| why do most man have a issue with their cum? Posted: 12/29/2007 2:36:27 AM | Maybe you haven't met and had enough sex with men. When you say "most" men, you are referring to the men you know,met, talk to. There are some guys out there that think sex is just about a 3 minute session of intercourse, him on top, her on bottem. Can you believe THAT????? | |
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| why do most man have a issue with their cum? Posted: 12/29/2007 3:31:04 AM |
I like my cum. Like to eat it out of her **** or swap back and forth from her mouth to mine. Don't mind eating another guys load out of her either.
WAY too much info...
I'm cool with getting my own in my mouth but wow... You are sure more comfortable with your sexuality then I am if you don't mind another guys load in your mouth even if it is eaten out of a girl.
I want to go use mouth wash now just reading that lol =) | |
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| why do most man have a issue with their cum? Posted: 12/29/2007 3:41:47 AM | for me, it is highly symbolic....not just my cum but any man's cum represents 2 phobias...being gay and also the innate danger of cum creating a pregnancy.....
I don't care if my partner swallows or not, no special satisfaction from that, although i can understand the mental pleasure of "making" someone do something they would prefer not to do....
funny, though, the thought of eating my woman after I cum inside causes me no issues, but then I am focusing on her and not on me | |
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| why do most man have a issue with their cum? Posted: 12/29/2007 6:26:04 AM | hi walts re: [Maybe you haven't met and had enough sex with men. When you say "most" men, you are referring to the men you know,met, talk to. There are some guys out there that think sex is just about a 3 minute session of intercourse, him on top, her on bottem. Can you believe THAT????? ]
i unfortunatly came across a few in - out = finished guys a very sad thing for them they don't know what sex is all about haha
and i sayd most because you can't generalise things there are a few nice man outhere who are not doing a runner when confronted with their cum imagine a girl getting disgusted by her pus sy? would you find that a turn on? | |
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| why do most man have a issue with their cum? Posted: 12/29/2007 6:30:09 AM | | Simply put... Because straight men have been taught to be very homophobic and getting male cum anywhere near a straight male makes them feel awkward and sets off the gay alarm (especially if near the mouth). However, if it's possible to make a straight male to see cum as silly putty I don't know... lol | |
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| why do most man have a issue with their cum? Posted: 12/29/2007 6:41:40 AM | | oresme,,,,,, I personally get disgusted with anyone(male or female) who are so closed minded they will not do some research about a subject or are not willing to experiment or try something different in their lives. Basically they bore the hell out of me. Some of the previous posts here on this subject reveal this ignorance that some have, not only about this subject, but more than likely everything in their lives. Again,,,,,very very boring. The people that "I" hang around are not, thus my comment on your "most". | |
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| why do most man have a issue with their cum? Posted: 12/29/2007 6:55:26 AM | | Think about, What guy wants to try his cum?, If his own made him happy, why would men need women?, Cum is meant to given from my man to a woman, No trying your own shit, I mean people do, but that's f*cked up people for you | |
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| why do most man have a issue with their cum? Posted: 12/29/2007 7:15:13 AM | What about eating **** after you have intercourse> And I have never been with a woman that won't go down on me after we have intercourse, thus tasting herself L | |
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| why do most man have a issue with their cum? Posted: 12/29/2007 4:58:37 PM | | it doesn't bother me if a guy isn't into it...but it does amuse me. i imagine the revulsion most men show to the idea of tasting their own cum is due to internalized homophobia. now before you guys get your undies in a bunch, i'm not saying that you necessarily have an issue with gay people, but rather that you have an issue with being perceived as gay yourselves...there is a distinction. lots of guys find it hot to watch a woman play with, then taste herself, or to go down on a guy after penetration and suck their own juices off his c*ck....but a guy will get all squeamish if a girl suggests snowballing, or otherwise tasting his own cum. i personally find it HAWT when a guy will do it, it shows that he's secure in his own sexuality. | |
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| why do most man have a issue with their cum? Posted: 12/29/2007 5:15:40 PM | ^^^ thanks for proving my point. how exactly does it make you gay for tasting YOUR OWN cum? you're only gay or bi if you want to and enjoy tasting other men's cum.
i wonder, do you think a girl tasting herself makes her lesbian, or is it a turn on? time to reconsider the rationale of your position. | |
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| why do most man have a issue with their cum? Posted: 12/29/2007 5:18:49 PM | | Nope, I think women tasting their own have issues as well. Turn on - no. A real turn on for me is when my woman is HOT for me - all of me, and not herself! | |
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| why do most man have a issue with their cum? Posted: 12/29/2007 5:29:51 PM | From reading previous posts from other guys, this gives a whole new meaning to loving onself.
The only time I've tasted myself was on her lips and tounge and this is as far as I'm willing to go on this particular subject. | |
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| why do most man have a issue with their cum? Posted: 12/29/2007 6:23:56 PM | | I wouldn't say I haven't tried my cum....since I often go down to finish the job..or kiss after a head job..but to intentionally try it! for what? I don't see any reason to do so. Maybe an ego thing.. | |
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| why do most man have a issue with their cum? Posted: 12/29/2007 9:42:34 PM | | This is an issue with me. I just can't. And I have told women that I can't kiss after that until she rinses out her mouth with mouthwash. And so far I've never met a women who didn't understand that. | |
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| why do most man have a issue with their cum? Posted: 12/30/2007 1:45:54 AM | Some guys are hung up on some locker room issues.
If one is *with* someone and sex happens to start in a dry place like the bed... then sex should end in a soppy, wet, gooey place like the bed. The more wet it becomes the better the fun was and will be again.
It's not like it was someone else's, so who cares? Well, unless you get hit in the eye or up the nose.
I don't know about the guy that liked it more than you did. I could not imagine walking in saying,"Hey honey watch this... whooooo... extra for my ice cream! Yummy!".
But hey, whatever... I'll just make sure I never get into your freezer! | |
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| why do most man have a issue with their cum? Posted: 12/30/2007 7:26:02 AM | to "kungfuguitarist" what is ridiculous about that question ? you miss the point its not about individual persons but the general cumphobic attitude
I can just emphasise again i do not want to have man running around eating mouthfulls of cum if they dont like it but i would find it a turn off if he would refuse to kiss me after a bj as if his c*ck and cum was something dirty! Like: " its fine for you to put your mouth there but don't come near me because i think its disgusting" | |
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| why do most man have a issue with their cum? Posted: 12/30/2007 7:31:31 AM | | lol Well I personally just dont feel any urge whatsoever to do anyting with my cum. To me it looks weird, smells weird and has an odd feel. Women have something that I think smells good, tastes good and has a delightful consistency. That pretty much sums up why I like one and not the other. | |
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| why do most man have a issue with their cum? Posted: 12/30/2007 8:10:35 AM | I don't understand that guys wouldn't try someone elses cum I wouldn't try some other girl p.But whats wrong with your own??
I have been talking to a couple of guys and even so they wouldn't say no to D.J and would eat a **** they would refuse to try their cum! | |
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