| Am i wasting my time here?
Posted: 5/14/2008 5:58:51 PM | | Why would you want to date someone who is much younger than you anyway? That's exactly what you get when you do that. People in their 20's are still partying. You need someone who's over thirty | |
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PSVT
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| Am i wasting my time here?
Posted: 11/24/2008 4:14:56 PM | Here is an update for you all......since I am sure you cannot function not knowing how things turned out!
I can't believe you people read all that shit! How embarassing. Yeah retarded romantic me took the girl back and tried to trust her. So I left the realtionship, moved out and was done. Ripped the band aid RIGHT off! I start seeing this other girl right away (I know, rebound, mistake....I get it) who was incredible. Cute, funny, sexy, killer body, all around fantastic. The old GF wants me back. She "made a mistake" and wants to prove she is not like that. I struggle with this for a few weeks and eventually dump the new GF to go back to this girl who wants to prove to me that she made the most "horrible mistake of her life." Sounds good right? She will be EXTRA nice to me and I have the guilt card too. Well things go ok for a while. I am asked to cut off all ties to the new GF cause she is deemed a threat to this relationship. Ties are cut and we work on making this work. A few months later the sex goes south.....hardly ever. This is not why an older man dates girls almost half his age....to never get laid. So that starts becoming an issue. then about a month ago the sex stops entirely. NONE. Torture, sleeping naked beside this young girl everynight and getting no where. So I talk to some of my models (I am a fashion photographer) and they suggest she may be cheating. This makes perfect sense to me and the signs start becoming pretty obvious. So we talk and I express my fears and concerns that she is cheating on me with someone at work. She is the Manager at a national Gym chain. I suspect her personal trainer. She denies it to the n'th degree. "You are paranoid" "That is crazy" and all that jazz. So 2 fridays ago I finally say this is crazy, lets have sex. I have needs you know. We have sex....afterwards I smell another man on my****(sorry if this is gross, not sure how else to word it). I confront her again and she blames her BC pills. The last time I smelt this odour from her was the last time she stayed out all night. I guess she just got smarter now that she got caught the first time and took her affair underground. But not smart enough to take a ****ing shower after being with another man! So I say that's it. I am done with this shit and we break up friday night, almost a year after the first "incident". So I am shooting at a club saturday and she says she would like to come hang out with me as friends. Now this is ONE DAY after we break up due to my suspicions. I say sure! As 10 o'clock approaches for us to head out, she is text messaging like a fiend. She then bails on me to "go watch a movie" with her personal trainer! I of course lose it and scream I knew it all along! She says there is NOTHING going on with her trainer and that he will have both his roommates there and that it will be a get together of friends. Well guess who comes home at 4 AM! I ask if his roommates were there and BIG SURPRISE, he was alone with her all night! I am so done with this woman. She also spent the next night with him as well will the wee hours of the morning, Oh and both nights....cell phone tunred off, for the second and third time since I have known her. **** this shit. Cheater....I would like to introduce you to the curb! Get OUT OF MY LIFE! I am done with this toxic person. Please don't tell me I told you so. I know that already!!!!!! Thanks for listening. | |
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| Am i wasting my time here?
Posted: 11/24/2008 4:22:46 PM | | she is 25? (She is in the drama stage!) she obviousely isnt ready to settle down to the type of commitment you are ready for. You allowed and enabled her to get away with the things that led to your breakup. Move on and hopefully you will find a woman who is able to know what she wants and is ready to give you what you are looking for, unless of course you like young girls who are always going to let you down and use you instead of a mature woman who knows how to treat a man. | |
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| Am i wasting my time here?
Posted: 11/24/2008 4:24:02 PM | From reading the first post, I wondered if alcohol might be more of a problem for her than faithfulness... evidently not. Ugh. Sorry you went through this!
And get some tests done... I know, you know that.
Better luck next time. | |
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| Am i wasting my time here?
Posted: 11/24/2008 4:47:18 PM | 
Enjoyed the story... the first time she did it, it was cheating, after that - it was you tolerating it, accepting it, and playing the fool willingly. Your phoney indignance and anger is too rich. Good show, good show.
And you could smell another on you... your too much. | |
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| Am i wasting my time here?
Posted: 11/25/2008 3:03:38 AM | Wow, what a drama king. Did you really need to come back to tell all of us that stuff? Nope, you didn't... you just wanted the attention.
A few months later the sex goes south.....hardly ever. This is not why an older man dates girls almost half his age....to never get laid. So that starts becoming an issue.
I think that says it all about you. You weren't ever really looking for a relationship with someone. You deserved everything you got in the end and I suspect you'll get even more since you want drama in your life. It has to be all about you and attention for yourself. I mean why else would you date a young girl? It certainly isn't for love as you made clear in your last story. | |
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| Am i wasting my time here?
Posted: 11/25/2008 3:35:40 AM | First off you should have listened to post #1 which would have saved you from this happening again.
Second people say the past should stay in the past which is one of the most riddiculous remarks I have ever heard. As you see history always repeats. Being 39 you should have the experience to know early on when a 25 year old is playing you, I think you are mostly to blame with how things turned out.
The last thing I want to say is I wish individuals would stop saying she's 25 as if that gives peole the excuse to treat other with disrespect. Age has nothing to do with respecting another person. | |
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| Am i wasting my time here?
Posted: 11/25/2008 3:57:45 AM | | I think the most ridiculous part of the story is the part of having a younger woman is like a guarantee for sex. Men are more sexual when they are younger woman are more sexual as they age. Having a baby sleeping next to you and yes 25 is still a baby is not a match for a man that is almost 40. Of course she is cheating on you of course she wants you too, hers is the generation of I want and I do not care who I hurt in the process. I bet you will take her back or even worse date someone the same age again. | |
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| Am i wasting my time here?
Posted: 11/25/2008 7:42:03 AM | I think drama king is being nice as well as those that "feel sorry". He put himself through this there is no feeling sorry. This is not a teenager, this is a grown man (I use the term loosely) of 40.
The only thing embarrassing here is a grown man allowing himself to be lead around on a leash. Yes, she had balls to go to a movie with her trainer, both of yours! You got exactly what you deserved. | |
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| Am i wasting my time here?
Posted: 6/24/2009 2:49:26 AM | live and learn... live and learn..to much of an age diffrence and heads in diffrent places you only get treated the way you let people treat you an just a final note.. your on a forum mate its all about reading the posts if you think its sad what you doin on here ????...we people might be reading this shit but end of the day its your shit isnt it..hope you have better luck in the future ..itll happen again if you dont learn from it
dont think it really fair you arranged a date with someone who fell for you chatting when you wasnt over your girlfriend an told her for'benifit of the doubt' so you hurt someone else who didnt deserve it...... | |
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| Am i wasting my time here?
Posted: 6/24/2009 3:14:25 AM | | Yeah she cheated on you, go out and have fun with girls and try not to take it all too seriously next time | |
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