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Posted: 12/28/2007 9:55:02 AM | | I agree with sweet child, lose this girl quick!She is very mixed up in the head and giving you all the signals of bunny boiling. You will find that when you tell her to no longer come round, she will play havoc with you, she cant let go, you must not encourage her anymore or we will all be saying "i told you so" Don't put her and yourself through any more pain, you finished for a reason - remember that. | |
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| Ladies Awnser this one for me....
Posted: 12/28/2007 1:56:44 PM | You say you thought she has feelings for you, how was she acting towards you?
Sometimes, people may just want to be friends and they have no attraction to you or just being friendly doesn't mean that she still has feelings for you. I'm friendly to people by nature and my friends who are guys...but they know that I'm not attracted to them..we are just friends.
She's being honest w/ you, you want that right?
I think it's cool, that you asked her how she felt and she expressed it honestly, didn't lead you on...didn't play or take advantage w/ your heart or your mind (like some of the men I have known in my life)..so take her "No" and move forward.
Just be friends w/ her, everyone needs friends, right? | |
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| Ladies Awnser this one for me....
Posted: 1/1/2008 12:39:56 PM | dude, get a grip, a clue, and a spine and tell this girl exactly what she should be hearing from you.... **** off and die.
and then go out with your buddies and have a beer. don't let some left-wing feminista get one over on you and mess with your head. | |
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| Ladies Awnser this one for me....
Posted: 1/5/2008 12:21:42 AM | Man up and get a grip on yourself...
"she's not getting anything from me... not even a beer."
And yet here you are asking for advice about her. She may not be getting anything from you, but she is certainly getting TO you. Stop asking if she still wants you... You have no control over that. There is only one important question here... and only you can answer it... Do YOU want her in YOUR life?
My advice... It's a new year... Time to start fresh. | |
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| Ladies Awnser this one for me....
Posted: 1/5/2008 12:29:11 AM | | she might be upto something , looking for money or something ...i don't know either of you , but my advice is be careful . maybe you should ask yourself if you still have feelings for her ...:) | |
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| Ladies Awnser this one for me....
Posted: 1/5/2008 1:19:04 AM | | What made you think that she hated you? If she was still coming around maybe she wanted to at least maintain a friendship with you. Just becasue she did not want to get back together with you does not means she hates you. | |
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| Ladies Awnser this one for me....
Posted: 1/5/2008 1:24:31 AM | | I've had ex's I hate but waited a while to talk to them again. It was just so we could at least me cybil with each other though. | |
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| Ladies Awnser this one for me....
Posted: 1/5/2008 1:36:46 AM | OP....I would simply ask what her intentions are for coming over for the visits....does she need some sort of closure or does she need something from you.....
Realistically...if your relationship has ended and you have nothing tying you together, i.e. like children.....you should both go your seperate ways and rebuild...
Best of luck OP | |
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| Ladies Awnser this one for me....
Posted: 1/5/2008 1:53:04 AM | Maybe she left a bag of weed or something, and she can't remember where it was.
Or, maybe she's interested in one of your friends.
Or, maybe she's neurotic and can't quite come to terms with WHY she still likes to drive you up the wall, but still enjoys it too much to stop.
I can't think of a single scenario that would make ME want her hanging around, but maybe there's something in it for you that you haven't identified.
Your call, but if it were me, I'd tell her not to come around unless she can give you a good reason.
BTW... you're still here, right? The OP was, like, 3 weeks ago, so we could all be spittin' into a dry cup, here...
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| Ladies Awnser this one for me....
Posted: 1/5/2008 5:26:32 AM | "Hate" is not the opposite of "love", "indifference" is. Both "hate" and "love" are very strong emotions, and cause you to expend a lot of mental effort on the person/object you hate/love.
Realistically? Why are you even letting her in your house? To me, that's like slowly peeling off a Band-Aid: just rip the damn thing off, and get the pain over with.
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| Ladies Awnser this one for me....
Posted: 1/5/2008 6:13:54 AM | OP there are SO many threads here discussing the differences between what a man and a woman call friendship. According to 3547 threads, men will be friends if they think there is a hope in hell they might wriggle back in, otherwise they want to cut ties completely.
Women (most) mean just friends.
Some women just want a puppet/shoulder to whine on/mover/fake-a-date.
Decide which you are and act accordingly. | |
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| Ladies Awnser this one for me....
Posted: 1/5/2008 7:25:07 AM | | She doesn't sound like she knows what in the world she wants....I'd move on quickly if I were you. This would be a huge lesson in frustration. You could also read the thread about 180's. | |
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