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Posted: 12/31/2007 10:30:43 AM | not SPAT ON never had that happen... Been licked and got spit on me that way... yeah... highly amusing.. XDDD
It happens..
well... drooled on once too... I don't suggest it unless you know the girl has a good sense of humor and you don't mind getting laughed at..  | |
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| spitting during sex
Posted: 12/31/2007 4:16:05 PM | | i think part of the appeal might not just be a degrading or s&m thing, but maybe its the feeling that your really tasting (especially for those with an oral type of fetish) the other person - more than you would if you were just kissing? i dont know. | |
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Posted: 1/16/2008 8:18:19 AM | People are just spitting out comments as they see fit in their own lives, unmindful of the world that lies outside their tiny realm of judgementalism. I have seen videos of people swapping spit when kissing for example. And I can understand how it can be a turn on for some people. Some people here are so "oopsi" as to think that it is demeaning to the partner. That would imply that bdsm is demeaning, or certain role playing are demeaning.
I find having sex with ugly people gross too. But you (people) are not complaining about that, are you? And I am sure that some of you feel that a good-looking person having sex with an ugly person is demeaning to the good-looking person. Where are your standards? It's the intention that determines what's demeaning and what's not. It's about passionate sex between two people, two people who may be in love with each other. Everything goes. That's just the depth of the passion.
I may find something gross or a turn on, that's a personal preference. We shouldn't claim something others doing as gross or demeaning based on our personal preferences.
Msg 53 pointed out something worthwhile, it's the feeling that you are tasting the other person that makes it a turn on in some cases.
If you can taste c*m, what are you thinking saying eating spit is gross. All these eating business can be classified as gross by different cultures and groups of people. And this judgementalism is the root of why we have so many conflicts and non-acceptance in our society.
You just need to go to a private fetish party and open your eyes to a whole new world of sexual intimacy.
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| spitting during sex
Posted: 1/16/2008 9:08:02 PM | Not a big fan of spitting. I find it kinda gross. Especially when they show someone spitting in the other persons mouth.
Eeeewwwww!!! | |
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Posted: 1/16/2008 9:55:45 PM | I usually spit on my fingers or let saliva glide off my tounge onto a girls'
nipple - my ex girlfriend used to love the feeling of it.... lol
I did see a porno where the guy fully spat into the girls' mouth while they
were having sex - it turned her on but hey, she's a porn star and she's
performing - not your average girl next door. I could imagine most chicks
would be fully grossed out if you tried it without permission... lol | |
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Posted: 1/16/2008 11:24:03 PM | I am often shocked at how intolerant people are of other people's preferences or kinks.
It is fine to say you don't like something.
I feel it is wrong, small minded, intolerant, and judgmental to say it is wrong for everybody.
You don't like something. Fine.
If other people like something you don't, why are they wrong? They are just different.
Vive la diferance!!!!! | |
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Posted: 1/16/2008 11:31:09 PM | | I would only say spitting should only be permitted if in fact it is used tactfully and to enhance the glide. ;o) | |
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Posted: 1/16/2008 11:32:05 PM | ^^^ TY!!!!
it's all about choice.
why worry about what others do if it doesn't fit in your comfort zone.
criminy!
live and let live | |
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Posted: 1/17/2008 12:00:16 AM | What the hell kind of pornos have you been watching? Sounds a little 2-Girls-1-Cup-esque to me. If a girl ever spit in my mouth...
...you know what. You've successfully ruined my night. Thanks a lot. | |
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Posted: 1/17/2008 5:27:28 AM | I wonder how many think it's OK to cum on another's mouth, but not spit??? 
WTF????
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Posted: 1/17/2008 8:00:33 PM | True - and when you're fully making out and French kissing - its not like
theres spit being exchanged while kissing. When you think about it - the act
of kissing is pretty f**king disgusting considering how unsanitary it all is
but no one says jack about that! lol | |
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Posted: 2/1/2008 9:48:31 PM | | I am going against the common grain here, but I enjoy when a woman uses her tongue on me, and even spits a little on me, either for a lil extra lube..or..just because! I find it highly erotic. I am not into dom/sub so it's not about that. I would never, ever just spit into or onto someone without any sort of prior consent, just since I realize most people don't like it and especially so in an unexpected manner. But I enjoy women's other body fluids, and since I would assume I have kissed someone that I am being intimate with, I fail to see how saliva is so much worse than vaginal fluid or semen. | |
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Posted: 2/27/2008 11:34:37 AM | | That being said I don't mind if she spits on me anywhere. Thing is, I won't spit on a woman unless its something she also likes. But if she does it, I would of course enjoy it and even more so if she did it unexpectedly. | |
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Posted: 2/27/2008 11:41:48 AM | | Spit is a good way to re-lubricate. Particularly when you been going at it for a long time and she's beginning to dry out. Now Spitting, which will require propulsion is in my book unacceptable behavior. | |
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Posted: 2/27/2008 10:05:56 PM | | That's disgusting. As is spitting on the other's genitals and using it as lube. Gross. | |
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Posted: 2/27/2008 10:24:35 PM | whoa, whoa, man stop talking about this, it is such disgusting!! | |
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Posted: 2/27/2008 11:34:16 PM | i'd smack you so hard, you'd fly off the bed. 
i think its gross....
unless you are down south and im in my  mood  | |
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Posted: 2/28/2008 12:09:15 AM | the only spitting i do during sex isduring oral sex and thats if im in a bad mood or dont really like the guy...lol
can somebody tell me what is wrong with what MATUREONE said, she said the only spitting she do is during oral sex with a guy she doesn't like. why the hell do women give blowjobs to women she doesn't like? actually it happened to me once, i had a pretty latina give me a brief bj but she said she said didn't like me. | |
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Posted: 2/28/2008 1:31:06 AM | | Never spat on a lady during the carnal pleasures. That's just wrong....I spit on my hand and then apply as needed. I agree great all natural lube for sure. | |
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Posted: 2/28/2008 4:02:08 AM | | I thought I had done everything? But no spitting ever. Hey to each his own. If you like it go for it. | |
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Posted: 2/28/2008 5:44:11 AM | I've had a few women who liked to pass my semen back to me, and then have me pass it back to them by spitting it on them.
I'm not a big fan of doing it, but it's one of those things I'll do for my partner. But just spitting? No, that won't happen.
And I never use spit as lube, for some reason that just makes sick. I think it's weird I'm so depraved but something like that bothers me! | |
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Posted: 2/28/2008 6:36:51 AM | | the porn industry operates to make money.they need new ideas all the time.spittin bein one of them. people will try it out thinking thats where its at but most wont enjoy it i think. personally.the thought of tasting my lover s saliva is actually a turn on .goin as far as havin his spit in my mouth would b more than i could enjoy i think | |
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