| Where have all the True and Honest Guys Gone?
Posted: 12/23/2007 3:29:39 PM | | It is either there for them or it isn't....the attraction....Men, like women.....either feel it or they don't....if they don't, they walk away.....Don't grieve for what you never had. We have all gone through this at one time or another...Just move on..... | |
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| Where have all the True and Honest Guys Gone?
Posted: 12/23/2007 3:49:44 PM | I am so tired of you women asking this shit! There are honest men around,...y'all just don't want them,..THAT'S the damn problem! Same thing with the men wanting "honest" women. We all ask this shit! The next time a man contacts you, & you feel he's honest,...say "yes" damn it! There have been so many threads done on this topic, that I'm surprised this one hasn't been deleted from sheer boredom & repetitiveness.  | |
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| Where have all the True and Honest Guys Gone?
Posted: 12/23/2007 4:12:16 PM | from what i have experienced or actually read on here is that the majority of women looking for the "honest" or " mr right" type of guy are also looking for a guy who is 6 foot, has muscles, big hands, broad shoulders etc.
not ALL " honest " men are gonna be 6 foot tall, have big hands, broad shoulders and have huge muscley bodies.
thats where i think the massive difference is between what women want and what men want.
some " honest " men are gonna have no muscley body or be 6 foot tall or have huge hands yet still have a kind and decent heart. | |
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| Where have all the True and Honest Guys Gone?
Posted: 12/23/2007 5:40:07 PM | | Most of the time, the "honest" or "nice guy" is been treated badly by most girls/ladies, play with them or given them false hope. I know because I'm a nice guy, very nice everytime and many have step all over me, and then I have to be a jerk or a*****e just to get some respect or possibly attention, but after that it gets into a fight and goodbye to the next relationship. That's why many ask for the Honest or Nice, no games, lies and/or anything in the same topic. Looks like that I have to give up in looking for someone, I beggining to lose faith. Good luck to the next generation. | |
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| Where have all the True and Honest Guys Gone?
Posted: 12/23/2007 6:22:02 PM | Know exactly what you mean, Twindragon.
I know because I'm a nice guy, very nice everytime and many have step all over me, and then I have to be a jerk or a*****e just to get some respect or possibly attention, but after that it gets into a fight and goodbye to the next relationship.
...I'm in the same boat...I believe it's called the "TITANIC"...& I believe it's sinking fast!!! | |
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| Where have all the True and Honest Guys Gone?
Posted: 12/23/2007 8:20:04 PM |
the majority of women looking for the "honest" or " mr right" type of guy are also looking for a guy who is 6 foot, has muscles, big hands, broad shoulders etc.
Besides, those guys already HAVE boyfriends..... | |
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| Where have all the True and Honest Guys Gone?
Posted: 12/23/2007 8:43:30 PM | Well, to start, I have to agree with you in a way about how people can mislead you by not comunicating. As for where are the good ones, they are in plain sight it is that they get overlooked for the bling, bling ones. If a good guy has a profile on here and says the truth he will never be seen. If a guy puts on here he is in the fortune 500 they will be drooling and beating down his door even if he is just looking for a one night stand. Why? Because they think they will be the one to change him and keep him. I got news for them, once a player, always a player. The good guy does not stand a chance because he has too much respect for himself and other people. I could go on for hours about the physics of it but I don't want to offend too many people. I will say this maybe you should look alittle deeper into their eyes to see if the soul is real or is just a shadow. Think about it a bit and you will understand. Till next year, be good and be safe. | |
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| Where have all the True and Honest Guys Gone?
Posted: 12/25/2007 7:23:32 AM | This brings up the discussion:
I want a man but not a caring man because that is whimpy.
No woman likes a nice guy, I know I am a perfect example of a nice guy and hey ain't no one knocking on my door
Sigmund Freud before he died he admitted that, try as he might, he could not answer the question: "What is it that a woman wants?"
In today's world here are some facts;
1.The female need for attention is rarely matched by the male attention span.
2. Husbands continue to put career, sports, friends, cell phones, cars, laptops, parents, job and other women before them.
Based upon the above why do women seek out the above male? Is it the catch and then the ability to hold that catch.
Oh dear this would be good conversation for a new topic
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| Where have all the True and Honest Guys Gone?
Posted: 12/25/2007 8:47:31 AM | | Yep, we ARE here. It's just most don't give us the chance. It seems girls are looking for honest, decent men until they ask them out on a date and then the games begin. I personally don't want 'games'. I'll ask once, maybe twice and when I get the brush off or an ambiguous answer, I disappear never to ask again. You never know what might be good unless you give it a chance. | |
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| Where have all the True and Honest Guys Gone?
Posted: 12/25/2007 10:06:28 AM |
Where have all the True and Honest Guys Gone?
I think the problem is that most ppl looking for "true & honest" forget that being 'true' to yourself and 'honesty' can coincide with being an ***hole.
"true & honest" doesn't necessarily mean 'nice' or 'decent'. | |
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| Where have all the True and Honest Guys Gone?
Posted: 12/25/2007 10:51:49 AM | Dude, that was the funniest thing I've heard all week! Laughing my f***in' ass off, bro!
Practically every personal ad I read has that "true and honest" line in it, as if most women are justing reciting some line from Oprah or that asshat Dr.Phil, like desperate sheep. You mean, you don't want someone who lies, cheats and steals your whiskey? I took it for granted that that was what everyone was looking for; someone true and honest. I mean, come on ladies, we don't expect the "Seeking a complete jerk who gets drunk and punches me out cold" personal ad! | |
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| Where have all the True and Honest Guys Gone?
Posted: 12/25/2007 11:04:24 AM | | On line dating is like a big candy store. I dont know how many times I have made contact or have contacts made to me with ladies who really sound interested and interesting only for them to quickly disappear. The fact is that while showing interest in you they are continuing to "troll" for a better catch and you have taken a position as a "standby" just in case the newer catch doesnt work out. I dont get too excited when I do meet a new contact anymore. Its like waiting for the next shoe to drop. | |
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| Where have all the True and Honest Guys Gone?
Posted: 12/25/2007 7:33:22 PM | Rebel rouser said:
No woman likes a nice guy, I know I am a perfect example of a nice guy and hey ain't no one knocking on my door
Absolutely no offense intended RR, but while you may be a nice guy, you're still a married nice guy; this could be the reason the ladies aren't beating down your door. Once you sign your divorce papers and can change your marital status to divorced, your pole will probably reel in a lot more fish, though there are still those that are cautious about newly divorced men as they don't believe they'll be ready to settle down again anytime in the near future. And they would probably be right about the majority of men who are newly divorced.
At any rate, you're upfront about your status and so for the purpose of the topic, this shows you to be one of the honest ones in this regard.
I think women actually want a lot more than just honest though. I believe women probably want loyal, reliable, and trustworthy most of all. What this means is that the man is someone to be counted on and his word means something. When he makes a commitment, he keeps it -- along with the truth and honesty part.
Women definitely aren't pushing these kind of men out of their bedrooms. And if they are, they're fools and don't deserve them anyway. These kind of men should simply bide their time and wait because there will be a slew of women coming right along in line who would give most anything for an honest, loyal, trustworthy, reliable kind of man. And just for the record, looks and money are a distant blip on the horizon in importance when a man shows himself to be someone she can count on. | |
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| Where have all the True and Honest Guys Gone?
Posted: 12/25/2007 8:50:13 PM | I have seen where the good ones are. They are right there in front of your nose. The truth is, what one woman sees as a good quality another woman might consider a bad one. To be honest I have qualities I don't like about myself that friends tell me are okay to have. I guess in short you have to determine what qualities you have and what ones you want and see if any one is interested in you as a whole with them. to determine what is bad and what is good is to big a challenge to undertake. To find someone who accepts them is much easier and beneficial over all. That is just a thought. | |
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chef07
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| Where have all the True and Honest Guys Gone?
Posted: 12/26/2007 4:37:32 AM | As I was reading what you wrote, it made me think of something I heard some time ago (even though I do not necessarily agree with it)
"Men give love to get laid; women get laid to get love"
Sounds kind of sad, but is it true? | |
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chef07
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Joined: 8/10/2007
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| Where have all the True and Honest Guys Gone?
Posted: 12/26/2007 4:44:33 AM | | I agree neotony...well written too. Nice honest true to heart guys always finish way behind in last place. Why, because we normally do not make 6 figures and do not. have all the toys and all the added drama ... blah blah blah | |
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| Where have all the True and Honest Guys Gone?
Posted: 12/26/2007 5:27:13 AM | wht did you start such a nehgative thread?= bitter?
get better and better luck next time!
be happyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy!    
most of the problem is with YOU, your attitude | |
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