| spitting during sex
Posted: 2/28/2008 1:41:47 PM | I dont watch adult videos as a rule but have had to see and monitor some from the front desk of a swing club where I was working. Mainly to fix the video if it become stuck or put a new one in when one ended.
I saw alot of stuff on the videos that you just never see people do in real life...and believe me there was plenty of chance for voyeurism. Nope, spitting is not realistic. Sometimes I figure the people who put those video story lines together have to be high on drugs or if not that...perhaps mentally ill. | |
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| spitting during sex
Posted: 2/28/2008 1:45:33 PM | | This current fad of spitting on the vagina before entering it and spitting on a dink before sucking it is freaking GROTESQUE! I do not know who told the adult film industry that this was sexy, but they need to get over it. One of a number of reasons why I rarely if ever bother to watch adult movies anymore. Another reason is that dumbass bouncy music they always play. Yet another reason is the plastic-airbrushed looking actresses like Jenna Jameson who are so perfect that they are virtually sexless. Adult movies have become boring and totally uninteresting. | |
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| spitting during sex
Posted: 2/28/2008 4:37:55 PM | Drooling yes....spitting, no.
Dr. Weasel's Rx....
Stop dating Llamas. (oops. sorry for the weasel slobber) | |
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Joined: 2/22/2008
Msg: 80 | |
| spitting during sex
Posted: 2/29/2008 12:50:29 AM | yap... i do like it... its the heat of the moment ... snowballing is okay too...well wiht the last partner it was... it was awesome...
Again... it can't be done with any joe blow... but only when there is a comfort level between two of you so neither sees this as an act of disrespect...
p.s one of the posters said : mentally ill... OHH get the hell out of here...
Not everyone lives in the comfort of a missionary position.. | |
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| spitting during sex
Posted: 2/29/2008 1:29:37 AM | The only spitting I do during sexual encounters is in my hand, for obvious reasons.
If I got spit on or in my mouth, I think I'd be extremely unhappy. | |
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Msg: 82 | |
| spitting during sex
Posted: 2/29/2008 1:42:56 AM |
being said, spit is a main component in a blowjob. get that fellatio, not cunnillingus.
I have to agree with this. Fellatio requires slaiva in order to be good. Don't suck!!! Just let it glide back and forth in the saliva. A for cunnilingis, a little extra saliva can't hurt, it's wamr if transferred directly from mouth to clitoris, but spitting on it isn't cool.
Now, that being said, if that's what she tells me to do, I'd feel compelled to oblige. It seems more of a Domination thing, and since I'm, as of yet, uninitiated in this lifestyle I wouldn't know the first thing about it. To each their own, but definately communicate before you act, otherwise, you're liable to get your ass kicked. | |
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| spitting during sex
Posted: 2/29/2008 3:00:47 AM | I dunno about her spitting in my mouth, but on me in general would be kinda hot. Dunno how she'd feel about it, but yeah.
I dunno, I've never quite seen how it's demeaning, particularly if both partners are fine with it. The whole point of most kink and/or unusual content in the bedroom is that it's either "not proper" or "allowed" by most, or that it's allegedly just wrong. | |
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| spitting during sex
Posted: 2/29/2008 5:28:18 PM | | OP, by chance was that video entitled "Lovemaking for llamas" ??? | |
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| spitting during sex
Posted: 3/22/2008 5:57:17 PM | | Verzen, if you can't tell the difference it obviously makes no difference to you. | |
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| spitting during sex
Posted: 3/22/2008 7:01:52 PM | i actually like my partner to spit in my mouth while we are doin it, but it has to be animalistic sex, its taboo which makes it sexy, especially if the man loves to do it,,,,its not sick, its saliva its all over ur privates and whats the big deal, have any of u that knocked it ever tried it??
holla
carly | |
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| spitting during sex
Posted: 3/29/2008 5:39:37 PM | | OK, for any of you open minded people out there, here's something that you might find kind of fun. Have a glass of wine with you when you are making out. as things heat up, take a big mouthful. As your partner is kissing and tonguing your mouth, give them littel squirts of the wine in their mouth. You might find it rather appealing... | |
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| spitting during sex
Posted: 3/29/2008 6:48:29 PM |
give them littel squirts of the wine in their mouth. You might find it rather appealing...
Oh....... heavy sigh Cowboybt....... good with Grand Marnier as well. Yummy! | |
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| spitting during sex
Posted: 3/29/2008 8:02:26 PM | | OMG this reminds me of gossip I heard in the bar one night... there was a girl who went home with a new guy each week... believe me it got around... someone told me that she told one guy who she must have had issues with... because she told him to just spit on it... ewww I'll never forget that story and low and behold we have this thread... | |
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| spitting during sex
Posted: 3/29/2008 9:52:13 PM | | personally i think its bloody disgusting. I wouldnt like it done to me, so i defo wouldnt do it to a partner of mine. The only spitting that should happen during sex is if the girl is doing oral and...... - you get the picture. And thats if she doesnt want to swallow it... lol. | |
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| spitting during sex
Posted: 3/29/2008 10:18:28 PM | I'm glad you like, Libra.  Oh to have a fun mate... | |
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| spitting during sex
Posted: 3/30/2008 12:44:08 AM | Correction to my last post where I said a guy wearing a pig's head and latex suit getting a beer enema was gross.
Spit IN my MOUTH? I am gagging as I type this. Not in a good way. THIS is gross.
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| spitting during sex
Posted: 3/30/2008 2:44:51 AM | What exactly is sooooooooooooo gross about it?
If you French kiss somone you get their spit in your mouth so i really dont get what the big deal is.
I have never did this but i guess it could be sexy... with someone you love (not just some random person).  | |
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| spitting during sex
Posted: 3/30/2008 3:12:25 AM | I'm just imagining making an awesome loogie and spitting it in a open, waiting, wanting mouth.
Seriously though. This sounds like snowballing. | |
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Posted: 3/30/2008 3:19:46 AM | | From a "respect" standpoint there is a big difference between gently french kissing someone and violently spitting a giant wad of salava into someone's mouth. This isn't being "open minded" it's being disrespectful and gross. This is no different than vomiting on someone or going number 2 in their mouth. It's the same kind of fetish and it isn't an "open minded" thing, it's a deep rooted sexual and mental illness that probably should be dealt with. I'm all for trying different things but there are some weird social and mental problems that like to disguise themselves as "sexual experimentation" that cross the line and this is one of them. It's a minor one but it's still disturbing behavior. I realize that people that practice these behaviors will defend them to the death because most people with an illness or an addiction will never admit it's a problem so my words are probably falling on deaf ears. | |
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| spitting during sex
Posted: 3/30/2008 4:56:25 AM | | I'm no expert, but I'd guess they were spitting something besides spit into each other's mouth. | |
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Posted: 3/30/2008 9:02:25 AM | no, stephaniezowie, - just spit.
and to cw35,
there are plenty of people who think that any type of oral sex is very wrong and unnatural. some people dont appreciate being slapped on the butt during sex and for other people its very much a part of it. i dont claim to know where to draw these lines, but i dont think you should be so quick to label it "mental illness" either. its very easy to take your own preferences and turn offs and think of them as written law. and i think this is wrong. if something is not dangerous and is enjoyed by both participants,
even if its unconventional, i think we should be a little more tolerant and not rush to judge, label, or insult. and please realize, i am not one who has tried it. | |
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| spitting during sex
Posted: 3/30/2008 9:44:38 AM | | I say to each his own..whatever floats your boat just make sure its ok with your partner..personally..I do not like spitting or being spit on...another poster said something about the comfort level between two people and I think that says it all.. while some find spitting and/or snowballing hot and a turn on, Ive tried it n found that it makes me want to vomit..the end | |
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| spitting during sex
Posted: 3/30/2008 9:47:42 AM | Yeah, my fiance does that and I hate it. He spits on his "thing" to provide lubricant for sex (which, frankly, isn't necessary, being that I'm in my early twenties, not my early seventies).
I find it gross. He gets spit all over me, himself, and the bed. I tried to tell him politely that it was nasty, but he still does it. | |
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