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Posted: 1/3/2008 11:04:36 AM | Yes I do like "talk" during the intimacy... but it has to be focusing on making things more arousing... I dont want to hear:What do you want me to say? or kid talk or anything else...
I dont really think about what i want to say...the words just come when im in the moment... and hahaha come to think of it... makes him laugh...
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Posted: 1/3/2008 11:07:58 AM | | I like when my gf talks to me about what makes her feel good. After all, how else will I know. Tell me where to touch you and how and I can make it very exciting. Besides, I AM guy and would rather think with my penis than my brain. | |
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Posted: 1/3/2008 11:18:12 AM | I can say whatever I want, you dirty, naughty boy.
YOU had better not speak unless spoken to. | |
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Posted: 1/4/2008 12:52:43 AM | | Having confidence in yourself and your relationship sure helps...life's too short not to throw a few curve balls and miss the backstop. :) laughing is what i'm thinking about when i wrote this post...how to have a fun, wonderful time, yet be intimate and playful..how else to make it stay the same for many years.. | |
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Posted: 1/4/2008 12:56:02 AM | Convo during sex...the right ones are definately super hot, like she telling me how good it feels I telling her how beautiful she looks right then and how hot she is etc etc ya get the picture | |
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Posted: 1/4/2008 7:48:24 AM | | I know what you mean, and with the previous poster. There is something very arousing about a guy telling you how good it feels to be with you, and how you are making him feel and vice versa. It is usually a very soft toned conversation. Been there, loved that. | |
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Posted: 1/6/2008 9:05:45 AM | I've found where men ask the woman what she'd like in the heat of battle, the woman rarely responds with what she'd really like but may respond something like.
1. It's all good.
2. I like everything
etc.
There are men who are always looking for ways to improve and yet most women don't cooperate when the man does try..he's inquisitive..maybe he should 'converse' about things outside the bedroom..cause it's a rare woman who is comfortable enough to go into 'intimate' details about what she'd really like him to try..you've all been there.. :) | |
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Posted: 1/6/2008 1:02:00 PM | | Okay, read the whole thread. I'm sure I know what the OP was referring to and can't think of any more descriptive words than anyone else to describe it other than "intimate talk". I like to talk, I love to listen, so, yes, I like it, too. Examples of what I think she meant: if I were to quietly tell him how I'd been thinking of him in the afternoon when I was in a meeting and imagining how it feels when he (fill in your own blanks here). Or, "When you do that, it reminds me of when we (fill in blanks here)...." Not much experience but I liked it b/c it slowed things down a bit as he tried to hear what I was saying and I could see he was remembering, and it made everything seem ...?more intimate? when he talked as I moved closer and listened to his voice and, yes, imagined..... So, my answer is...Yes!!!! | |
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Posted: 1/6/2008 8:43:25 PM | I do not know if this is off topic or not but every man i am with asks me "Are you ok?" durning sex. Strikes me as funny.
KC....He is someone concerned about your well being and your enjoyment....I realize it can be an annoying question but realize the "heart" behind it. | |
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Posted: 1/7/2008 12:18:08 AM | I Know Exactly What the OP is Describing, its taking Sex to a Whole New Level of
Intimacy. It's being so Comfortable with Your Partner, That The Dance of Love and Passion goes to a Spiritual Level!!! Having been in a 3 Decade Plus relationship, there is Nothing Like it!!!! I don't think that there is anyway that this Dialog could ever interupt the act of Love Making, it could ONLY Enhance the Passion and Sensuality.
In No Way is this Degrading, its speaking the Lanuage of a Love that is Nutured.
It is a True Form of Becoming ONE with Your Partner. Its Erotica at its Very Best.
I Hope to One Day have that Kind of Love Again!!!!
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Posted: 1/7/2008 11:23:09 AM | LOVE, LOVE, LOVE to talk during sex. Like the dirty, sexy, erotic talk (..."fvck me baby") that isn't really appropriate outside of the bedroom and I also like the 'lovey, dovey, gentle talk ("oh baby I love you so much") kinda stuff too. Sometimes they can be intertwined and other times they only go with the kind of sex you are having. You know, sex vs making love.
Being able to laugh in the middle of sex due to something that was said or a song that started playing or a funny noise that one of you made is really liberating. You know that you are in a very close and unique relationship when you can laugh during a time like this. Sometimes you can continue with the task at hand and other times you just need to call it quits because you lost the momentum...but that's ok. You just pick up where you left off at a later time.
I'd rather have my partner tell me what he wants (talking during sex) than hope that I figure it out on my own. Screw that. It's a waste of my time and efforts and more importantly, you aren't enjoying it as much as you would be if I were doing what you like. Let's talk! Tell me what works. Conversely...be open to me asking for you to slow down or "don't stop...dear God...DON'T STOP!" | |
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| Conversation during sex
Posted: 1/7/2008 1:14:19 PM | | GreatAttitude.....I agree. Like you, I'd rather have my partner talk to me and let me know what he wants. Oh the dirty talk is great too, but to be able to have both (depending on if its sex, making love or.....where did the sheets go? sex! ) is really a turn on. But usually that kind of connection comes after you get to know a person a little better and are open to what they want and they to what you want. Its all good. | |
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Posted: 1/7/2008 1:51:15 PM |
every man i am with asks me "Are you ok?" durning sex. Strikes me as funny.
If every guy asks you this then perhaps you're doing something that suggests you are not OK.
Talking about sex during sex just seems a little too, "on the nose" to me.
It also depends on the kind of sex. For example, woman giving you a hand job and chit chatting about her day is very hot. Girl on bottom chit chatting about her day... not so hot. | |
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Posted: 1/7/2008 1:52:45 PM | Discussing the weather would be a bit off-base . .
but some passionate 'encouragement' would be Very stimulating . .  | |
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Posted: 1/7/2008 2:02:54 PM | Oh my gawd...give me someone that is talented in timing and language combined. The "How does that look, honey." Soft whispers back of forth of what we're going to do, how wonderful it feels and descriptions too. It's not a constant conversation, but talking.........yes, sir - serve it up and serve it up good. Talk back and forth about fantasies now and then as well.
The man with an ability to know how to talk and when is one intoxicating man indeed. Lord have mercy.... | |
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