guys close to my age are not interested in women their age. Guys in their 40s on here usually looking for 20 year olds. But guys in their 20s & 30s looking for women in their 40s. So I guess I will have to sacrifice myself and date younger guys, they are more fun anyways. Nice to look at too ;)
 0sprey4u
Joined: 6/28/2011
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Posted: 7/26/2012 12:45:26 PM
I've been having relationships with older women since I was seventeen.
I am now fifty four and still have friendships with some of these ladies who are seventy two now.
I see one of them each summer when I take a trip near her home spend time with her and still enjoy being with her.
So all I have to say is it's a good thing for a young men, who is mature to engage in sexual relationship with a older women. I don't think it is good with a young lad who is not mature for it leads to issues and stress.
I still engage in dating older women who meet my needs and have a open minded view point.
Here's a issue that a younger guy can open up with a older women ....it hit me more than once. She may fall deep in love with you and want children, it happen to me twice and both times drove me away and ruined the relationship.
So think about the future and be open minded.
Best of luck to both younger men and older ladies.
 prettyflowers
Joined: 7/16/2012
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Posted: 7/28/2012 5:59:37 AM
I am in my 50's and had a young man in his late 20's pursue me. He was extremely good looking, but it just wasn't going to happen. He did all sorts of things to try to get my attention.
He even told his father,who is also a friend of mine that he thought I was "it". Well, needless to say it never came about. I think if the 2 consenting parties agree then have at it. But for me, no way. PF
 Paderic
Joined: 2/23/2010
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Posted: 7/28/2012 7:29:46 AM
Men older then me are bitter, resentful, rude, critical, discourteous, prejudice and cynical about everything in life.


So you wouldn't have a problem with a guy about five years younger than you saying, "Women older then (sic) me are bitter, resentful, rude, critical, discourteous, prejudice (sic) and cynical about everything in life."

I don't have an issue with people having a preference for dating younger, but can we try doing it without perpetuating the ignorant stereotypes?
 HiHeelsLover
Joined: 7/13/2012
Msg: 1866
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Posted: 7/28/2012 12:51:59 PM

I don't have an issue with people having a preference for dating younger, but can we try doing it without perpetuating the ignorant stereotypes?


People can only go by their own experiences. My personal experience has been older men tend to be a tab bit bossy. And younger men tend to be cheap and horny.
 Paderic
Joined: 2/23/2010
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Posted: 7/28/2012 5:02:28 PM

People can only go by their own experiences.


They can also acknowledge that their experience only brings them in contact with a very small cross section of the population. But I guess it's easier to just assume things about other people without ever bothering to find out the truth...
 elizasdream
Joined: 7/5/2012
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Posted: 7/28/2012 6:47:35 PM
I am 61 and I have a lot of younger men contacting me. I ask them why older women. They say because we are more mature, know what we want, not jealous , not as demanding, & grateful.. I'm grateful they can keep an erection. My husband was 11 yrs older, want to experience the younger. Was with a 36 yr old & it was a wonderful 3 1/2 hrs.
 15111958
Joined: 12/6/2011
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Posted: 7/28/2012 8:38:42 PM

They say because we are more mature, know what we want, not jealous , not as demanding, & grateful..


they forgot bitter, angry, never satisfied, endlessly ****ing and whiney. Then theres the cellulite.
 15111958
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Posted: 7/28/2012 8:42:02 PM

Men older then me are bitter, resentful, rude, critical, discourteous, prejudice and cynical about everything in life.

Men my own age are not really bitter YET....but, trust me, they are headed there on a fast train to no where's ville.

Men younger then me are fun, witty, usually without "baggage" (bad debts, ex-wives and kids...yuck) and pretty much drama free and have "hope for the future" filled with dreams and an enjoyable life..



I feel exactly the same way about women my age. Go figure.
 Mrgiveitright
Joined: 7/24/2010
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Posted: 7/29/2012 8:20:10 AM
Great! If they are into each other.
 HiHeelsLover
Joined: 7/13/2012
Msg: 1872
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Posted: 7/29/2012 9:09:52 AM
I tend to be attracted to men in their late 30's early 40's. Men over that age group seem to have stopped taking care of themselves. Men younger than 36, well that is just creepy.
 SpeedracerSmith
Joined: 3/5/2012
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Posted: 7/29/2012 9:16:20 AM
I haven't read any of the responses..way too many...

I prefer men close to my own age..but most aren't interested in women my age...so I date younger men by default.

Why not?
 nappydanny
Joined: 8/23/2011
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Posted: 7/29/2012 7:24:47 PM
I'm 22 and i've always been dating younger girls and girls around my age because they are attracted to me... older women see me as a kid even when i have approaced them, but I wouldn't mind dating a woman in her 30s for experience!
 Archangel_07
Joined: 6/21/2010
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Posted: 7/29/2012 8:16:27 PM
^^^^^^^
I had that too yesterday. A lady asked me how old I was at a Jamaican Party and when I told her my age, she was shocked and she thought I was 10 years younger like 20 Lol. I date young and mature, within my discretion.
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