| Where have all the True and Honest Guys Gone?
Posted: 12/26/2007 11:17:13 AM | true !!
And i can say the opposite, Where all the True and Honest ladies Gone?
My personnal Experience have bring me to think about the other side "" us ""
Where all the True and Honest ladies Gone? And is true , not all but I receive email from Women and When i read their profile they just look for the perfect men and the perfect life...........
Nothing wrong with that , but like me and probally lots of men , we have be very open & generous in the past with Women and one day you just open your eyes and realise you just made another mistake with the wrong Women.
I ask my self Why ? but we dont need to ask question to our self ....
The Life can be sucks sometimes but that make us very more strong for the future.
The perfect women and the perfect men not existe and i am sure about that .
But is together "" men and Women "" work together and build together what we call the perfect couple.
I was 8 years with the same women before i get divorced. She have just decide one day she need to move on and discover new think in the life 
After a while a men have a hit right on the face and that can change our mind " men "
So to be honnest lots of men are still honnest and are real gentlemen with the women we meet. but keep in mind you never know the experience in a relationship we ( men and Women ) have in our past 
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| Where have all the True and Honest Guys Gone?
Posted: 12/26/2007 1:28:00 PM | Absolutely no offense intended RR, but while you may be a nice guy, you're still a married nice guy;
No offense taken. This is the law I have to wait till after a year of seperation before I can apply for divorce. But that said I ain't going to waiting around because I wasn't labeled as divorced. So ladies this is your chance get in before the papers are 
Just goes to show being honest gets you no where.
But I have to admit that perhaps I did come to the wrong place
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| Where have all the True and Honest Guys Gone?
Posted: 12/26/2007 3:48:53 PM | | A true honest man, jesus is in heavin, if your honist and true to yourself, you will be to your partner, a guy who is untrue or unhonist in reality is scared and will play it to make it. | |
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| Where have all the True and Honest Guys Gone?
Posted: 12/26/2007 3:57:38 PM | the true honest guys???
What fucking world do you live in???
What are you nuts- be fucking happy with what you get- the
way the world is today- tires last longer.
curlygrl~
Edit- the guy below me actually has it right. You need to take some
responsibility when things dont go as planned - there are way too many player
threads- sometimes it is as easy as looking at yourself and seeing that its you-
it was just not a good fit maybe. Lets face it- we all go out on a limb sometimes
to make things work- we hope and pray they do but sometimes they just
dont- does not make the person a player- just means it did not work. | |
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| Where have all the True and Honest Guys Gone?
Posted: 12/26/2007 4:04:02 PM | many women protect their ego by saying he was a "player or whatever bad guy".
instead of admitting just he didn't like her.
or didn't want a relationship with her.
it's hard to accept, ladies, that "he was bad" - than look in the mirror and say: I wasn't good enough!
try that once.
be brave to admit if he dumped you because You were not good enough...
When a true and honest guy says that he's truly and honestly not interested in you, he then becomes a jerk.
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| Where have all the True and Honest Guys Gone?
Posted: 12/26/2007 9:23:40 PM | Luvin' it Hardcandylick - Wanna know the secret......Like the lies ..."You look so pretty in the morning" always worth a giggle that one. - Up there with "Have you lost weight?'"...cheats? If it's the IRS.....go for it! Steals my whiskey......fine - never liked the stuff but if you replace it with a bottle of white merlot.....all is forgiven....   | |
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| Where have all the True and Honest Guys Gone?
Posted: 12/26/2007 9:40:15 PM | We're out here, hiding in small caves were emasculated women have thrown us.
People need a minimum of 12 hugs a day just to maintain the growth they've achieved. Further growth takes even more. A long time ago, Scientific American reported on studies made with monkeys about this (was given it along w/a subscription by a 3-yr GF, so, not making it up).
OP, it's not you that doesn't get it, it's those U've had Ur experiences with that don't.
You'll be FINE, give it even more time. You already know how to select. Just wait a little till The World comes to You. And it will. God Bless, & oh, yeah, NICE! | |
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| Where have all the True and Honest Guys Gone?
Posted: 12/27/2007 4:24:24 AM | You want honesty? can you handle honesty.
eg
- Does my bum look big in this dress.
- Yep! Just big enough to be nice and grabbable.
- Am I the sexiest girl youve ever made love to.
- Nah. The sexiest was a prostitute I spent an hour with years ago. Good lay but would have made a lousy girlfriend. | |
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| Where have all the True and Honest Guys Gone?
Posted: 12/27/2007 8:46:35 AM | *rolls eyes* Where have all the True and Honest Guys gone? Really do you want to know?
No where they are still there right under your nose doing what they always do. Talking to the people who serve them as equals, helping people they don't need to help simply because they can, offering a supportive ear to their friends having troubles or bad days, helping people change tires, holding doors open, etc
You pass a million of them a day in some places and you don't even think about it. Because your so busy "looking" for them in all the places you wouldn't and shouldn't expect to find them. Hot or Not? you think your going to find a good guy there? The problem isn't that there is a lack of good guys is that or good women its that people have gone stupid.
You can't mail order a good person, you can't look at a series of pictures or a face and say thats it he's gonna be a good person. You have to see how they are to everyone the high and the low, you need to see how they act when they aren't getting something they want, you need to interact. If all you want to know is if they are hot or not... you will get what you seek for those who are "hot" more often then not burn that which they touch. Just as the child who is taught to understand fire by touching it so endeth the lesson. | |
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| Where have all the True and Honest Guys Gone?
Posted: 12/27/2007 2:04:14 PM | I know I'll get dumped on for this, but, oh well.
If you find that man after man isn't being honest / sincere / or receptive to your sweetness and kindness, odds are It's Your Problem... not the men.
(take a deep breath and keep reading...)
I don't mean this to be directed at you in any personal way... heck, I don't even KNOW you, do I? But, if you find that the same type of guy or behavior coming into your life over and over again, than it really is YOU who is seeking out that sort of man for whatever subconscious reason. You should probably look within yourself to solve this problem.
You'd be surprised how many people never see the connection that the same action gets the same reaction every time; they think that if they keep doing it, somehow the reaction will magically become the outcome they desire. If you change YOUR action, the results will change, but it's so much easier to blame "guys" than yourself.
It goes the same for ME, by the way, and all men... if you keep finding yourself in the same dysfunctional relationships, it's YOU (or me) not 'them'.
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| Where have all the True and Honest Guys Gone?
Posted: 12/27/2007 2:38:49 PM | Different strokes... me thinks? Some guys will reciprocate with hugs, how they feel etc, some don't... or at least not all the time. I don't know but i think you have to learn through time what that person is like, how they show their affection and so on. Then, appreciate them for who they are and not try to change them. Don't get me wrong, if a guy is treating you like shit then they aren't worth it so move on. Hope you find someone who will treat you well (if you haven't already).
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| Where have all the True and Honest Guys Gone?
Posted: 12/27/2007 11:48:17 PM | But, can we help who we're attracted to?
You're an adult and are capable of making choices just like anyone else.
The OP has honest guys all around her, like many of the posters have stated at length. If she gravitates towards losers, players, and the abuse the comes with it, she has much work to do on herself.
If she's willing to do painful self-examination. | |
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| Where have all the True and Honest Guys Gone?
Posted: 12/28/2007 2:53:38 PM | Here! But, girls never want them as their seen as too "boring","dull" or when they're not like that then they must be "weak" or "desperate" simply for telling a girl how he feels or even for paying any attention to her, "ugly" cos he's not tall dark and handsome, "loser" cos he's never had sex or a girlfriend before cos all girls seem to think the same.............
Of course the main draw back of all this is that eventually the man gets so fed up he stops being "nice and honest" and simply turns into a "bad boy" or more to my taste i think as i dont believe in making perople's lives a misery "disinterestted male" who sees all females as a waste of time and shouldn't bother to ever be loved or thought of again....
Well, if girls really want nice and honest men then i should have had a hundred girlfriends or been married by now......neither has happened! | |
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| Where have all the True and Honest Guys Gone?
Posted: 12/28/2007 11:06:20 PM | | First of all, I certainly appreciate your question...your honesty is very refreshing. I can speak from experience to help answer your question of where the honest, romantic men have gone. I am a man who is a die-hard romantic. I love to give flowers, am demonstrative with my affection and have always been honest about that with those I date. One girl I met I was very interested in and at first we hit it off very well. She, in fact was very demonstrative about her affection. I started to give my heart to her, because she gave every indication she was falling for me also. All of sudden, she backed off...stopped talking, seemed less interested. That was extremely hard for me. We are no longer together. As a result, I am a little gun-shy myself...I and am much more cautious if someone seems interested. My advice to you is to be patient...the right one is out there. That is my hope and dream also for me. To all other ladies, don't reciprocate and give affection and attention to guy who is falling for you unless you are serious. It breaks his heart...and the same can happen when the guys do the same thing with the ladies. Good luck! I used to live in Montana...if I were still there, I would call on you! | |
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| Where have all the True and Honest Guys Gone?
Posted: 12/28/2007 11:17:48 PM | Yeah right. WHERE HAVE ALL THE HONEST WOMEN GONE! My relationship of about 1.5 yrs just ended recently because I walked in on my fiancee in bed with another man. She was a pathological liar and cheated on me multiple times during our relationship. She said she was a Christian apparently she lied about her faith too. I can't find any women on here who take their faith in Jesus seriously.  | |
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| Where have all the True and Honest Guys Gone?
Posted: 12/28/2007 11:29:23 PM | there aren't any "good guys".
at least, that's what i hear.
hay, did ya hear about the new meds for depressed lesbians?
it's called Trymenagain.
never mind,,,
a good guy would never say that. hee heee | |
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| Where have all the True and Honest Guys Gone?
Posted: 12/29/2007 8:40:36 AM | I still say ,we are out here ,and they are out there.
Just Gotta look with your heart and not just your eyes !...
Nothing worth while comes easy......
Come on gals start looking...
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