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 dbm04401

Joined: 10/12/2006
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A Date In Maine???
Posted: 7/27/2008 3:13:45 PM
Sure I am willing to talk to anyone in Bangor Maine. LL
 sol20051

Joined: 1/4/2006
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Posted: 4/6/2009 7:44:46 AM
I understand how many feel. Dating in Maine can be difficult.

Many cases of rape, murder and violence all towards women. I agree that it would be difficult for anyone to find let alone trust a good person they met online. I actually was just on another thread that asked why Girls insist on talking on the phone before a date. THAT'S WHY...

Anywoo...

I won't say stick it out because it's worth it, watch a Lifetime movie and you can get that shoved down your throat fifty times over. But I will say that even though my track record with women royally sucks in the long haul...I have had some fun relationships, good sex and at least once felt truly in love with someone.

In short the bad greatly outweighs the good but when you find it, it's good.
 JoanieMaine

Joined: 6/19/2009
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A Date In Maine???
Posted: 6/22/2009 8:49:49 AM

Exactly Bob....I just dont understand whats up with women in Maine...

This is Maine ladies...NOT Mass, Florida, California....etc....MAINE.....so gives us guys a break...get to know us....we are good guys looking for a good woman...


Oh really
 Maggetimes4

Joined: 4/28/2009
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A Date In Maine???
Posted: 7/17/2009 1:12:12 PM
I have some rules of thumb sort of in regards to Internet Dting:
Pictures need to be less than 3 years old; will see the ones of when you were 21 when we meet.
If you can't exchange phone numbers by the third week of messaging then there is a red flag
Eye to eye contact should be made no later than 30 days. It doesn't have to be a big date, but coffee or a public meeting someplace to talk it minimum must. One can learn a lot when you look someone in the eyes.
If you begin dating and date for three months you should be welcomed to their houses at least once. How many daters have a husband or a wife in the house????
My rules call them stupid and limiting but I have learned a few things over the years.
To all Maine daters self included let's hang in there it isn't winter yet. The good ones haven't all gone to their caves or into the woods yet. Magge
 CascoMan

Joined: 7/11/2009
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Posted: 7/19/2009 6:20:41 AM
Internet dating is interesting. I find that it can work, but you have to go out on more than just a few dates.

Dating online offers some unique challenges that most people are afraid to get into. One you really don't have the ability for the one-on-one you get when seeing someone and asking yourself are you going to ask that person out. When you see a girl you like you can somewhat know if she is also interested by the way they carry themselves when you are looking at each other from accross the room.

Online dating takes the friend factor out of the equation. When you see someone accross the room you have your friends to help you either break away or push you toward the other person. Online dating is more intimate one-on-one and when you make the date you are there and if the date is good great if it is not then you want to leave but do not know how.

I think honesty should be number one. If you are not having a good time then you need to tell each other this is not working out. If if not working out but you think a friendship may come out of it then you can always state that.

Remember you are here to be true to yourself and you need to make sure you are comfortable with the choices you have made.

I think online dating is a good way to meet people, just be safe and don't take any uneccesary chances puting yourself in danger. Have fun while doing it and treat each other with respect.

Have fun and keep looking the right one is out there and he or she is also looking...

Jared
 krissy117

Joined: 12/24/2008
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Posted: 7/20/2009 4:34:24 PM
Hi , now after reading your letters i understand why ive had no joy!
Im due out from Uk for six weeks holiday in October, i have looked at the profiles of men 57-68 yrs in Maine which is where i shall be stopping with friends. I sent email to several and had no reply at all.
Im just wanting some company as my pen-pal will be working most of the time and i thought perhaps this way i could maybe get to know someone before i fly over.
Well so far ive not had a reply, im not looking for sex, relationship or marriage just someone to go for a meal, maybe day out. beach etc.
Looks like its never going to happen but at least i know why now.

krissy uk
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