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 Author Thread: Why do women date mutiple guys at once?
 letsgoboating

Joined: 5/20/2008
Msg: 651
Why do women date mutiple guys at once?
Posted: 7/21/2008 5:37:59 AM
I have met a few women who have low esteam and looking for a high. I found out just reciently a woman I was talking with was dating many guys andwe all began to realize the head games and we all dumped her. she is on swinglife style, match.com, pof, adultfriend finder and my space . she has posted pics thinking the guys would never spot her. what a creep.
 nairdag

Joined: 7/15/2008
Msg: 652
Why do women date mutiple guys at once?
Posted: 7/21/2008 5:50:25 AM
But I dont do it and I dont think speaking from experience is playing devils advocate
 nairdag

Joined: 7/15/2008
Msg: 653
Why do women date mutiple guys at once?
Posted: 7/21/2008 5:51:47 AM
but isn't trusting one person one of the essences of love
 he1enoftroy

Joined: 6/30/2008
Msg: 654
Why do women date mutiple guys at once?
Posted: 7/21/2008 6:36:34 AM
I think this more applies to men...
 MissMewsic

Joined: 6/10/2008
Msg: 655
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Why do women date mutiple guys at once?
Posted: 7/21/2008 6:50:49 AM
It's against my nature to date multiple guys, but I am finding out that putting all my eggs in one basket is not working so well. They seem to spoil and then it's time to get some fresh ones or a new basket.
 Nic B.

Joined: 6/27/2008
Msg: 656
Why do women date mutiple guys at once?
Posted: 7/21/2008 8:18:20 AM
Wow! Someone dredged this one up from the archives. LOL!

I know that I date multiple people at the same time b/c I don’t want to limit myself. I know what I’m looking for in someone and if I meet more than one compatible person I want to make sure that I choose the one who is best for me. It helps to narrow down the selection. I refuse to put myself into a dating box and settle for less than what I want and deserve just to be with someone. I want to be with the RIGHT person and if dating more than one person helps me to find them instead of wasting an extended amount of time with the wrong person for me (though they may be great guys), then I prefer to date more than one person.
 Orionican

Joined: 6/21/2008
Msg: 657
Why do women date mutiple guys at once?
Posted: 7/21/2008 11:05:35 AM
I don´t get it either...It´s not a game, is it? Personally I wouldn´t do it - I´m not a player.
 EagleEric

Joined: 11/2/2006
Msg: 658
Why do women date mutiple guys at once?
Posted: 7/21/2008 11:18:59 AM
The reason is they like to enjoy lots of co*ks of different sizes!

The Eagle
 Eggs And Toast

Joined: 6/13/2008
Msg: 659
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Why do women date mutiple guys at once?
Posted: 7/21/2008 11:22:04 AM
I would talk to a lot of people on e-mail, but if after the first date I felt strongly about a person I would make it clear that I was taken!
 cooldude

Joined: 4/26/2004
Msg: 660
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Posted: 7/21/2008 2:34:43 PM

It's against my nature to date multiple guys, but I am finding out that putting all my eggs in one basket is not working so well. They seem to spoil and then it's time to get some fresh ones or a new basket.


Some people end up over filling the basket dropping some along the way.
 MISTERRG

Joined: 9/11/2008
Msg: 661
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Posted: 11/18/2008 1:55:47 PM
Your friend seems to be too lazy and selfish to support herself to pay
for anything if she has to do that. I always look for someone who has
something more to offer than a pretty face besides watching TV and
spending a guys money. A definite user and a extremely immature
shallow person with no conscience just to get what she wants by running
over you even if you are just being nice to her. Then again there are plenty
of stupid guys out there that fall for girls like her, thinking that they will
get something more later. Hint: Observing their actions more than what they
say should tell you to stay away from them sooner or later.
 omari1

Joined: 9/27/2007
Msg: 662
Why do women date mutiple guys at once?
Posted: 11/18/2008 2:51:13 PM
I think it's high time we did exactly what the men are doing. I have wasted 4 years with someone who "doesn't want a relationship" stupid person that I am. No more....now I will date as many as possible to fill up the evenings. You men have made us like this. lol
 jayb2b

Joined: 9/29/2007
Msg: 663
Why do women date mutiple guys at once?
Posted: 11/18/2008 3:56:09 PM
cuz women want a a man that can satisfy them in bed
 El Efe

Joined: 12/7/2006
Msg: 664
Why do women date mutiple guys at once?
Posted: 11/18/2008 4:33:59 PM

Why do women date mutiple guys at once?


Those who can, do.

F.
 Blk_ArchAngel7

Joined: 12/21/2007
Msg: 665
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Posted: 11/18/2008 4:36:27 PM
because they are players just as much as we are that's why. And females get pissed at us because we do this?? well maybe if we got into the whole exclusive talk maybe we wouldn't be going around dating multiple women? just as much as women would do with men.
 Britney100

Joined: 11/8/2008
Msg: 666
Why do women date mutiple guys at once?
Posted: 11/19/2008 7:53:22 AM
We just got the idea from you guys doing it so often and with acceptance and condolance... so we joined in !
 ChinaShopBull

Joined: 12/27/2007
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Why do women date mutiple guys at once?
Posted: 11/19/2008 8:08:40 AM

We just got the idea from you guys doing it so often and with acceptance and condolance... so we joined in !



Women have been doing this since the beginning of time. Just because you're new to the game doesn't mean the game is new.
 Bobisherenow

Joined: 11/12/2008
Msg: 668
Why do women date mutiple guys at once?
Posted: 11/19/2008 8:21:53 AM
They do it for free meals, tickets, clothes, cars, gifts and so on....What do you think the first career for a woman was at the beginning of humanity?...it sort of involved dating more than one person in a way...If they did not marry or were forced to marry then what do you think their occupation was?? It is no different today..they are designed by nature to look for the next best thing. The trick is though to find a woman who will pay all of your bills and take care of you, so you can go fishing and golfing and have more girlfriends, but turning the tables on them is not an easy thing to do..
 ml456

Joined: 5/14/2008
Msg: 669
Why do women date mutiple guys at once?
Posted: 11/19/2008 8:55:04 AM
If I'm married or have a serious boyfriend, then I wouldn't date someone else. But if I'm not in any committed relationships, then I would date multiple men. There is no need to limit myself to 1 man when I'm not sure if a LTR will develop. I think people should keep their opinions open until they have a steady boy/girlfriend.
 ChinaShopBull

Joined: 12/27/2007
Msg: 670
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Why do women date mutiple guys at once?
Posted: 11/19/2008 9:02:14 AM

If I'm married or have a serious boyfriend, then I wouldn't date someone else.. But if I'm not in any committed relationships, then otherwise I would date multiple men.



I have multiple personalities... Does that count?
 Bobisherenow

Joined: 11/12/2008
Msg: 671
Why do women date mutiple guys at once?
Posted: 11/19/2008 9:18:46 AM
Dating multiple people just means you want more free meals. If I found out that a woman that I was "just dating" was dating other people instead of just me then I would never speak to her again...that would just tell me that she has no discipline, insecurity issues, or she is really not into me...Come on now, it would be a waste of time, money and effort.. Also knowing the fact that I could catch cold since she is dating more than one person and most likely kissing them and also me would just gross me out....that is just nasty...
 ladyc4

Joined: 2/14/2006
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Why do women date mutiple guys at once?
Posted: 11/19/2008 12:39:27 PM
I have multiple personalities... Does that count?

Well, if they all know each other/inhabit the same social circle, it could expose you to a certain amount of prurient gossip. Under no circumstances should any of your personalities be allowed to date one another,which I believe would constitute psychiatric incest, not to mention causing confusion at family reunions.
Cindy O
 ChinaShopBull

Joined: 12/27/2007
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Posted: 11/19/2008 1:27:19 PM

Well, if they all know each other/inhabit the same social circle, it could expose you to a certain amount of prurient gossip. Under no circumstances should any of your personalities be allowed to date one another,which I believe would constitute psychiatric incest, not to mention causing confusion at family reunions.
Cindy O


One of my personalities is always present. Her name is "Rosie Palms." She is an absolute slut, and will pleasure any one of my other personalities at their convenience.


Is that wrong?
 ladyc4

Joined: 2/14/2006
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Posted: 11/19/2008 1:47:15 PM

One of my personalities is always present. Her name is "Rosie Palms." She is an absolute slut, and will pleasure any one of my other personalities at their convenience.


Is that wrong?

Well, Mrs Palm and her girls are sort of the exception that proves the rule. I wouldn't say it was WRONG, but you might want to kind of be discreet, especially if you live in a conservative community. I can't say for sure, not being a guy, but it would seem like a real girlfriend,even just one, would be a bit more entertaining but that's just a guess on my part.
Cindy O
 James_in_SD

Joined: 7/3/2006
Msg: 675
Why do women date mutiple guys at once?
Posted: 11/19/2008 1:50:15 PM
So they can have good times.
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