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 Author Thread: Women who smoke are far more promiscuous.
 galonthemt

Joined: 10/31/2007
Msg: 26
Women who smoke are far more promiscuous.
Posted: 12/25/2007 4:47:52 AM
Well Merry Christmas.That's the dumbest statement I ever heard. It's akin to saying men who drink beer cant get an erection. I come from a time when nearly everyone smoked at some point. We must have had an awful lot of women running around looking for sex." Get outta my way.It's my turn with him" LOL

I'm 67 and can count on one hand the number of sexual partners I have had. And that's with a few fingers missing. But hey,spread the word..I'm a smoker playing catch up. J/K for those who take the forums seriously.
 davis_57

Joined: 4/26/2006
Msg: 27
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Women who smoke are far more promiscuous.
Posted: 12/25/2007 4:51:25 AM
Can I just say that this evidence is not relevant?

These numbers show a certain degree of correlation between two different factors... CORRELATION DOES NOT MEAN CAUSAL EVIDENCE

Do you honestly believe everything you see when it comes with numbers? for f*ck's sake... this is so stupid. You cannot make causal accusations based on standard deviations, averages and variations... did you learn nothing in school?
 ironmanlivesagain

Joined: 10/7/2007
Msg: 28
Women who smoke are far more promiscuous.
Posted: 12/25/2007 4:55:11 AM
you cant go by that statistic.women who smoke pot do cheat more.thats a fact and why?just like being drunk,your not thinking right and your going to do stupid things!cigarettes,no way.thats nuts!
 coffeenette

Joined: 12/16/2007
Msg: 29
Women who smoke are far more promiscuous.
Posted: 12/25/2007 5:10:44 AM
Just as any statistics, they only reflect a certain target group..
OP's stating the figures for this dating site (or that's the way I understand it).
This is probably even a little bit too weak to make generalizations about the women on this site.. There's no real verification of whether the information in the profiles of women taken into account is true. These are just conclusions made basing on some figures. I don't think anyone should feel offended by them. :-)
I have no idea if there's really something in these statistics or not. I'm not a sociologist and uless you tell me 70% of women on this site smoke and are looking for IE, I'm not jumping with excitement.. ;-)
I can only say, from personal experience, that the figures are not relevant for women I know..

Merry Xmas, whether you're a smoker/promiscuous.. or not.. ;-)
 Chrysostom

Joined: 6/4/2005
Msg: 30
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Posted: 12/25/2007 5:10:47 AM
And this, O' august admin, is why crowdsourcing the forum threads for deletion is a bad idea. Democracy empowers the ignorant. If I were their high school math or English teacher, I wouldn't have given most of them passing marks to graduate.
I have to strongly resist the urge to start scathingly lampooning the droves of... ah... "intellectually struggling" who've shown their true colors by lackluster information literacy skills in miscomprehending basic statements


Just because something is purported to be “well known in the dating industry” it does not mean it is factual. I take umbrage to your rude proclamation that “WOMEN WHO SMOKE ARE FAR MORE PROMISCUOUS” and I am offended by this post.

Faulty market research is not known for lasting very long. Try reading the whole thread next time.



HAHA! This is a really silly stat. A habit is just that. It has nothing to do with sexual promiscuity.

Coming from a silly individual who'd apparently rather stick her head in the sand rather than read.




NOT FAIR!....and NOT TRUE!...and shame on you!!!

That's nice. Did mommy and daddy finally teach us to stop lying on the floor, banging our hands and feet to get our point heard?




Needless to say, OP, you are stereotyping, even if it's with statistics (And most of us know that statistics can be rigged to say whatever you want them to say.)

The OP is not stereotyping. You are, with your faulty logic. Over 38 million people have AIDS worldwide according to statistics, but I could just be an America-hating liberal with a gay agenda trying to rig the number, right? Conservation of linear momentum works 100% of the time, but I might just be a god-hating evolutionist blasphemer rigging that statistic too, right?




And I do not believe that this study or any study is based on reality only skewed to get the answer the person doing the research is looking for.

So I guess you never take prescription drugs either, right, since the pharmaceutical companies are profit-driven, too untrustworthy to be taking their chemicals, doctoring every and any studies?




You Sir are a big joke i am a smoker and was with the same man for 33 yrs and never once did i look at another guy

Good for you. You failed critical reading 101.




i don,t smoke but this sounds ridiculous!Where do ppl get these ideas from?

Maybe from unfettered access to filter every bit of data that's ever passed through the POF program?




I don't really like the last grouping of data. It doesn't necessarily mean anything. Drawing the conclusion that "women who smoke are more likely to cheat" from that data seems erroneous.

Smokers being more likely to cheat is not drawn from the last set of data. Though I admit, I would like to see this market research.




Promiscuous women are more likely to be smokers ". Does that sound any better

That would be an unproven assumption though.




The only way it could be scientific fact is if they randomly picked thousands of smoking, anonymous women and surveyed them. Even so, there is a 3-4 % margin of error.

We have more breakdown than that from research psychologists alone. Granted, it would be nice to see some better citation. Margin of error is determined a function of sample size to total population; it is not absolute.



That's the dumbest statement I ever heard. It's akin to saying men who drink beer cant get an erection.

F in analogous reasoning for you.


These numbers show a certain degree of correlation between two different factors... CORRELATION DOES NOT MEAN CAUSAL EVIDENCE

No causal connection was made in the OP. Only a correlational one. The people you SHOULD be yelling this at are those I've cited above.
 aprincelyfrog

Joined: 7/25/2006
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Posted: 12/25/2007 5:20:44 AM
Ok... I can't resist... there is an old saying that this thread is just begging for... and I am typing this long preamble so what I'm about to say doesn't appear on my profile... LOL

It is said: "A woman that will put a cigarette in her mouth will put anything in her mouth."



Does anyone here realize that Marcus is just trying to get a rise out of people?
 MrVitamix

Joined: 8/26/2007
Msg: 32
Women who smoke are far more promiscuous.
Posted: 12/25/2007 5:34:37 AM
I wonder what that says about ex smoking women? were they more likey to cheat at one time, when they smoked?



maybe they are putting hormones in the cigarettes? LOL !

It's a dumb survey admin... I would not base any merit on it but it does have a element of humor.

 lovableladywanted

Joined: 5/14/2006
Msg: 33
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Posted: 12/25/2007 5:43:22 AM
To aprince- lets be fair you can say that about men as well hmmm. Cigarettes do kind of resemble a .....
 MrVitamix

Joined: 8/26/2007
Msg: 34
Women who smoke are far more promiscuous.
Posted: 12/25/2007 5:45:44 AM
does it mean that women with oral fixations are more likey to seek sex partners?


 aprincelyfrog

Joined: 7/25/2006
Msg: 35
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Posted: 12/25/2007 5:49:09 AM

lets be fair you can say that about men as well hmmm. Cigarettes do kind of resemble a ...

I suppose you could but I dont have those thoughts about men... LOL Now, a good looking woman with a cigarette does, on occasion, cause that little saying to float to the front of my rather simplistic mind!
 Tyeee

Joined: 7/6/2007
Msg: 36
Women who smoke are far more promiscuous.
Posted: 12/25/2007 6:08:25 AM
Well isn't this a fine howdy-do! Perhaps Admin has dreamt up a controversial topic for all the lonely fish to talk about and take our minds off the fact why many are in the pond to begin with.

I think nipoleon has something with suggesting

"Promiscuous women are more likely to be smokers"


Perhaps a woman who is more inclined to seek pleasure from chemicals such as nicotine is also more likely to seek pleasure from sex and can considered to be higher motivated to seek pleasure, or at least less inhibited with it.

Of course we cannot logically make such a generalization for many women will (and do) protest loudly, but it may apply to just enough women for the trend to be noticed.

It is with regret that I have noticed many fishies present profiles that are interesting and engaging on many levels but I note the deal-breaker; they smoke. Like other men here, I have difficulty with smokers in my vicinity. Even if they do the actual smoking outdoors, the lingering smell in their hair and clothes assaults my nose.

Tyeee
 El_Mariachi

Joined: 4/21/2007
Msg: 37
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Posted: 12/25/2007 6:50:48 AM
Now I've seen everything...

Stereotyping and generalizing from admin. Perfect.
 imaginings

Joined: 12/10/2007
Msg: 38
Women who smoke are far more promiscuous.
Posted: 12/25/2007 7:05:41 AM
I think it's the blue jeans. Women in jeans are more promiscuous. It just happens that women in jeans smoke more. That's a side-issue. Really it's in the jeans.
 dancecard

Joined: 3/19/2006
Msg: 39
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Posted: 12/25/2007 7:09:16 AM
I wonder what would happen if you used this same data in the same way but with one exception ~ you replaced smoking with ~ say hair coloring or weight control products and divided the results by dress sizes?? What might we see? or think that we might see? ~dar
 RVA916

Joined: 12/4/2007
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Posted: 12/25/2007 7:11:30 AM
Hmm...interesting. I'm 52 yrs old and have smoked more on than off since I was 13. I've been divorced nearly 18 yrs and have never lived with anyone since. I can't figure out how being a smoker makes me 'more promiscious' or more likely to 'cheat'. I'm impressed with your percentages (even more impressed that anyone would take such time and interest in such a thing), but I'm thinking it's more of a precieption of woman smokers. Personally, when I'm in a relationship, I'm loyal. There were some years when, if not in a relationship, I'd sleep around. However, I found that to be detrimental to my own self worth and stopped doing that. These days, if I'm alone, then that's the way it is until I meet someone special. Meanwhile, where are my damn cigarettes??
 tuguybear

Joined: 12/22/2007
Msg: 41
Women who smoke are far more promiscuous.
Posted: 12/25/2007 7:21:38 AM
Well if you've had five "committed" relationships.You obviously weren't very "committed" then were you?.
 Gwendolyn2008

Joined: 1/22/2006
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Posted: 12/25/2007 7:25:07 AM
I love to beat the odds.

I don't smoke and I am extremely promiscuous.
 littlesteven

Joined: 12/12/2007
Msg: 43
Women who smoke are far more promiscuous.
Posted: 12/25/2007 7:27:52 AM
The only conclusion I could posibly draw from your statistics is...women that are married or "living with someone" are far more likely to smoke than those that are single, divorced, or seperated. How that has anything to do with promiscuity, I don't know.

The only other thing your numbers show is that female members of this site are more likely to smoke than the general population. Again, it shows no connection between smoking and promiscuity, unless you are just assuming that members are more promiscuous than non-members.
 littlesteven

Joined: 12/12/2007
Msg: 44
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Posted: 12/25/2007 7:32:50 AM
The only conclusion I could posibly draw from your statistics is...women that are married or "living with someone" are far more likely to smoke than those that are single, divorced, or seperated. How that has anything to do with promiscuity, I don't know.

The only other thing your numbers show is that female members of this site are more likely to smoke than the general population. Again, it shows no connection between smoking and promiscuity, unless you are just assuming that members are more promiscuous than non-members.
 cuddleupnow

Joined: 7/19/2007
Msg: 45
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Posted: 12/25/2007 7:34:10 AM
Sorry but I have to disagree with you there. I have been a smoker for many years but have never and will never be promiscuous. Not sure where you get your data from but I wouldn't make a judgement like that based on site or government staistics. Smoking has nothing to do with sexuality or sexual behaviour so why should it make us more promiscuous than non smokers? I know lots of non- smokers who are bedhoppers and go from girl to girl or guy to guy without thinking of the effect it has on their partner.
 weaselontoast

Joined: 6/29/2007
Msg: 46
Women who smoke are far more promiscuous.
Posted: 12/25/2007 7:42:17 AM
A recent study also shows that, of all the acknowledged cases of space aliens who have landed on earth, 40 percent* have taken on human form. Of that 40 percent, 25 percent have also acclimated to the humanoid lifestyle, and being alien, naturally prefer the Northwestern hemisphere. Of that 25 percent, a solid margin of 30 percent are masquerading as young men between the ages of 25 and 31, living in Vancouver and posting wild conclusions on POF.

*Another 1% are disguised as weasels and often lounge about on slices of lightly toasted rye, according to an unauthorized survey conducted by the W.O.W.** Foundation

**Worldwide Order of Weasels

a well-documented, nonsmoking weasel
 cuddleupnow

Joined: 7/19/2007
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Posted: 12/25/2007 7:45:15 AM
Another thing, if women who smoke are more promiscuous then why did I, a smoker for some 35 years now, just spend a year without so much as a cuddle from anyone while waiting for my guy to come visit me here? I also spent over 10 years before that celibate in a dead marriage. Now does that sound promiscuous to you?
 AlienSecrets

Joined: 5/9/2007
Msg: 48
Women who smoke are far more promiscuous.
Posted: 12/25/2007 7:45:20 AM


weaselontoast!!! ssssssssshhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh - we're not ready for the reaction yet!! ssshhhh lmao

Statistics - sheesh! Did you know that 83% of all statistics are wrong 19% of the time? It's true!! I read it somewhere - google it you'll see!!


Are ex-smokers less loose than they were when they were smokers????


yes.
There is a reason for everything. When I smoked I was more promiscuous because more men hit on me. Apparently there is some myth that if a woman will put a cigarette in her mouth, she'll put anything in her mouth!
Now I know why men don't approach me since I gave up the butts .. sigh ..
As for pot making a woman more promiscuous Hungry maybe .. there's that oral thing again!! lol

Interesting XMas gift Marcus!!! lmao

A.S.is
 AliBabble

Joined: 10/16/2007
Msg: 49
Women who smoke are far more promiscuous.
Posted: 12/25/2007 7:46:03 AM
'Promiscuous women are more likely to be smokers ". Does that sound any better"

That would be an unproven assumption though


Only as "unproven" as the OP's research.

Gee Willikers Chrysostom! Aren't you L*I*T*E*R*A*T*E! Please regale us with more of your polysyllabic venting. Pleazzzzzzzzze! You are the voice of 25 y.o. reasoning anyways.

Thanks Big Fish for starting this fascinating thread. Maybe you could do some research on "Statistically Based Sweeping Generalities of Intolerance".

Sheesh, didn't you get any presents to open from Santa? RELAX!
 BDRT

Joined: 7/29/2007
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Posted: 12/25/2007 7:51:31 AM
And in the grand scheme of things, does it really matter? Most men who are fishing here who filter out women who smoke, aren't going to care if those who do smoke are promiscuous or not. And for those who don't filter out smokers, I highly doubt they are going to say, Oh, she smokes therefore she's promiscuous. It may be that the stats are true (I have no idea), but it doesn't follow that every woman smoker you meet is going to be promiscuous. I'm not sure what purpose these stats serve other than to get people's shorts in a bunch.
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