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Posted: 3/5/2008 4:54:20 AM | | well i be damned!!! it worked,,,,lol maybe i should beg more,,,, | |
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Posted: 3/6/2008 3:34:19 AM | | northeast i have nothing agaisnt u becuase of ur color. in fact i have reworded it in my profile but regardless i know there will be people who still find fault no matter how it is worded. you know a really great guy i talked to all the time was a really good internet chat firend. he was black. we laughed and joked and had a great time chatting. so i am not a racist as some want to make me out to be. peolple dont know me to accuse me of being racist. if i were a racist i seriously doubt i would have ever had a black man online that i laughed and joked iwth daily. dont u agree? | |
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Posted: 3/6/2008 4:50:04 AM | | almondcookie get over the fact that u are half black and try to be happy with who u are instead of wasting all ur energy trying to fight against something that doesnt exist. if u got something to say to me do it here in forum do NOT email me with ur ridiculous bullshit. my profile is fine jsut like it is. if u dont like it ..well too damn bad..get over it. | |
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Posted: 3/6/2008 5:38:13 AM | We aren't allowed to quote from people's profiles in the forums.
I did you a HUGE favour. I corrected the spelling and grammar mistakes in your profile. I sent you a corrected version of your profile so that you could simply cut and paste it into your profile. This was more tactful than discussing it in the forum. BIG crime. People have been laughing at you and I actually felt sorry for you. If you prefer to look ignorant and uneducated, that's your choice. You're right. I should not be wasting my time and energy trying to help someone who doesn't realize they need help.
BTW, you have been misinformed. I am not half Black. | |
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Posted: 3/6/2008 5:41:44 AM | | dont feel sorry for me feel sorry for people like u who try to keep trouble going. my profile is not ur business to begin with. my profile will remain as i have written it whether u like it or not. its not me that needs the help. | |
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Posted: 3/6/2008 5:44:43 AM | I am not sure how doing something helpful is "keeping trouble going". Hmmmm. I have to think about that.
Anyway, my mistake. If you are comfortable with your profile the way it is, keep it that way. I am sorry to have troubled you. Enjoy the rest of your day. | |
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Posted: 3/6/2008 5:47:23 AM | | i am gonna keep it that way. i see nothing worng with it. i simply said what im looking for and its not for anyone to change it. i do not lie in profiles. period. and if ur apology is sincere than apology accepted. see i am not the bad person people try to make me out to be. | |
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Posted: 3/6/2008 5:52:08 AM | Absolutely. I never suggested you lie. I merely corrected the grammar and spelling. I also suggested that you remove the ages of your children so that you don't attract pedophiles.
Anyway, I was trying to be helpful. This is not the profile review section. You did not request a profile review. I do apologize again for having troubled you. Thank you for accepting it. Once again, do enjoy your day. | |
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Posted: 3/6/2008 5:53:34 AM | | you too. have a nice day. be safe. i do however agree to a point that their ages should not be mentioned but im asked their ages so often that i figured it would be easier to jsut add it so im not asked constantly. i get tired of hearing how old are your kids. well im off to work now so see everyone in the forum after work lol. | |
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Posted: 3/6/2008 6:08:32 AM | AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH
only in america the land of the moron the home of the imprisonned could you hear such patronising narrow minded shit....
Please swich your mind on and imagine the possibility that a black man can actively choose from a pool of women larger than all the black women without that being actively rejecting anyone...God unfortunately is a constrution of your dead mind..
So rather than it being preordained that whites are here to marry whites ..and blacks breed with blacks....we are all here by the same very scary accident.....  but you are forgiven ...you know not what you say.... you just need look at who or what it is that crushed your joy of life and leave it behind... | |
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Posted: 3/6/2008 6:11:23 AM | sory my previous post makes no sense till you read the christian i was responding to..modern technology confuses me ..could not work the quote thing.. | |
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Posted: 3/6/2008 9:02:42 AM | strangebunny:
sory my previous post makes no sense till you read the christian i was responding to..modern technology confuses me ..could not work the quote thing..
I have to ask if you share that sentiment about all Americans in general or just the one to which you were responding? | |
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Posted: 3/6/2008 11:54:00 AM | | i dated a blind lady once,,,,,she said i was the best lookin guy she ever felt.....lol | |
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Posted: 3/6/2008 12:51:29 PM | | I'd just like to say that everyone should stop fighting and love one another. | |
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Posted: 3/8/2008 10:55:32 AM | I feel the OP
Some of my best friends are racists... but of course you'll never see me with any of them.
I used to put mixed race on my profile... unless I feel black then I put black. Lately I've been talking like Richard Pryor and eating alot of greens and fried chicken and such so I put black back on my profile and included the following sentiment,
SORRY NOT INTERESTED IN DATING WHITE WOMEN UNLESS YOU'RE CHRISTIAN CONSERVATIVE REPUBLICAN.
(Unfortunately only liberal white women will date me.)
SORRY NOT INTERESTED IN DATING BLACK WOMEN UNLESS YOU'RE CHRISTIAN CONSERVATIVE REPUBLICAN.
(OK OK I'll date a democratic black woman who likes Obama over Hillary.)
SORRY NOT INTERESTED IN DATING BROWN, YELLOW OR RED WOMEN UNLESS YOU LIKE WHITE AND BLACK PEOPLE.
(Or unless you can cook authentic cuisine from your original culture.) | |
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Posted: 3/9/2008 7:46:29 AM |
SORRY NOT INTERESTED IN DATING WHITE WOMEN UNLESS YOU'RE CHRISTIAN CONSERVATIVE REPUBLICAN.
 Boy, Im excited! Ive always been spit at when confessing such attributes, never sought out! 
(OK OK I'll date a democratic black woman who likes Obama over Hillary.)
Doh! I knew it was too good to be true.. | |
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Posted: 3/9/2008 2:18:14 PM | Yes, judging is judging, and there is good judging and bad judging. When I choose not to go out with a man because I've judged that he is untruthful, lazy or in some other way lacking in character, I'm making a value judgment based on how he ACTS.
Judging an ENTIRE RACE to be un-datable simply because of their race is... how shall I say.... RACIST.
Kitten, you are without a doubt entitled to be a racist of you want to. That's the beauty of living in this country! Just realise that when you dismiss an entire race based on nothing more than skin color, you are going to have your shit called on. God bless America. | |
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Posted: 3/10/2008 9:26:16 AM | You know... I've known and grown up around racist families and tried to date women from those families.
I think that those men and women who out of not wanting to offend their families only date those within their own race or within acceptable racial and ethnic limits of their families... well, I understand and think that is OK and that does not make them a racist. I mean let's face it... we are not all of us rugged independent individualists. In my younger years I was asking quite alot of the white girls I liked if I was interested in them and they shared that interest. Only the semi-whealthy white girls with liberal families in my home town would even consider it. Being as that I was in the mid west meant that these types were few and far inbetween... but I have one who is my friend to this day. Now that I'm a CCRepublican we tend to argue alot though. | |
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Posted: 3/10/2008 9:54:25 AM | | I see it as a preference, much like guys who don't want to date me because I'm a few extra pounds or not athletic enough for them. You can't force an attaction that isn't there, even if you don't agree with it. | |
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Posted: 3/10/2008 2:38:45 PM | Total Agreement Here !!! I would appreciate it . Also any other restrictions , like age limit body type , hair. I prefer no picture due to privacy but just ask for one ! In other words . Give us a clue !!!
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Posted: 3/10/2008 5:13:18 PM | I hear you. You can be the greatest guy in the world, with the best future, make a lot of money to make sure your kids, and your future grand kids never have to worry about money, and you're still not good enough. That's my situation. It's how it is. In Islamic culture, muslim women cannot marry outside their religion. If they do secretly, they get slotted, and never to be heard again.
I know how you feel to get passed up like that. But, I'm not in any rush to get married and have 3 kids. Women are on a tighter schedule because of their fertility issues. After 30, having kids is a stressful thing. | |
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Posted: 3/10/2008 5:24:31 PM |
I am not attracted to dark skin this is true.To me in my eyes it's just not an attractive thing.
i don't know you personally, but that seemed like a racist ass statement to me. i would have something to say about that if i was white. i know plenty of people (ethnic) and they loathe white america. and i don't associate with them in my freetime. shutting someone out because of physical characteristics just isn't a good thing. regardless of preference.
hell i'd rather you judge me on my "datability" by my hair or my outfit rather than my skin color.
just rude. nobody said list what turns you off, that was very out there. please don't tell me you're going to promote that! 
anyways. i think its not racism, but if you're going to not TRY to make a good relationship with someone simply based on skin color,(if the opportunity came along) something uncontrolable since birth (unlike hair color and tans), you really don't wanna be with someone that bad.
i really honestly hope you find someone who doesn't share your views. sometime it takes a second party to change people's views.
they always say love knows no boundaries, but for some of you it does. and it makes me sad so many people feel this way about it, this day in age | |
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Posted: 3/11/2008 1:22:15 AM |
i don't know you personally, but that seemed like a racist ass statement to me. i would have something to say about that if i was white.
Pftttt!! i am not going to be losing any sleep over what you believe me to be.Your right you don't know me.I also wont be losing any sleep over people who find my pale skin unattractive to them.According to every fashion magazine,television show and all other forms of visual media my pale skin is regarded as quite undesirable and to be tanned through the many tanning methods available immediately so that i will be found acceptable by societal standards.As i said no sleep will be lost to me over such things. | |
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Posted: 3/11/2008 3:57:18 AM | poor dear
the new minority... how sad... how painfully transparent... how predictably cliche'. | |
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Posted: 3/11/2008 5:25:19 AM | I am not attracted to dark skin this is true.To me in my eyes it's just not an attractive thing.
Oh sh1t...I better use that SPF 50 I would hate to get a tan! I always believe what the media and "fashion" magazines say hahahaha.
So if someone is Albino in any race that is acceptable? | |
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